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MissMollyMcGrath · 09-21-2010, 10:30 AM

Sometimes I want hardcore kink,sometimes I want to be the naughty affair.Plus now UTR(SO)cause I want to feel extremely naughty. So how to let regulars know you want to play with them with ultra discretion.Ways of showing availabilty w/o ads how would you find your naughty gals fellas?How can I hint my pussy is wet,waiting and wanting in a room somewhere w/o ads available?What would be your way to get that naughty girl you want to play with?

Ch@rlie · 09-21-2010, 10:56 AM

Miss Molly - you took the words right out of my mouth!!! For MONTHS I have been playing the quiet UTR game. Only recently have I been getting out more with my ads and a few comments on threads. Most of the times, my regulars remained faithful to me. Every now and then, they too like to venture out and taste the newbies. It can be hard at times, but I try and stay positive. I still limit myself to a few ads and discreet photos. I'm not ready to put both feet in the water yet.

Truthfully, I have come to realize that I truly enjoy limited companionship. I no longer feel rushed and wholeheartly enjoy my time with my new friends. I know some ladies have a email list where they contact their gents. Whether or not it works, idk. I personally, do not feel comfortable contacting my friends without them first initiating.

To top it off, we are in the same boat. How does one advertise without ads? It'd be interesting to read the responses, primarily from the gents.

MissMollyMcGrath · 09-21-2010, 12:58 PM

Totally agree with being a naughty gal to increase personal pleasures of life. Plus curious as to how to let fellas know w/o streetwalkin,barflying, and other sources I can't think of. Esprecially if your suppose to be the mistress. A better way for the fellas to know I can think of is learn your lady fully,yet how much is too much. Its so confusing having to make ads to get by and pleasured or not to look like a good naughty girl and still play it cool with your own life.Gents comments are definately desired?

Gumbo · 09-21-2010, 01:49 PM

instant messenger is a wonderful thing. i'm very very new to the hobby, but i chat with a provider on a friendly basis quite often. sometimes this works out well for both of us. i would love to get to know more and more people, as san antonio is a lonely place sometimes.

satexasguy · 09-21-2010, 05:13 PM

Wow, I really enjoy reading this thread so far. Interesting to read about the desires from the other side of the fence.

Don't know how you would go about finding new friends without advertising or going to bars. For guys, it's easy. We have ECCIE to go to! Sure does make life much simpler.

I guess one way for you to find someone to enjoy your company would be to look at the ISO section. Then you could contact that person.

Or, you could keep advertising here in hopes that your SO does not find out. I remember going to a b-day party of a well known provider on ASPD that invited other ASPD members and providers to her party. And, she had her SO there! Everyone that met her SO just said they've known her for a while. It worked for her!

Hey Charlie ... I've seen your BP ads and have always wondered about you. You look TGTBT until I read a review on you and was blown away.

I look forward to reading this thread to find out what others have to say.

yogi692 · 09-21-2010, 07:24 PM

I would love to meet either of you...pm through here as it sends messages to a hotmail account that i check through out the work day....I think most guys have a "play" account that only they know about.

Ch@rlie · 09-21-2010, 08:03 PM

@Gumbo - I understand your view about IM but I would not be one to use it. Daytimes, I too become busy at work. I wouldn't have the ability to carry a conversation back/forth with another. The other issue I have it the huge "what-if" factor. Meaning "what-if" a gent forgets to log out and my wonderful IM message appears.... "hey sexy!!!!" Good luck explaining that to an SO or even a boss. I don't wish that d r a m a upon anyone! I'm not one to initiate unless I am 100% sure it's ok. As for all others.... I wait for a PM or a phone call!

I think we are all a little off post here as the OP question was pertaining to the ideal rendevous. IMO, simply escaping from work and playing is excitement for me. It's the whole "Look what I'm doing that no one else knows about" secret. When I leave and meet my new friend, I get excited the moment I begin heading to my incall! If we have already been in conversation, the chemistry adds to the desire to meet!

yogi692 · 09-21-2010, 08:12 PM

Very good call Charlie....the build up is good but yes the ultimate meeting would be leaving work and meeting someone for a lustful lunch. is it the whole getting caught idea or just the fact that it is so good.

MsPrittiKitti · 09-21-2010, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by MissMollyMcGrath

Sometimes I want hardcore kink,sometimes I want to be the naughty affair....How can I hint my pussy is wet,waiting and wanting in a room somewhere...

omg....this weather has me feeling like this!!
im not utr, so i have no clue how to do it

well i know how to do it, just not that

tim_29m · 09-22-2010, 04:05 PM

Alot of times us guys just don't get the hints you throw at us sometimes...if you walk by my desk, smile at me, lick your lips, and discreetly hand me your soaked panties, I am following you to where ever!! :-)

As for my favorite/ideal rendevous?? If I didn't have a S/O...I would want to find someone who is into public sex...had a lot of fun with that in my younger single days!!

Mature Companion · 09-22-2010, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by tim_29m

As for my favorite/ideal rendevous??
I would want to find someone who is into public sex.!

Did you say public sex? What airport will you be in??

And boy, do I have a new position for us. Hope your hamstrings can handle it!

PaganGuy · 09-22-2010, 06:01 PM

RE: IM's, my laptop and yahoo are for my eyes only.. wife very much respects boundaries like that, and knows and accepts I have a couple naughty chat friends just as she doesnt mind that 75% of my FB friends are female and she doesn't know half of them. Anybody yahoos IM for my ID if yer ever real bored...

Ideal encounter? Hmm theres so many.. I love outdoor sex though, public or not so much, just in the open air.. in the pool is wonderful, if I ever end up 'home alone' in the summer at night and can afford an outcall...

Jaleh · 09-22-2010, 07:15 PM

My ideal rendezvous would be for one in the rain! Makes is so sexier when rain is pouring!!

I'd meet an ideal gent who's compatiable with me for an extended amount of time, arriving to kissing and all the catering you can take. A time totally devoted to you and the memories were about to forge. What I had in mind was me cooking your favorite 3 course meal for your lunch/dinner, a glass of champagne or wine whenever you first walk in along with small chatter until we were more comfortable. We can eat dinner and once done I'd have a bubble bath drawn for you so you can relax and soak! Light kisses and massages of course... Im a total romantic at heart, so it kinda comes natural for me! And the seduction begins there... Im open to how things would take off from here because it varies you know? But all the good and nasty things that you an think of would definetely be involved and whatever else I can do to make *him* happy! ;-)

If someone ever came and played out my fantasy without me telling them.. OMG I might fall into lust at that moment.. A Guy whos just as interested in me as I am him makes it worth it for me. This is my "hobby time" too since I work so much and school so I want a gent whos genuinly interested in making me happy as I am him and I want to have a good time like I would an ordinary rendezvous. Long story short.

Ive had so many experiences as the free spirit I am so its a lot Ive done and want to do but THIS above all makes the Perfect Tryst for me! I've yet to cater to someone is this manner exactly but am patiently waiting ;-)

MsPrittiKitti · 09-22-2010, 07:33 PM

u can cater to me like that any day!
oh wait...you said ideal gent

ivanroke · 09-22-2010, 10:37 PM

I used to be a courtesy driver so I know a lot of discreet public places for quick play. Mainly indoor parking lots, the SS building downtown is one of my faves. Any university at night, just find a empty room with "class cancelled" sign outside. As far as hook ups, myspace still works for me, just list yourself as a swinger.