Losing BBW status

[mssassy]

Okay Finally after a hard 6 weeks I am within about 20 pds of losing my bbw status .. I say 6 weeks because thats when I truly started working out and getting serious. (July 30th to be exact lol) I will always be curvy I will always big boobs and a big butt but I am so ok with that..

Take a look at my new pic and tell me what you guys think

[weeapple]

Verrrrrrrry nice indeed MsSassy *S*

[mssassy]

thanks weeapple. i so appreciate that... Going to get some new pics done this upcoming week and will post them on my web site.... Make sure you check them out

[papabear_in_arkansas]

Ms Sassy; there are some things I would like to say.... Congratulations on the new slimmer you. With that said I am wondering now that since you have chosen a healthier lifestyle how can you offer unprotected full service?

Below is a list from your website of just a few services you offer and the most shocking is at the bottom of the list. http://mssassydd.com/services.phtml
Anal aka Greek:Its a 75 additional donation. I provide the lube and all else is up for fun

Anal in the Shower: Like regular anal its a 75 additional donation .Its you and me in the shower .Its one of those amazing must try experiences

Asian: oral stimulation of the mouth to anus

Asian Cowgirl: Girl on top on feet

BBBJ: bareback blow job

Spanking

Prostate Massage (with or without toys. Your choice)

FS (no cover )


This community is for having adult fun, but is also for practicing that fun in a Safe and Discreet way. Safe encompasses more than just not getting ripped off, busted, assaulted, etc, I could go on for ever but will stop there . Included in my definition of Safe would be taking precautions to not knowingly offer unsafe practices, which could and will pass disease amongst the community members. I might be wrong but even condoms are not 100% Safe, but there is just a little more (insert sarcasm) protection then no condom at all. So can you please explain your intent with offering BBFS????

This had been addressed one time before http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=83613

Just one last thought losing weight won't help much if you contract an incurable disease, plus the community is much more concerned about our collective health than we are your workout schedule.

Any help you have in clearing this matter up would be greatly appreciated

[mssassy]

Papa Bear thanks for the interest in my web site . The anal is always protective.I regret that you thought it wouldnt be. I should clarify that I chose to offer uncovered its with my known regulars not newbies even if a newbie is known hobbyist. Its been my experience a known hobbyist is just as dangerous as a new hobbyist. Now if you would like more detail information please pm me and I will clarify in detail.

I will add this for general information purpose though I do get tested every 3 weeks made mandatory by my hematlogist (did i spell that right ???)at UAMS. Part of the reason he mandated that is because of this part of my job, part due to that nasty things I come in contact with on my normal job and the rest well those who see me know on a regular basis know.

Papa I didnt realize I had posted my work out schedule but perhaps I should and you can meet me work out with me. I mean you have to be prepared to work really really hard and its more then just an hour a week. I can promise you though I can get you into shape within 3 weeks providing you can handle it , dont tire out too easilyand can handle mutiple hours of constant movement.
AS FAr as getting heatlhy
I didnt get healthy for the hobby I got healthy because I looked at myself in the mirror one day and realized my ex abuser was still renting space in my head ( I am a domestic violence survivor) and he was winning. I was curvy and could stop traffic literally at one point and then he got a hold of me beat me emotionally , mentally physically. (hence my post on the fact that le should be more focused on abuse then the hobby). I said no more and I did something about it for me not for you guys not for money for me. Its the thing I encourage alll victims to do .

[papabear_in_arkansas]

Ms Sassy;

Just how does any of that pertain to why you think it's Safe to offer BBFS? There should be no excuse, I see your response as justifying. As a survivor of abuse, and an advocate, as you present yourself, I would have thought you would promote the safety of both escorts in general as well as the hobblying community in Arkansas.

If you have BBFS with a known regular that more then likely (I am 99.9% positive they do not) does not get checked regularly, your probability of infection goes up, then you, in that 3 week time span can pass on to other known regulars, it seems to be a never ending cycle, because soon as someone is infected it will not only affect you and them, but anyone else in their personal life and your personal life. Which is unacceptable in my opinion, but to each their own. I can only speak for myself but I want to protect not only myself, but anyone I chose to spend time with.

I don't believe I congratulated you on losing weight for your part time job in the community, or us in the community, but just for a new slimmer you, which unless you had surgery was accomplished through a healthier lifestyle, which IMHO you are putting in jeopardy.

[Mr.Chan]

Ms.Sassy,
Motives for engagement in risky behavior are own. Reason to stop doing so will be likewise. If motive is to increase number of client, will find more clients will avoid risky provider than seek out. Lady who do so will be looked on with disfavor in industry and estranged further from community. There is no completely safe way to have intercourse with stranger. There are only ways to minimize such risk. Unprotected is height of foolishness for provider and client. In population are many men and many women. Odds are almost 100% that both client and provider have unprotected sex with someone, even if that is wife, husband or significant other. To be most safe, only wise course of action is to assume everyone is doing so because they probably are, and protect self. Best service you do is advising potential client of own risky behavior, so he can avoid you.

[Fancyinheels]

mssassy, kudos on your admirable weight loss, although BBW is subjective and in the eye - and mind - of the beholder. However, BBFS is flat out unsafe and a really quick way to lose potential clients, at least those who care about their well-being. Although you're tested frequently, that's kinda like failing the auto inspection and then putting new brakes on a car AFTER you totaled it; too little too late, whereas if you'd done the maintenance beforehand you'd still be driving.

If you were in a mistress situation seeing one fellow only, and both got tested at the same place at the same time, you might get away with it, but the previous posters have done the math and explained the equation. Continue this and you may very well get an alert posted on you, get blackballed - and get an STD. Please reconsider.

[Lily Blair]

"Live every day as if it were your last and then some day you'll be right." ~H.H. "Breaker" Morant

[2wheels2fun]

I looked at the website after reading through this, and have to say that Fancyinheels is correct. Even if you lived only down the street from me (meaning convenient for me to see you), there's no way as a potential client I'm going to be making an appointment given your high risk services. And that's a shame, considering my love of big, soft boobies like yours.

[mssassy]

Thanks for everyones in put and after reading this and hearing others as well as discussing with my doctor (kuddos to him for being so patient when I was being so shall we say stubborn to be polite) I will be removing and discontinueing any and all services that are uncovered, unprotected, risky behavior. The changes will be on my web site today. Once again thanks for everyones input and thoughts. Thanks for the support on the weight loss... Keep posted for new pics in the weeks coming...

[urhuckleberry]

I have withheld any comments, but am happy to see your safety decision...

Congratulations on the weight loss. Keep up the good work.

Huck

[mssassy]

thanks and I will be changing the web site tonight had plans to do it earlier but had an issue with property that resulted in me being a babysitter lol

I appreciate the support. I will be taking more pics tommorow and have some more going up later on tonight ... Let me know what u think...

[mssassy]

changes to services on web site made. Sorry it took so long my "normal" job kept getting in the way ugh some days ....thanks everyone for your input and support. I truly appreciate it. New pic in place

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by mssassy

I will be removing and discontinueing any and all services that are uncovered, unprotected, risky behavior. The changes will be on my web site today.

Does that mean BBBJ and DATY is off you menu as well and you only cater to CBJ preferred clients only. Is DATY still permissable as a service offered for those clients? Or was it just the intercourse part? If this decision was primarily based on your doctor and a little less primarily on peoples responses here why keep BBBJ? There is an inherent risk in all activities we do. Its admirable that you have made the change. But ultimately this thread will still be around when guys research you. It may behove you to ask a mod possibly to delete so no mention of BBFS is attached to you.

Also its awesome your losing weight. I'm trying to do so myself and I notice a big change in my sex drive. But your photo cuts off the curvature of you hips and only focuses on the part of your body thats abs and stomach. From that shot its hard to tell if you are 20 pounds from being a bbw.

I wish you good luck on your journey.