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Originally Posted by DFK Hunter
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It is difficult to schedule an appointment with another provider when you knowingly have plans. The best I've been able to do is have a good relationship with several providers for short notice appointments and hope for the best.
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Originally Posted by breadtoaster
I usually don't have a plan B. If A does not work out then I usually skip the idea altogether. Occasionally though I wished I had a plan B but it has not been a huge issue for me.
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Originally Posted by Valentine Michael
AMPs make a good plan b.
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what they all said. plan or take care of yourself. but dont get too bummed out if you cannot have an appt. the world will not end and all you'll be out is a tank of gas and your travel time. go to a nice restaurant, bar, movie, club, shopping mall, home depot, something to make the trip worthwhile.
here's what i'd do if i were coming in from out of town.
i'd contact several women i'm interested in, get screened, and find out their consulting hours. i'd ask each of them "if I were in town and able to come visit, can I call w/ in a few hrs of visiting and set an appt?". that way, i'd have some options ahead of time.
i'd make my primary appt with woman A, then come to town.
if i wanted to up my odds of an appt, i'd setup another appt w/ a different woman for about 2-3 hrs later than the original appt. but i'd be prepared to visit both - i wouldnt want to cancel the 2nd appt cos my 1st appt came thru.
if woman A has to cancel or doesnt show [for whatever reason; dealing w/ that is a whole other thread], then i'd start contacting the other women i've communicated with previously.
if i couldnt setup an appt w/ any of them [it's happened to me a few times], i'd head to my friendly AMP and get showered and pampered.
but that's just me.
who the hell keeps a plan b on hand?!!? 
you are NOT talking about the plan b--next day contraceptive!! 
