sending naked pictures

[joshharris86]

Originally Posted by JSmith2010

Embarrassed to ask for nudes, but not embarrassed to pay a woman you don't know for sex?

Interesting.

Yeah, there's just something creepy about asking for nudes from a provider to me.
Maybe because there is plenty of opportunity for them to post them here, and if they have not I guess I can deduct they don't want nudies out in the ether.

[Guest083013]

.....the haggling about her pricing is being missed by many of you folks and to me --- after that --- she should have just pulled the plug as far as I'm concerned

[Guest051614]

Some guys will ask for pics cause rumor has it cops cant send naked pics, but then again some guys will ask for pics then not come see you cause now they can look at you and take care of them self there are alot of low lifes out there who will do that i learned that the hard way but it should be your choice completley if your not comfortable dont do it just try and get verified and do a showcase dont let them bully you into doing something your no comfortable with have fun and be safe!!!

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by JSmith2010

Embarrassed to ask for nudes, but not embarrassed to pay a woman you don't know for sex?

Interesting.

Well, yeah. The latter is an example of using your dick and the former of being a dick - two entirely different things IMHO.

[phillyintexas]

Two parts jump out at me:
"...after we had set a time for tomorrow (and haggled about pricing)."
"I won't leave till I get the picture." Now to me,, that's just rude."

If I we you I would have also passed. You should feel fully comfortable before you respond to this type of request. I don't know how you could have been in that situation. Stay safe.

[Likinikki]

Exactly right Philly, Dennisrn and JY! Haggling is rude...especially, if the provider doesn't initiate it; however, the other comment is just plain blackmail tactics! That's just all kinds of wrong!

Shelbi...don't ever let ANYONE bully or harrass you into doing something you're not comfortable doing. Most reputable providers do not even show their face...for security reasons. Some people are malicious and nefarious...they will do all sorts of things to create havoc in your life, given enough ammo.

Just like DWIs...why give le or a major psycho ammunition to bring you down?

[Ms. Milani]

I agree with Dennis and Nikki. Don't haggle prices. Your rate is your rate...they either like it or not. They are paying for your time and not services...remember that. Don't talk services with anyone that you haven't verified. Verified means two other VERIFIED providers vouched for him.

[GentlemanCaller007]

So, I sense that you posted this, initially feeling some remorse for your choice.
You pose the question, (implied) Am I being prude? "Should I send a nude pic to a stranger?"

On paper, business theory would indicate that it depends on your value of $$ and what you are comfortable trading for it. If you are really comfortable with your body - why not send it? The best thing that could happen is it could inspire someone to come see you. The worst thing - nothing happens. If $$ is your objective, doing so increases your results and total revenue - Sex sells. So, if someone asked respectfully, and you only had slight reservations about sharing photos, then yes, I would say you should let go of your anxiety and do it (you want to anyway or you wouldn't feel emotionally torn)

Now in the case of this guy specifically - Hell no. You did the RIGHT thing. Too many little things were adding up there to a disrespectful, creepy vibe. In your shoes I would have been looking for a way to cancel and this guy terminating his interest would have made me dance a jig!
To expand on dennisrn's quote, the pursuit of bad $$ (in the hands of an asshole) is usually much more misery and trouble than it's worth. Better to skip it so you can move on to the next GOOD experience faster!

Best of luck and Stay safe!

[Shelbi]

Better to skip it so you can move on to the next GOOD experience faster!

and that's just what I did..... Thanx for all ya'lls support and input. Just can't wait to be verified and get this show on the road.

[Bush Pilot]

Good that you stuck to your guns, Shelbi. He could very well have been some perv who gets some sick pleasure out of conning women into photographing themselves nude; collecting their pics; and then ... well, you know... and he never had any intention of meeting you in the first place. The scheduled appointment was simply a ruse.

And that statement, "I'm not leaving until I get a pic" sounds downright threatening and creepy.

Sometimes the appointments on which you pass are as important to your long-term success as those that you keep.

[colt]

You got it right. The good thing is you didn't have to put up with the jerk. Play safe!

[grent]

Shelbi, Sweetie the bottom line is to always go with your gut. Always be safe and enjoy. Look forward to meeting you.

[Eva Damita]

Ahhh! I hate the "send more pics" request after already sending one, slightly risque pic. KNOW that some guys just get off on you sending pics or are satisfied with that. When I first started, too many times have I sat there, waited on a call after sending a slew of pics to their phone. I choose to not do it, thats what my website is for. I use to pretend that I never received the requests, but now, I'm starting to tell them for privacy, I prefer to limit pics to one. I'm not about to waste my time sexting. I don't do it in my personal life, and will not do it in my hobby life

[AngeLisa]

Honestly some girls are out here that do it all. The guy is spoiled at this point. He says I'm not coming unless yu send it, that's childish. As a provider you have to be careful what you put out there. A guy told me that he saves pics to his computer....
Wtf??! I always thought that but now I KNOW. If he saves it then I know he stares at it.

Idk It's creepy so I just don't think about it....the nudity I show is up for everyone to see or even in person but don't steal my Pixs.