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Beagle · 08-23-2010, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by EroticEmily

Sooo...beagle, you are following these domination threads pretty closely, huh? Feel like exploring your more submissive side?

No! Not leaving my comfort zone! And I'm leaving my armor on!

Guest061511-2 · 08-23-2010, 12:27 PM

[quote=Joel Goodson;527278]Honest answer...They kinda creep me out.

Thanks for the honest answer. Would you mind discussing why it creeps you out? If you don't, that's fine. I am just curious if it's because you fear what it is different or some other reason. I have seen your posts and you seem to be pretty intelligent and no nonsense. I wouldn't peg you for the type to just judge something because you don't understand it. I am not saying that is what you are doing. Just sheer curiosity... Again, obviously it's your choice as to whether you feel like going into the why's.

That being said Britney, to each his own. You can't expect to be all things to all people.[/quote] Absolutely, to each his own! Thats what makes the world go around. You like what you like and you can't help that, but I would hate to think that any of my regulars were scared to come see, because I have a fondness for kink, too! That being said, I am not going to stop my alternative ways! I just won't be practicing them on gfe clients, lol, unless they ask for it! That doesn't mean I don't still enjoy gfe; I just found some other really kinky stuff I like to do!

nuglet · 08-23-2010, 12:33 PM

way to go BB.. I'll try anything once and most things twice.!!

Guest091010-2 · 08-23-2010, 12:34 PM

Awww but the anticipation is half the fun!

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Originally Posted by Elephant

No worries... I'm more upset that I have to wait until I turn thirty to meet you...

Guest091010-2 · 08-23-2010, 12:49 PM

LMFAO.

Ok, back to Britney's question:
From my experience I've noticed that it's usually the men that are more aggressive in their business lives, and dominant in most of their relationships that seem to recognize their need to be dominated.
The guys with dominating shrews for wives that also have a less than ideal work situation seem to prefer GFE and a submissive female... when it comes down to it I guess everyone is just looking for some kind of balance. GFE is kinda the standard now so I'm sure a lot of guys start out with that even if what they really need is BDSM.

Sorry for hi-jacking your thread earlier Brit and thanks for bringing up this question! I'm curious to see what kinda responses you get!

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Originally Posted by Carl

Old guys like me have that effect on young 'uns like yourself, missy. I think it's because we're so old and boring and that it lulls you into the drowsy, dreamy land of Nod. The Costco-sized bags of Werther's Originals we carry around help, too. Go ahead, take a fistful. Don't be shy. That's what they're there for.

And if you start to feel like you're giving birth to a small dill pickle what with the curve and all the wrinkles and the funny little bumps tickling your cooter, don't worry. It's only a dream, sweetie. Just go with it and tell old Carl all about it after you wake up and rub the sleep from your eyes, my dear.

Guest061511-2 · 08-23-2010, 12:53 PM

I still remember one of my first encounters as a provider. This client became my atf, but the first time I visited him I thought he was a damn serial killer or something. He said, "this is my naughty drawer." Sheepishly, I asked him what was in the bottom drawer. He pulled out all these contraptions, medical equipment, and what not. He said, "this is the bad drawer! If we get into this one you will be paying me!" I was seriously scared. I wanted out of there asap! As time went on I became more and more curious as to the contents in the "bad" drawer. We tried some of the stuff out, but it was not for me. I found I wanted to do these bizarre things to him. I had heard about fetish/kink/bdsm for years in Dallas, but I never really got into anything accept for wearing latex, vinyl, and corsets until I moved here. I didn't really have a point here...just sharing a little story.

Guest061511-2 · 08-23-2010, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by EroticEmily

LMFAO.

Ok, back to Britney's question:
From my experience I've noticed that it's usually the men that are more aggressive in their business lives, and dominant in most of their relationships that seem to recognize their need to be dominated.
The guys with dominating shrews for wives that also have a less than ideal work situation seem to prefer GFE and a submissive female... when it comes down to it I guess everyone is just looking for some kind of balance. GFE is kinda the standard now so I'm sure a lot of guys start out with that even if what they really need is BDSM.

Sorry for hi-jacking your thread earlier Brit and thanks for bringing up this question! I'm curious to see what kinda responses you get!

No problem Emily. Thats what it's about right...sharing experiences and thoughts!

Baloney Pony · 08-23-2010, 02:06 PM

Howdy, Folks!

Well, as my employer keeps me in bondage, and my clients are a bunch of sadists...

I see no reason to pay someone else for such treatment when someone is already paying ME for it!

Guest061511-2 · 08-23-2010, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Baloney Pony

Howdy, Folks!

Well, as my employer keeps me in bondage, and my clients are a bunch of sadists...

I see no reason to pay someone else for such treatment when someone is already paying ME for it!

I needed that laugh! Your clients wouldn't happen to be a group of doctors would they? I've always thought many a doctor were sadists.

runswithscissors · 08-23-2010, 03:15 PM

I believe I am more in tune with the art of Sensual Domination.

For me, there is nothing more erotic than a woman who can take you out of your comfort zone with just a whisper of her voice, the pressure of her hands on your body; or using her whole body to hold you in place.....

It is a rather mentally cleansing feeling having a woman "take the reins" so to speak....

Joel Goodson · 08-23-2010, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by BritneyBangs

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Originally Posted by Joel Goodson

Honest answer...They kinda creep me out.

Thanks for the honest answer. Would you mind discussing why it creeps you out? If you don't, that's fine. I am just curious if it's because you fear what it is different or some other reason. I have seen your posts and you seem to be pretty intelligent and no nonsense. I wouldn't peg you for the type to just judge something because you don't understand it. I am not saying that is what you are doing. Just sheer curiosity... Again, obviously it's your choice as to whether you feel like going into the why's.

That's a good question; why it creeps me out. Made me think for a while...

It's not that I judge it as bad deviate behavior, but the desire doesn't make sense to me. It's something about the humiliation/domination thing. Regardless of which end of the boot heel I could be on. I suppose I'm just not wired that way. I tend to be protective of others, and I know I would instinctively push back if it were me.

I like to think that I have good instincts.

In your case Britney, I see you as a thoughtful gal that deep down likes men. You roll play as much for the thrill of how it turns on the sub and yourself, as much as paying the bills. Because of that image (whether true or not) I place you a bit outside MY image of a true dominatrix that would look upon me like some potential human doormat.

I do question however, that a gal wouldn't develop a disdain for men over time from doing it.

Elephant · 08-23-2010, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by EroticEmily

Awww but the anticipation is half the fun!

That's fine.. not sure if you could handle the Elephant anyway.....

Artie Lange · 08-23-2010, 03:55 PM

FYI if a chick is blowing you and someone zaps her red headed ass with a cattle prod, you don't get shocked.

blenderhead · 08-23-2010, 04:02 PM

There's not much that doesn't turn me on, but this is just one of the things that I never saw the appeal of. Don't know why. I'm not scared by it, I'm just no into it. I think I've already achieved that balance that Emily talks about. I'm neither submissive nor dominant.

Elephant · 08-23-2010, 04:21 PM

I found this in another thread "Human Sex Map"... Wow, some freaky shit out there...

http://www.humansexmap.com/