What exactly does "open minded", "extremely open minded", and the such mean?

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

I always thought it meant she was into fetishes and some alternative play... at least that's what I mean when I say it.

[swallowitall]

most girls that claim to be open minded and kinky on here aren't either of those things. I ask some simple kink requests and usually get no response at all or "I don't do that"

when I ask for the more outrageous stuff I usually get blocked or "ewwww"
lol

[enderwiggin]

Originally Posted by swallowitall

most girls that claim to be open minded and kinky on here aren't either of those things. I ask some simple kink requests and usually get no response at all or "I don't do that"

when I ask for the more outrageous stuff I usually get blocked or "ewwww"
lol

Exactly. Open-minded to a hooktard means she doesn't mind too much that you're there and your penis works. Open-minded to a fucktard means she'll take her sister's fist in her ass. Apples and oranges.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

so now that we all know the definition I guess we can stop bitching about it

[texasjohn1965]

What? Over? Did you say "over"? Nothing is over until we decide it is! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Hell no!

The bitching will never be over.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

What? Over? Did you say "over"? Nothing is over until we decide it is! Was it over when the Germans (??) bombed Pearl Harbor? Hell no!

The bitching will never be over.

I guess not... Let the bitching commence!

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

What? Over? Did you say "over"? Nothing is over until we decide it is! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Hell no!

The bitching will never be over.

everyone blames the Germans for everything.

[Sweet N Little]

Open minded---Will do pretty much everything
Very open minded--Will do pretty much everything with you and your buddy at the same time

[Screen_Name]

Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

What? Over? Did you say "over"? Nothing is over until we decide it is! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Hell no!

The bitching will never be over.

Animal House - classic. Carry on.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8lT1o0sDwI

[RIMSeeker]

I didn't start this to be a bitching thread. I just want to try and figure out what it means. I get tired of wasting my hard earned money going to see a provider and not finding out what is on the "open minded menu" until after we are naked.
Reviews aren't always a good go-by. I recently saw a provider who's ad said open minded and had a review for quickie Greek at a stated price. I had to work Labor day and decided to call her. She offered Greek but wanted to dbl the session price. Not at all what the review said and the reviewer had 5+ reviews.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by RIMSeeker

I didn't start this to be a bitching thread. I just want to try and figure out what it means. I get tired of wasting my hard earned money going to see a provider and not finding out what is on the "open minded menu" until after we are naked.
Reviews aren't always a good go-by. I recently saw a provider who's ad said open minded and had a review for quickie Greek at a stated price. I had to work Labor day and decided to call her. She offered Greek but wanted to dbl the session price. Not at all what the review said and the reviewer had 5+ reviews.

If you're dead set on finding a provider who offers greek then your best bet is finding someone who has a consistent review history of providing it so that there are no doubts and you are fully aware of what to expect..

[Fancyinheels]

What she said.^

As I said, AFTER you pass screening you could ask about some things in generalities, like, "Do you speak languages and is tutoring extra?" I take it the provider in question didn't have a website? Most ladies spell out what they do and don't do pretty clearly there. Mine flat out states, "I'm an Irish lass, not a Greek one."

That's a deplorable upsell. I mean, most ladies do charge a wee bit extra, but double?

[RIMSeeker]

Not just Greek, other things also. I really don't believe that there aren't other guys who go into a session with a provider stating she is "open minded" only to be let down because the activities of open mindedness can't be discussed beforehand. I just wish there was a way for us to know before we walk in...
Even some websites I visit just state things like "Lt", "gfe", and leave it at that.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by tracer

Not cool Fancy, not cool at all. That request was supposed to be private.

Nothing's private on ECCIE, don't ya know? When you asked me to pick critters out of your pubic hair I had to draw the line.

Originally Posted by pyramider

Thancks Fancy, I am going to use that in my sig line today.

Vær så god.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by RIMSeeker

Not just Greek, other things also. I really don't believe that there aren't other guys who go into a session with a provider stating she is "open minded" only to be let down because the activities of open mindedness can't be discussed beforehand. I just wish there was a way for us to know before we walk in...
Even some websites I visit just state things like "Lt", "gfe", and leave it at that.

That is a shame, but ladies have to walk a fine line with being too open and drawing the attention of LE while still communicating service offerings, although I've seen the rundown on plenty of sites by established providers. I would think anyone just advertising GFE will be fairly mild instead of wild.

You can't see rates on the regular Showcases of ECCIE providers, but you can on the mobile edition of ECCIE. If they would open up the "Services" box so it could include menus instead of labels, that might solve the problem, especially if just for mobile viewing. Right now the choices are only:

Check My Reviews
Escort (GFE)
Escort (Limited GFE)
Escort (PSE)
Fetishes
Massage Only

And we providers can only choose ONE to describe ourselves, severely narrowing our parameters for attracting gentlemen.

What is "Limited GFE?" No kissing? Then you're not GFE at all.