Why do providers...

[thatgirlbailey]

I agree ash the less drama the better.

<3 <3

[Kerchunk]

I hope you don't take this thread as me being a jerk Bailey. It definitely was not directed at you personally. A few months ago I might have been mad at you, but this has happened so many times to me now that I really don't take it personal at all anymore since it seems to be the standard practice in the community - that's why I didn't mention your name because I didn't want to bad-mouth you. Based on the reviews you sound like an awesome provider, and based on your communications you sound like a genuinely sweet girl, I know I just happened to be the unlucky guy that drew the short straw last weekend. I felt bad when I saw that you had posted in this thread taking the blame.

And I wasn't trying to rant (even though it may have sounded that way), it was a genuine question to the provider community. I am just curious as to why when a provider can't make an appointment the standard method by so many providers (definitely not just you) is to not email or call, and not reply to any emails after the appointment time has passed, not even the next day. It's as if any missed appointment makes the unlucky client toxic in her mind or something.

I really think that if a provider were to make an effort to communicate even if the appointment can't be fulfilled it would make her customers happier and it would make the providers happier (and richer!) too. A client who gets a NC/NS and is cold-shouldered afterwards will probably never make an appointment again, but a provider who communicates will encourage a client to reschedule the next time.

I'm glad you had a good and successful time here, I really hope my post didn't spoil it for you, that wasn't my intention - I tried to keep it anonymous.

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

Personally it seems mr. Kerchunk was attempting to taint someones name and reputation.

I did not get that vibe at all from his post.

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

maybe just maybe and I'm reaching here something made her feel uncomfortable?

That doesn't excuse a NC/NS. If she was uncomfortable she could have called and canceled.

[RobCarlo]

I hear you, It happened to me 3 times so far, all from visiting girls... We really dont have local girls, too bad...

[AshleyAshton]

Originally Posted by Kerchunk

I hope you don't take this thread as me being a jerk Bailey. It definitely was not directed at you personally. A few months ago I might have been mad at you, but this has happened so many times to me now that I really don't take it personal at all anymore since it seems to be the standard practice in the community - that's why I didn't mention your name because I didn't want to bad-mouth you. Based on the reviews you sound like an awesome provider, and based on your communications you sound like a genuinely sweet girl, I know I just happened to be the unlucky guy that drew the short straw last weekend. I felt bad when I saw that you had posted in this thread taking the blame.

And I wasn't trying to rant (even though it may have sounded that way), it was a genuine question to the provider community. I am just curious as to why when a provider can't make an appointment the standard method by so many providers (definitely not just you) is to not email or call, and not reply to any emails after the appointment time has passed, not even the next day. It's as if any missed appointment makes the unlucky client toxic in her mind or something.

I really think that if a provider were to make an effort to communicate even if the appointment can't be fulfilled it would make her customers happier and it would make the providers happier (and richer!) too. A client who gets a NC/NS and is cold-shouldered afterwards will probably never make an appointment again, but a provider who communicates will encourage a client to reschedule the next time.

I'm glad you had a good and successful time here, I really hope my post didn't spoil it for you, that wasn't my intention - I tried to keep it anonymous.

You're a good guy in my book! There is no harm in expresing how you feel about something; you are most definetly entilted to that. Of course you wil always have people who take it as a "bash", but you know your intentions had no malicious intent behind so all the waves will settle. I do hope you and Bailey fianlly meet and laugh it all off over a strong drink and some much needed dessert

xoxox

Ash

[thatgirlbailey]

I agree that it is not ok when a date does not go as planned sometimes unexpected things happen. I do apologize. I strive to give the best service as I love all the great gentlemen I have met and hope to meet more in the future.

xoxo
Bailey

[AshleyAshton]

Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

I agree that it is not ok when a date does not go as planned sometimes unexpected things happen. I do apologize. I strive to give the best service as I love all the great gentlemen I have met and hope to meet more in the future.

xoxo
Bailey

Girl, you're fine. You have already explained yourself abd that should suffice with people. Shit happens, ya know. Youcant control everything. You will be just fine. Just keep doing what you're doing

Come out and visit us sometime!!!

xoxox

Ash

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

I agree that it is not ok when a date does not go as planned sometimes unexpected things happen. I do apologize. I strive to give the best service as I love all the great gentlemen I have met and hope to meet more in the future.

xoxo
Bailey

Originally Posted by AshleyAshton

Girl, you're fine. You have already explained yourself abd that should suffice with people. Shit happens, ya know. Youcant control everything. You will be just fine. Just keep doing what you're doing

Come out and visit us sometime!!!

xoxox

Ash

I have to disagree. thatgirlbailey's post in the quote above is far more appropriate than her initial one. I applaud her for apologizing. The initial post had a lot of random reasons but no apology for the NC/NS.

[ReapTheReward]

Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne

I have to disagree. thatgirlbailey's post in the quote above is far more appropriate than her initial one. I applaud her for apologizing. The initial post had a lot of random reasons but no apology for the NC/NS.

Was going to let this one play out but are you kidding me? She was blatantly being bashed yet it was claimed it was attempted to be anonymous. Anybody with half a brain could put the details of location of poster and his claim of seeing two reviews, bailey simply defended herself and her good name. Keep it up morons and amarillo can retain her to ourselves, if I was her I think I may stick with the established abilene gents and stray far away from the drama ya'll seem to. Be thriving on. Boo hoo kerchunk something came up, you must be fairly new to this game we all play, people do have lives and life throws kinks in all appointments/activities/plans etc. She was very adult came out and explained and appologized give it a freakin rest!

[thatgirlbailey]

rtr thank you for the defense but I can stand up for myself. A simple mistake on my end. Maybe I can extend my trip next time.

[AshleyAshton]

C'mon y'all...there is no need to start with hostility. Please! There is already too much on it this board as a whole. Kerchunk spoke his peace and Bailey said hers. I'm sure this will all get resolved between them one day, no need to harbor ill will....it's a HOBBY board for tumbleweed sakes!

Water under the bridge

@ReapThe Reward, it's admirable that you are coming to her defense but as she stated, she is quite capable of handling herself. The name calling to anyone isn't necessary, we are all adults afterall.

Grain of salt at this point and better communication so these issues are avoided in the future.

xoxox TO ALL!!!


ASH

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

Was going to let this one play out but are you kidding me? She was blatantly being bashed yet it was claimed it was attempted to be anonymous. Anybody with half a brain could put the details of location of poster and his claim of seeing two reviews, bailey simply defended herself and her good name.

I still do not see anything in the initial post that shows kerchunk attacking thatgirlbaily. It is not absurd to post about a NC/NS.

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

Keep it up morons and amarillo can retain her to ourselves, if I was her I think I may stick with the established abilene gents and stray far away from the drama ya'll seem to. Be thriving on. Boo hoo kerchunk something came up, you must be fairly new to this game we all play, people do have lives and life throws kinks in all appointments/activities/plans etc. She was very adult came out and explained and appologized give it a freakin rest!

The apology was in the follow up post and not in her original reply. The apology was acknowledged and appreciated. This forum is about providers and hobbyists - it is not real life hiccups and problems. A NC/NS is going to discussed. Her initial post had a ton of reasons but no apology. Her follow up post contained an apology. Everyone seemed good with that except you.

Originally Posted by AshleyAshton

C'mon y'all...there is no need to start with hostility. Please! There is already too much on it this board as a whole. Kerchunk spoke his peace and Bailey said hers. I'm sure this will all get resolved between on day, no need to harbor ill will....it's a HOBBY board for tumbleweed sakes!

To be fair, the hostility is only coming from RTR. Everyone else has been quite civil. While the term "hobby" gets used, this is a business. Kerchunk had every right to post his opinion - especially in this area of the forum. He didn't attack anyone and he wasn't rude. RTR simply over reacted with his "attempt" to defend thatgirlbaily. Nobody is thriving on drama and nobody is being a moran.

[johnnybax]

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

Was going to let this one play out but are you kidding me? She was blatantly being bashed (bashed?? lol I think not. He stated a fact and asked a question.)yet it was claimed it was attempted to be anonymous. Anybody with half a brain could put the details of location of poster and his claim of seeing two reviews, bailey simply defended herself and her good name. Keep it up morons (calm down dude) and amarillo can retain her to ourselves, if I was her (We're thrilled that you're not) I think I may stick with the established abilene gents and stray far away from the drama ya'll (oh the ironing) seem to. Be thriving on. Boo hoo kerchunk something came up, you must be fairly new (so what, so were you at some point) to this game we all play, people do have livesand life throws kinks in all appointments/activities/plans etc.(Hence his initial question- why not make a call or send a text/email and give someone a heads up or at least an excuse...) She was very adult came out and explained and appologized give it a freakin rest!(Because he is the one overreacting, right?)

[cash69x]

Originally Posted by ReapTheReward

Keep it up morons

Where are you Pistol?


Take Ashleys advice and leave the bickering to the folks in Dallas.

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by cash69

Take Ashleys advice and leave the bickering to the folks in Dallas.

No Kidding! Baileys response or lack thereof is all thats needed. Gentlemen can make up their own mind as to the cause of the drama. No WK's needed to chime in to defend the heroine. From what I see, she is quite capable of defending herself!