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Originally Posted by yoda4111
You could also have a man whose SO just isn't as interested in certain things as he is. Maybe the SO will only do some plain sex once every two weeks and will never give a bj. How does the man get fulfilled sexually while still having the SO that he loves?
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I would say get counseling to improve the relationship's sex life (if you really want to stay with her and do what is right) or get a divorce and find some one else that will satisfy you or stay single and whore around. No pun intended.
Rationalizing cheating on a married or unmarried spouse doesn't make it better. It is still wrong.
Fundamentally, cheating is a selfish act fraught with deceit and betrayal.
You like most of us, myself included, are being selfish with utter disregard to your S.O.
Wearing a rubber, under the guise of protecting her, is just plain bullshit. Tell your S.O. if she catches you messing around that "It's alright baby, I wore a rubber" See what happens then.
She could still be infected by other diseases that aren't protected by condom use.
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Originally Posted by yoda4111
None of that explains the bbfs risk, which is crazy.
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Once someone commits a wrongful act such as cheating whether with CFS or BBFS, it doesn't really matter. It is still wrong.
People that are cheating on their S.O. and those that enable them, have already crossed one of society's taboo lines.
Once one line has been crossed, it's much easier to cross another. That may explain why some people are willing to risk the bbfs.
If you are here, then you probably don't care about what is right or wrong.
You just want to get your rocks off and not get caught.
The best way to do that means keep a hobby phone, wear a rubber, keep your mouth shut, and if you get a guilty conscience get a different hobby.
But not all people do all of the above suggestions. People pick and choose.
All each of us can do/control is to do what we as individual adults feel comfortable doing.
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