What's MOST important to you in a session???

[Laurentius]

As she is a provider, and if I have booked her she is a darned good one; I don't really have to worry about whether or not she gives good BJs and stuff. Of course she does.

What is most important to me to make a session work is good conversation. I like a woman to be really bright -- and unafraid of offending me over a difference of opinion. And laughter, jokes, games, etc. are fine.

With the exception of one courtesan who can get me from zero to 60 quite quickly; most others need to give me a comfort level with them first. I simply do not arrive ready for sex. Intelligent conversation, preferably dealing with non-sexual topics, is a good way to get me comfortable.

The second most important thing is that she express herself as needed.

I once booked a lady for a dinner date. In advance, I asked her about her dietary preferences. Why did I ask? Well, because I care about that kind of stuff. Anyway, she told me she basically had no preferences. But later, through other conversation, I discovered she was actually adhering to a particular dietary regimen that excluded a lot of common things.

Yes, yes -- I realize that while "on the clock" it is arguably a provider's job to please me. But if she won't speak up about something so minor as a dietary preference; what else won't she speak up about?

If a lady expresses herself as needed; that makes my end of things a lot easier.

[mikahranae]

Originally Posted by Laurentius

As she is a provider, and if I have booked her she is a darned good one; I don't really have to worry about whether or not she gives good BJs and stuff. Of course she does.

What is most important to me to make a session work is good conversation. I like a woman to be really bright -- and unafraid of offending me over a difference of opinion. And laughter, jokes, games, etc. are fine.

With the exception of one courtesan who can get me from zero to 60 quite quickly; most others need to give me a comfort level with them first. I simply do not arrive ready for sex. Intelligent conversation, preferably dealing with non-sexual topics, is a good way to get me comfortable.

The second most important thing is that she express herself as needed.

I once booked a lady for a dinner date. In advance, I asked her about her dietary preferences. Why did I ask? Well, because I care about that kind of stuff. Anyway, she told me she basically had no preferences. But later, through other conversation, I discovered she was actually adhering to a particular dietary regimen that excluded a lot of common things.

Yes, yes -- I realize that while "on the clock" it is arguably a provider's job to please me. But if she won't speak up about something so minor as a dietary preference; what else won't she speak up about?

If a lady expresses herself as needed; that makes my end of things a lot easier.

I love that there are men that actually like for us to tell our honest opinions. I am very open and honest in my sessions (as long as it isn't too personal) and also like for my company to do the same.

[pauljacobs]

One of the things that is important to me and maybe others is the fact that, if i book a session for whatever length I decide and we agree upon, that is the time we spend together. The last two sessions I have booked with different providers, I have booked for more than 1 hour and left the required donation where requested for the time that was agreed upon. However, on one occassion, after approximately 45 minutes, the provider got out of bed, went to the bathroom and started getting dressed, thanked me for the donation and promptly left. On the second session with another provider, her phone started going off from her SO letting her know that her time was up and she had been there for an hour. The provider had already scooped up the donation and threw her clothes on then left.
I may not be the best out there but if I agree to make a donation for a set period of time, the provider agrees to allot that amount of time for our time together then I feel that should be the time together. JMTCW.

[Copierguy0]

3-words- "PASSIONATE FRIENDLY ATTITUDE"

everything else works itself out just fine.


CG

[trinnitreats]

I think the most important thing to accomplish in a session is to have the man leave with a smile on his face and a load lighter in his paints lol. To me if you don't connect with him on some level then it is kind of a waste. I love GFE love to make the man feel like he is the most important thing in the room.

Oh am if he can get me to cum then that's a perfect session

[DallasRain]

great answers everyone--Thx!!!

[Inlikeflynn]

Three words from me-PASSION, PASSION and MORE PASSION!!! Sorry, four words (LOL). Point being, if the only reason you are there is for the money then its pretty difficult to get into it. This is why I love some banter and communication before we even meet. I know the building of anticipation works for me and from what some ladies have told me, they like it as well.

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Gryphon

The fe
eling that she is truly happy to be with me and that we are both enjoying the time. Specific activities, while great in and of themselves, are not the most important aspect.

Originally Posted by SophieSimone

An intellectual connection, mutual satisfaction, lots of foreplay, pillow talk.

xoxo Sophie

Originally Posted by tattooeddragon

Most important in a session...

A lot has to happen to even *get* to what I feel is most important (for me anyway) in a session. If there is chemistry and good conversation (intelligence is oh so sexy!)...and if it is a nice relaxing atmosphere (No PSE for me please)...and if the woman is well groomed and smells oh so lovely (I shower and shave!)....

...then what I love the most is (going to be rather blunt here) eating that sweet pussy until she grinds her pelvis into my face screaming and creaming. I can do without the blowjobs frankly. I'm not going to pass them up (I'm a guy after all) but I guess that is what I miss most (sexually) when I am not in a relationship.

I get off getting her off. That is what is most important to me in a session. Well..right after not getting arrested I suppose...

Hmmm...maybe I should pose a question to my future dates. "So tell me....what makes you cum like a jackhammer?" I might get some really good answers...

Originally Posted by Ansley

Laughter

I don't know if it is common, but after really good sex I laugh.

All of these esteemed posters express truisms. Ansley goes to the core: this is supposed to be fun. The best providers know this. It ain't love; it ain't a soul connection - it's lust and fun.

Sophie concentrates on the personal and intellectual components of a great session. These components invariably lead to fun and laughter.

The dragon guy speaks to important aspects: DATY and having orgasmic responses. I know the mantra that it's about you,
but my paltry ego craves a real response to my efforts.

Gryphon makes the crucial point that it's not the activities but the overall vibe that is important.

I did a retrospective reviews of my favorite, all star providers and I was surprised at how they differed in age and traditional notions of beauty. The most beautiful (she is DDG) had a limited memo but she engaged me in some exquisitely carnal moments. Another was a true MILF who was on fire every second I was with her but we shared intellectual interests and laughed whenever we unclinched for more than 20 seconds. another favorite was a true coed and I loved her sweetness and developing carnality.

Finally, my ATF combined great beauty, a refined carnality, a quirky intelligence and a wicked sense of humor.

My suggestion is that you don't concentrate on the purely physical but rather combine it with a personal connection that the boys will remember.

[DallasRain]

very insightful feedback!!!

I think attitude is priority #1....I try to make my guy feel like a KING!!!!

[petiteassman]

attitude is number 1. While there be younger girls that look like they are out of the pages of playboy the combination of wit, spunk, sensuality [and agreat body] make Dallas my # 1 must fuck. I will not consider my life complete to i watch myself slide into her.To the next guy to have her i'd give my right nut to trade places with you

Originally Posted by DallasRain

very insightful feedback!!!

I think attitude is priority #1....I try to make my guy feel like a KING!!!!

[DallasRain]

mmmmmmmm petite I love a "dirty" man....one day!!!!!

[petiteassman]

EVERY day. one day you will actually be there when im having you. that will be a day i treaure forever.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

mmmmmmmm petite I love a "dirty" man....one day!!!!!

[DallasRain]

someone gave me a review and said "she is a dirty little slut and is not afraid to admit it"....wooohoooo thats me!!

I love a good mind blowing,toe curling session---the kind where I am smiling all day{makes people wonder what ya been up too...lol}

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

someone gave me a review and said "she is a dirty little slut and is not afraid to admit it"....wooohoooo thats me!!

I love a good mind blowing,toe curling session---the kind where I am smiling all day{makes people wonder what ya been up too...lol}

Makes me afraid to see you. I'm an ole fart who couldn't keep up with that pace. Limited performance ability here.

[DallasRain]

lol---dont be skeert--I can be tame as a kitty too...lol!!