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69bobby69 · 08-15-2010, 07:16 PM

NSA meetings from Craigslist - would you?

flinde · 08-18-2010, 05:13 PM

I have. 5 years ago, it was easy. Put up an ad. Legit gals would contact you. Exchange pics. Meet at Jims. Do the nasty.

Batted about 800 with the gals that showed up at Jims.

Tried recently. Gosh the spam is awful. Not a lot of replies. Did put an ad up a few months ago. Had an excellent reply.

I find an ad that is straightforward, about who you are seeking, etc works better than cutsie or real explicit ad. But it doesnt seem like the fishing is as good as it was 5 years ago. Almost too inefficient nowadays--with the spam, lack of legit responses--to mess with now.

Maybe I'll try an ad here.

Mature, guy--looks a lot like the oscar winning movie star in the pic to the left, seeking two mature, bi ladies for occasional open-minded sensual get-togethers.

Prefer days because I go to bed around 9. My house (and pool) are usually available.

I get along best with intelligent, open-minded free spirits. Prefer 40+ (age, not breast size, silly). Multi-orgasmic a plus. Would be ideal if you are currently in a FF relationship that you wish to occasionally share with a mature guy.

To me, an adventurous spirit and lusty attitude is much more important than the outer cover.

Me? Fun. Kind of old. But very immature for my age. Heart OK though, and I have most of my teeth. Reply by IM. We can exchange pics and arrange to meet.

PaganGuy · 08-18-2010, 05:43 PM

I have before though the success rate is much less. Replying to ads Id say 80% you never get any reply back no matter what you say (Im completely honest granted that Im married and 39 and no Brad Pitt, but even without lying and just withholding any details and saying something charming and poetic trying to at least get some token reply for another email, its about the same), 18% get bot replies to check out a profile on a bogus website and 2% are real people who reply and exchange pics. 50% of those are guys trying to convince you to just 'close your eyes and think of England' and it will be just as good as a woman, 25% are very flaky and will exchange a few emails, maybe pics, sometimes even naughty pics and chat and then chicken out, and maybe 25% (of the magic 2% mind you), have ended up in meetings. One or 2 of those was dissapointing and a few others were very nice, some once time things and others that became friends with bennies that when schedules permit have been repeat very fun encounters. So if you're a gambling sort, and very very patient it can pay off , but for a sure thing I learned the hard way to bite the bullet and grab the wallet.

flinde · 08-18-2010, 05:54 PM

Pagan Guy, I agree. I'm not talking about batting 800 in terms of ad response, but about 800 with gals that you actually meet with at a Jim's somewhere.

Desperado · 08-19-2010, 04:37 PM

I did post an ad a while back. I was honest and upfront. I got lucky when I got a reply from a 21 yr old military chick that replied with "I'll let you do anything for .50" I was like !??! Sure enough, we met at my place and it was full on GFE. CFS, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and a nice massage after. One of the best experiences I've had in the hobby, although I didn't go through the normal avenues as we normally do. Right now, she's my ATF.

studlee · 08-20-2010, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by PaganGuy

So if you're a gambling sort, and very very patient it can pay off , but for a sure thing I learned the hard way to bite the bullet and grab the wallet.

If I were patient I'd just wait for my S.O. to get in the mood!

69bobby69 · 08-21-2010, 10:29 AM

Thanks for your input. My quest for input wasn't so much about posting ads as resonding to posted ads. Local ad posted recently for a wife looking and husband wants to watch. Great looking girl. Upon contact, she said hubby watches or joins in depending on the comfort level of the guy. I'm not sure if it is legit or not. Tempted but wary of the MFM (spectator) thing.