I suppose that provider with a long history of posts is safer than a newly signed in person.
I also think that a provider with a number of reviews going back several months is probably a better bet than otherwise.
If you do meet someone for the first time with a short history then don't bring up the obvious (you both know why you're there), never provide condoms unless you absolutely know the provider (LE uses that to establish intent), never be afraid to turn around and walk away if anything, ANYTHING does not feel right. Don't talk, just excuse yourself and say sorry, and WALK away. If things go wrong and you are taken to the little room next door then you have not agreed to anything either on the phone, on email, or in person. They will try to break you down by talking about all the terrible things that can be done to you but if you never agreed to anything, they have nothing. Having the exact amount in your pocket for a date does not look good but it could be coincidence. Better to have more and all in one bunch. If you still want to hang around the provider if she is different than the photo then is she removing clothing? Is she removing your clothing? Is she kissing you in welcome? If she immediately launches into "what do you want to do", "how did you hear about me", "do you have something for me". Bad signs all. Tip your hat, excuse yourself, and walk away.
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