escort - company

[caliente]

just a question for providers:

It will be great to be able to meet in a public place, have coffe/drinks, have some fun with or without BCD activities. May want some company, lunch, dinner or just some time. If there is a fee for the time shouldn't be the same price than BCD.\

anyway feels may be also safer for the guy and the provider. Comments, ideas?

[Red Tex]

See a provider a few times. Then she may desire to meet you and hang out. On the rare occasion I have had them ask me what I am doing once a leave and that is the moment they want to hang out. Don't expect it though. Do you go to work and expect not to be paid? All these girls have is their time.

[pyramider]

You are paying for their time.

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by Red Tex

Don't expect it though. Do you go to work and expect not to be paid? All these girls have is their time.

Actually, I'm self employed, too. A certain amount of non revenue generating time is necessary. And besides, how many guys can they actually see in a single day. A little OTC time, on occasion, is only good PR. You would think they would understand that.

[Waldo P. Emerson-Jones]

Originally Posted by caliente

If there is a fee for the time shouldn't be the same price than BCD.

Incorrect. She has no obligation to spend any time with you doing anything if she doesn't want to. So, the correct answer here is that the fee should be whatever y'all agree to, whether that's free, or reduced rate, or full rate. If you don't like what she charges, then find someone else.

[trynagetlaid]

Post in ISO. Maybe some of the girls read the Business Development chapter in Business 101.

But don't get your hopes up about the fee being too much lower than their regular rate, if any.

It helps if there is a concert, game, or other special event involved.

[fletch]

i think you are looking for the site 'match.com'.

good luck in your search.

[MUSHROOM MAN]

It does get tricky. I recently asked a provider to dinner, she agreed. When I PMed her to ask how much it was going to cost me,.......... she never has gotten back with me. I think she wanted to just go out and I assumed it was going to cost me, you just never know.

[ForumPoster]

Originally Posted by daty/o

Actually, I'm self employed, too. A certain amount of non revenue generating time is necessary. And besides, how many guys can they actually see in a single day. A little OTC time, on occasion, is only good PR. You would think they would understand that.

As a self employed professional do you offer your service free of charge to generate revenue? If you are an accountant, do you do taxes free of charge to generate future revenues?

There are plenty of ladies advertising multi hour packages. Those rates usually take into consideration that some of the time will be spent in public.



Lina

[Guest091314]

Some ladies have a social rate.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by Red Tex

See a provider a few times. Then she may desire to meet you and hang out. On the rare occasion I have had them ask me what I am doing once a leave and that is the moment they want to hang out. Don't expect it though. Do you go to work and expect not to be paid? All these girls have is their time.

I agree with Red Tex. If we are giving away our time for free, how are we going to pay our bills? This is the 'hobby'. If I need my social time, I have a lot of friends and family to call, I can buy my own dinner and personally, I do not have much free time between my work, tennis, resting for the next tennis match, some social life, and some work again.
And the same thing for you gentlemen, you have your real world friends, dating and family life.
I am not saying the two worlds cannot overlap once connections have been developed. Anything is possible. :-)

[shlub]

I suspect that if there were to be complemmentary time with one of the lovely ladies, regardless of the venue and/or activities, the gracious gentleman would not discuss it. To do so could put her in the awkward position of having others contact her with expectations of the same.

[Prolongus]

I'm self-emplyoed as well, have had clients for years and will occasionally take them out to dinner, golf, give them gifts, etc. Now if you've seen a Provider for say 1-2 years and she hasn't offered OTC time with you by now...it ain't gonna happen.

It's a different experience vs. BCD activities when you have OTC time with you ladies...and when it happens I sure do appreciate it.

It's an incentive to come back for more BCD activities.

[rcg001]

I have had two providers suggest that we could hang out, have dinner, etc.
I felt that it might be interesting, but in the long run, it is just not a good idea to mix hobby life and personal life. All kinds of things can happen, such as boyfriends showing up when you just thought it was just a friend situation, the girls calling you at a really bad time, the list can get extreme in a hurry. I get enough of that in my dating life.

I may have missed a chance or missed being hit with a bullet. You have to go with your gut feeling.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Prolongus

I'm self-emplyoed as well, have had clients for years and will occasionally take them out to dinner, golf, give them gifts, etc. Now if you've seen a Provider for say 1-2 years and she hasn't offered OTC time with you by now...it ain't gonna happen.

It's a different experience vs. BCD activities when you have OTC time with you ladies...and when it happens I sure do appreciate it.

It's an incentive to come back for more BCD activities.

Being self-employed as well, I've realized these kind of perks are pertinent for sustaining business friendships. Asking for freebies in the beginning of any arrangement is always a bad way to kick things off. It's like the equivalent of getting a free product BEFORE getting all the stamps on your frequent customer card.