Multiple O's

[AshleyLuv]

I am 23 years old and had my first O last December..most of the time it's a lot of work. Only the same 2 people can accomplish it!
My thing is I can't get past the first one because I'm too sensitive..I'd love to have multiple O's
So HOW do I get past the 1st one???

[DaChef]

Good question.

[bigbobftworth]

come have sex with me I will give you multiple O's. I know typical guy response.

[LAVixian]

you need someone who is gentle, if you are sensitive, then roughness will only hurt you. or you can practice with a vibrator by yourself.

[John Bull]

Hold off on the second try and then when you sense the super sensitivity is lessening, but not totally gone, use a girl on top position so you may control the action and the angle of his cock.

[Redsan]

If I can't give you multiple "O" I will
refund your money.

[california erin]

i know what u mean cuase for a while i was going thru the same thing.
you should do what la vixen said and basically train yourself with the vibarater becuase once you cum the first time you can change the speed so you can have a ride thru the first O and you can start working on the second one and it give you a chance to explore yourself and get you intune with what you like and what it take to make you cum so when you add another person you know what to expect and how to control your O'S for more O'S before you tap out !!!!! belive me when i got my first big O i was on a mission to keep them cumming even if i had to do it myself and its the best me time i could have ever spent wit myself !!!!!!!!!!!lol LOL YES I AM A FREAK but it feels so good!!!!!!!!

[China Doll]

I, too, have found that a vibrator helps. I am very sensitive down there, so if the same type of stimulation is used right after the first climax, it can be very uncomfortable! I have taught myself to be multi-orgasmic, so I might have some advice that could help you:

1) Train your body to get used to more than one orgasm in one masturbation session. Start out with a vibrator on a fairly high speed. This will numb you a bit so that you won't be so sensitive the second time around.

2) If you are with a gentleman (or a lady!) and want to go for two, make sure he knows that he needs to be gentle right after the first wave. Sometimes I insist that they stop altogether so that I can get through my normal refractory period. Once I'm over the sensitivity, away we go again!

3) Lastly, I want you to know that it took me two or three years to get to this point. I'm not as multi-orgasmic as some of the fine ladies here, but that's ok, because there's always room for progess!

[mikahranae]

I didn't have my first O until I was 25. I was not able to achieve multiples until a couple years ago. I agree with china doll's advice to train your body with masturbating. That's how I did it.

[gman44]

Originally Posted by AshleyLuv

I am 23 years old and had my first O last December..most of the time it's a lot of work. Only the same 2 people can accomplish it!

If I ever get over to you I'm pretty sure I can make it happen. I'm a wiz at daty just ask the austin ladies

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by geniusman

I'm a wiz at daty just ask the austin ladies

The phrase "Wiz @ DATY" is a registered trademark in Kansas City, geniusman, but since you're in Austin, I'm lettin' it slide... haha

Originally Posted by california erin

...for more O'S before you tap out !!!!! ... LOL YES I AM A FREAK but it feels so good!!!!!!!!

LOL @ tappin' out, Erin..! You count the first 10, I'll pick up the count from there... Smack me on the head when you're drained...

[awl4knot]

You didn't tell us how you came. The way you orgasm, i.e. the position and activity, can make a huge difference. Learning to cum in multiple positions may help you learn how to have multiple O's.

You now have a game plan. Get fresh batteries for your vibrators, schedule those hot guys and get to work. Multiple O's, here I come!

[AshleyLuv]

Yes, John Bull, you're RIGHT! The 1st time happened like this: Some oral to get my me relaxed and my clit sensitive..then a few positions, but when I did finally get on top, I felt it touch something, so I kept grinding on it and grabbing him, practically holding him down and when I was coming I could barely believe it, it was great! So with that particular person that is how it usually works

[AshleyLuv]

And, yes ladies I have some new toys and would love to use them on myself...I've tried in the past and felt awkward. It's time to put my new ones to use! Thank you all. Muah!

[Bliss]

I had my first (during intercourse) orgasm in maui. My husband (ex) and I were so relaxed during our first trip away from our two young children. I watched porn for the first time that night and it really got me going. On top did it, and still does. It's not so much an up and down motion. It's almost an angled motion.....like your chest starts near his face and you thrust downward towards his chest. I thought I was going to faint it was so great.

Sometimes we underestimate how much the brain has to do with an orgasm. You have to really be able to let go and lose yourself in it. Your mind has to be in tune with your body.