Monthly Retainers? Does this happen? One girl, One Agreed "SALARY"?

[guest021411]

No offence taken DFK. The reason it may only work for a couple of clients is that the majority of hobbyists want to see more than one provider ....they like variety and nothing wrong with that. Prepaid would probably be more appealing to a hobbyist who prefers seeing one provider exclusively. Otherwise it would be quite expensive to prepay several ladies!

[am-a-pleaser]

I've tried this and found that I was coming up paying more and getting less. I didn't expect exclusivity and neither did she. She just expected me to pay her more when she came up short every month. (She didn't manage money very well.) I guess it could work with the right two people, though.

[Guest082613]

Originally Posted by Dragonfly

No offence taken DFK. The reason it may only work for a couple of clients is that the majority of hobbyists want to see more than one provider ....they like variety and nothing wrong with that. Prepaid would probably be more appealing to a hobbyist who prefers seeing one provider exclusively. Otherwise it would be quite expensive to prepay several ladies!

I think what DFK was trying to say in a nice way is that history has shown redeeming prepaid sessions with many ladies is like redeeming frequent flier miles. Once you've paid, you suddenly become a lower priority if there is another 'paying' customer that's looking to schedule the same time. Even though you prepaid, it's suddenly seen as a lost 'opportunity cost' if they turn down new business for money already paid. And nothing makes you feel like a mark then getting the run around when you someone suddenly has limited availability for a session you already paid for.

Like DFK, I'm not saying it's something you would do. But most guys are very wary to prepay unless the terms are VERY clear and it's somebody they've had seen many times.

[Nitwitboy]

I had a provider stay with me for a week once. It was like having a girlfriend. I also took a provider to Paris. Big mistake on my part. The week long visit was not planned for and it felt like a relationship. I suppose it was ok, but at the end of the week we both figured out it was not going to work. Travel with a provider is cool, but not to Europe. I sugggest Mexico for no more than three days. I remember one thing, we get to Paris and she informs me she does not like museums.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Nitwitboy

I had a provider stay with me for a week once. It was like having a girlfriend. I also took a provider to Paris. Big mistake on my part. The week long visit was not planned for and it felt like a relationship. I suppose it was ok, but at the end of the week we both figured out it was not going to work. Travel with a provider is cool, but not to Europe. I sugggest Mexico for no more than three days. I remember one thing, we get to Paris and she informs me she does not like museums.

You took an escort to Europe and did not discuss some of the things that you might do while there? I'm laughing. But just a little bit!!! (You should have frigging taken ME!)

Hugs,
Elisabeth

[Nitwitboy]

EW, She had been to Paris before and we discussed all the cool sights etc. I never thought that I should have mentioned the museum aspect.

[ElisabethWhispers]

I'm just sorry that happened to you. I've only been to Paris once and have tried several times to get BACK ... in no small part to go back and see my favorite museum in the world ... The Musee de Orsay. (I think that I spelled that right!)

What a drag. Dumb girl.

Hugs.
Elisabeth

P.S. To get back on topic, if ANYONE would like to put me on retainer, I can guarantee that I would treat you like a prince and not a frequent flyer customer!!! Shameless plug, I know!!! Heck, I'd even wear MAKEUP for you! Well, maybe!

[Nitwitboy]

Yes that is the correct spelling. I have a coffee table book from the museum. I love the impressionists.

[Hayden Hightower]

Geez...where do I sign up? LOL

[Guest022712-3]

Thats the one thing I had back home that I'd love to have here. I had a small handful of clients, 5-6 tops at any given point of time, who essentially paid me a monthly stipend. I never had to worry about paying my bills, and they never had to worry about not being able to schedule when they felt like it. Their stipend was based on the "typical" month and how much time we spent together.

Worked beautifully in my situation-- but yes, there would have to be a certain level of trust to hand over money to someone at the beginning of the month. MOST of my gents started out paying me by the week. I guess their thinking was that if I didn't hold up my end of the deal, they would not be out too much cash.

[Mr.Oneeye]

Good Evening Everyone;

I did this a few years ago & it may well have been the worst financial deal I have ever done.

If I tracked the period of our arrangement, the ratio of encounters to money given was in a perfect reverse ratio. I entered into the deal because I (foolishly) thought it would make life simpler......never been more wrong in my life.

Of course, I am speaking from a sample base of one, nevertheless (for me) it was a cautionary tale and one I have truly learned from.

You all have my wishes that none of you Gentlemen ever experience a similar situation.

Good Night
Cyclops

[T-Can]

Thought about it, still thinking about it, and wanna do it just to see if it will work. I know you gotta find the right chick and I wouldn't expect it to be an exclusive arrangement.

Next thing would be price.............I've figured up I could give up about 3K a month but again......gotta be the right chick.

[Luckyl]

It happens. But I personally wouldn't approach the matter. I'm not, nor am I interested in the kind of person to seek an isolation agreement within the hobby. If two people find themselves attracted enough to each other within the hobby, why not say screw the hobby and give it a whirl when and/if the opportunity is realistic? Then again, reality for me is not very opportunistic at this time. And neither is my level of trust.

[Iluvwomen]

I am in the same boat as CanDo. Could probably part with $4000-$5000 per month for the right girl. Just haven't found her yet but will keep looking.

[Guest082216-1]

For that kind of money, I can learn to talk with a higher pitch!!