Hobbyist Age? Younger Hobbyists?

[The_Leopard]

Originally Posted by Smart

I'm definitely well under the "30" age. I've never had a provider that I've contacted turn me down for a session. I've been sad to read in their ads that they don't prefer guys under 30, and then I've moved on to the next one. But never outwardly rejected after trying to set something up.

Generation problem. We are too stupid to take care of ourselves as well as try to make ourselves at least acceptable.

Women around 28-32 right now, back in 2000, there were 19-22 year old that time, dated older men because guys like us back in 2000 were just immature.

Now, 2000 past about nine years ago, and a few guys are just the same now being in the range of 28-32 year old. I think the problem is that we let life hit us hard or maybe we have a problem trying to get women.

I know a guy around my age that has a problem with getting women every time. He gets mad at me when he ends up only finding girls under 21. Like 18-20 year old girls come up and talk to him. He will only get mad at the whole thing.

I think it's the swarm of young girls under 21 who wants to date guys that are 28-32 and are wanting attention. I kept getting all kinds of those girls as well, but I just treat them like little sisters, it's because either they are just friends to me than a potential date.

Most guys that are 28-32 try very hard to find a date or find someone to accept them because of their age. I had seen most failures from a few of those guys.

So if you are even in the range of maybe 33-40 or 41-47, then chances are you will get a small amount of losers in that small group of the age.

Sadly, it's not the fault of said person, it's their maturity level.

To be honest, I rather date women ranging around 30-45 or whatever. I don't think girls under 21, maybe under 23 would do me any good anymore. I want a lady my age.

[Sensual Sophia]

Younger guys, in general, really want to "use" their session time to the fullest potential. While older gentlemen may want to spend more time talking, or at the very least, have a tendency to be more gentle. Guys under 35, in my experience, are also the most likely to cause unintentional pain. They often don't know their own grip strength and in their eagerness, can be a bit rough at times.

This is not always the case, maybe not even 80% of the time.There are a lot of exceptions. I've had guys well into their senior years engage in a series of acrobatics that rival any porn star. And I've had guys in their 20's that want to be romantic and cuddle and talk about their feelings.

But when I know in advance that a guy is under 35, I eat my Wheaties and get ready to rumble.

Best advice I could give the younger hobbyist is to be sure to tell her to tell you what she likes and if she's uncomfortable. Some girls are not very assertive and refuse to say anything directly to the hobbyist, only to add him to her DNS list after the session. If you're going to go for an intense bout, do your best to listen/watch for signs of discomfort and ask if she's OK. And don't ever touch a woman down below with a dry finger!

[The_Leopard]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Younger guys, in general, really want to "use" their session time to the fullest potential. While older gentlemen may want to spend more time talking, or at the very least, have a tendency to be more gentle. Guys under 35, in my experience, are also the most likely to cause unintentional pain. They often don't know their own grip strength and in their eagerness, can be a bit rough at times.

This is not always the case, maybe not even 80% of the time.There are a lot of exceptions. I've had guys well into their senior years engage in a series of acrobatics that rival any porn star. And I've had guys in their 20's that want to be romantic and cuddle and talk about their feelings.

But when I know in advance that a guy is under 35, I eat my Wheaties and get ready to rumble.

Best advice I could give the younger hobbyist is to be sure to tell her to tell you what she likes and if she's uncomfortable. Some girls are not very assertive and refuse to say anything directly to the hobbyist, only to add him to her DNS list after the session. If you're going to go for an intense bout, do your best to listen/watch for signs of discomfort and ask if she's OK. And don't ever touch a woman down below with a dry finger!

Well, some of those guys are just bump and run. I am 30 years old, I need some love. I don't get it at all.

But the bump and run guys are the problem I was stating. They want a girlfriend, but can't find one because of their attitude of wanting it right now.

I would never have seen myself doing that anymore.

[VictoriaLyn]

I am a firm believer that life experiences trump age like Brittany said...By the time I was 25 I had experienced more things that no one of any age should but it also shaped me to be who I am...So to me age is just a number and its all in how you present yourself and the attitude you exude.I have never turned down anyone because of age

When I first started when the younger gents called they would say thinks like they were entiltied to freebies because the were just so good looking or that making me cum should be enough compensation so I can understand why some ladies have the plus 30 rule.......

[Guest052813]

I see clients of all ages! I tend to connect better with the older gentlemen, but I believe that is because we've shared some of the same experiences in life such as travel, moving, education and such. I have had a ton of fun with some younger clients as well... those sessions seem to be more date-like. I am 22 and I actually have a regular who is younger than me (rare, but true)!

[smokeswithwolves]

Well, this is all some good insight. My original curiosity was about the age policy some providers have and the general outlook on younger hobbyists. You've all helped answered those queries. Eccie rocks.

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

But when I know in advance that a guy is under 35, I eat my Wheaties and get ready to rumble.

Sophia, from all I've heard about your combination of brains and bod, I'll be seeing you sooner or later. But...I'm fairly out of shape and out of practice so you won't have to worry about the Wheaties. Maybe just a Luna bar...

Originally Posted by The_Leopard

Well, some of those guys are just bump and run. I am 30 years old, I need some love. I don't get it at all.

But the bump and run guys are the problem I was stating. They want a girlfriend, but can't find one because of their attitude of wanting it right now.

I would never have seen myself doing that anymore.

That makes no sense. If I want a gf, then I'm not going to be, as you put it, "bump and run." I'd be one of those guys cuddling and needing some love.

Originally Posted by bella_bee87

I see clients of all ages! I tend to connect better with the older gentlemen, but I believe that is because we've shared some of the same experiences in life such as travel, moving, education and such. I have had a ton of fun with some younger clients as well... those sessions seem to be more date-like. I am 22 and I actually have a regular who is younger than me (rare, but true)!

I actually have this problem with gals I meet out and about. No travels, no life experiences, etc. Just reality shows, drama, and doing that thing on the dance floor where you hold the camera at arm's length and take shots of yourself every 30 secs. then post it up on facebook. Try conversing with THAT!

[twinsound]

Originally Posted by The_Leopard

Generation problem. We are too stupid to take care of ourselves as well as try to make ourselves at least acceptable.

Women around 28-32 right now, back in 2000, there were 19-22 year old that time, dated older men because guys like us back in 2000 were just immature.

Now, 2000 past about nine years ago, and a few guys are just the same now being in the range of 28-32 year old. I think the problem is that we let life hit us hard or maybe we have a problem trying to get women.

I know a guy around my age that has a problem with getting women every time. He gets mad at me when he ends up only finding girls under 21. Like 18-20 year old girls come up and talk to him. He will only get mad at the whole thing.

I think it's the swarm of young girls under 21 who wants to date guys that are 28-32 and are wanting attention. I kept getting all kinds of those girls as well, but I just treat them like little sisters, it's because either they are just friends to me than a potential date.

Most guys that are 28-32 try very hard to find a date or find someone to accept them because of their age. I had seen most failures from a few of those guys.

So if you are even in the range of maybe 33-40 or 41-47, then chances are you will get a small amount of losers in that small group of the age.

Sadly, it's not the fault of said person, it's their maturity level.

To be honest, I rather date women ranging around 30-45 or whatever. I don't think girls under 21, maybe under 23 would do me any good anymore. I want a lady my age.

Holy crap. Please tell me English is not your first language.

[smokeswithwolves]

Originally Posted by twinsound

Holy crap. Please tell me English is not your first language.

Not important at the moment. Hell, Engrish was my 2nd language but now my vernacular is quite spectacular.

What I'm more interested in finding out is where TheLeopard spends his time that he gets swarmed by 18-20 yr olds.

Like, is it bad enough that you need to beat them off with a stick? Or even pick one up and use her as a makeshift human cudgel against the others? Does it look like the final battle in the 3rd Lord of the Rings movie, but with nubile 20 yr olds instead of Urukai? Because I need to be there.

[RALPHEY BOY]

I must be that 20% of over 35 who wants to have the full hour to enjoy as much as I can., not much into cuddling and talking..

Thats why I spent many a dollar on Mia of Westlake, she was 59 minutes of sex!!!!