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wildman · 06-27-2010, 12:30 PM

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We talked 2x this week to confirm a 5pm meeting at my house last night. Called her again Friday night and she said that time would be great and that she looked forward to seeing me. I asked what she liked to drink, she said Grey Goose, so I bought a bottle. Well, come Saturday I get a text around 5 that says sorry can't get a ride, and I say, so you're not coming? Never got a response or anthing the rest of the night nor today. Didn't reply to text or answer calls. Pretty shady and unprofessional, but looks like she has a history of being unreliable (I should have known better). This was a multi-hour date by the way. $$$$$

Sitting at home alone on a Saturday night with a bottle of Goose isn't exactly my idea of a good time.

ez2plz · 06-27-2010, 12:43 PM

I feel your pain, but there is always another night. If she had kept the date, it would all be a memory now and the money would be gone. Now you still have the money and something to look forward to. It's not all bad.

swarmyone · 06-27-2010, 03:44 PM

Same sorry story. When will we ever learn?

BiggestBest · 06-27-2010, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by swarmyone

Same sorry story. When will we ever learn?

Not the same at all. She did let him know. At least he wasn't wondering what happened. She does need to get her ride figured out.

fjensen · 06-27-2010, 04:39 PM

Not quite the same, his only expenditure, besides wasted time (which does have value) was a bottle of Grey Goose. No gas costs, wasted time off work, and for some getting off work is hard, and fighting traffic. Nevertheless, a pain in the ass but at least he was forewarned.

swarmyone · 06-27-2010, 07:07 PM

My point is this. In a business setting, if you had an appoinment to meet with a client...and the client sends a text saying that they don't have a ride...then never responds to numerous texts and phone calls...would you still see the client?

Her behavior has repeatedly shown to be unprofessional. There is a pattern with this one and if it were me and my $$$$$, I'd look elsewhere.

BiggestBest · 06-27-2010, 07:36 PM

The point is that a NCNS is FAR worse than a No Show because you know what is happening. And you might have time to find someone else. Or do something else.

Still disappointing, but it is a huge difference.

Paige appears to be improving on customer service. Each person can choose to do as they see fit.

Danny117 · 06-27-2010, 09:00 PM

I would say LET IT GO

bigbirddog · 06-27-2010, 11:07 PM

If I ever fail to return a call or show up for a meeting, my business contact should assume that I am dead. That is the way that professionals do business.

There is simply no excuse for her behavior and she is definitely off my list. Those guys who are making excuses for her are just so much fan boy chatter.

BiggestBest · 06-27-2010, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bigbirddog

If I ever fail to return a call or show up for a meeting, my business contact should assume that I am dead. That is the way that professionals do business.

There is simply no excuse for her behavior and she is definitely off my list. Those guys who are making excuses for her are just so much fan boy chatter.

I am saying that her behavior improved. And that's a fact.

I don't see anyone making excuses for her. I wrote "still disappointing". No excuses at all.

Ladies keep "lists" too, and with an attitude like yours, you may find that you're off a whole BUNCH of them.

The good news is that they'll still give you a chance to improve your reputation (even if you won't give that same opportunity to them).

dirty dog · 06-28-2010, 06:17 AM

Well lets break it down, NCNS, stand for no call, no show, well she did call or text in this case, she didn't no show because she told you she was not coming, What this is, is actually a last minute cancellation. I think that is what BB is trying to say. While it sucks and is totally not acceptible. It is better than a no call /no show, which would leave you with no explanation. In this case you know she did not come because she did not have a ride.

Is this unprofessional, yes, would I not see her because of this, yes, I would cross her off my list. It is her responsibility to get to her appointment. Many of the girls only look at it from their prospective, oh well I missed an appointment, I am out the money.

So in a nutshell, to call it a NC/NS is not accurate, she called and you knew she was not coming. It is a late cancellation. This does not mean it sucks anyless, or that she is anymore or less irresponsible. By the way, I have never met her, and I have retired from the hobby, so this is not a white knight adventure.

tmichaels · 06-28-2010, 11:30 AM

out of all this we all can agree on that she is NOT RELIABLE!!!

BiggestBest · 06-28-2010, 01:04 PM

Wrong. I don't agree. She appears to be more reliable about calling than she was before.

Some guys have flexible schedules, others do not. Each person can decide for themselves.

wildman · 07-02-2010, 02:54 PM

Just wanted to follow up...

She texted me, apologized and we ended up meeting this week. Great person, really fun to be around...beautiful. No regrets and I will see her again.