I had a GF years back that would grab my hands in the middle of having sex in mish, and put them on her throat. Wanted me to stare her in her eyes and choke her. And I mean, REALLY choke her hard! I don't come from any kind of an abusive background, healthy family and all, and I wasn't really into it. I started to figure out that there was some father abuse issues that she must have been reliving. Then I'd be behind her doing doggy, and she'd reach back, grab my hands and do it again, so I would sort of mock choke her, just to appease her, then she'd get pissed because I wasn't really trying to choke her. Was messed up.
That relationship didn't last long.
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