GFE/PSE - What is it to you?

[JxnBiLady]

I stumbled upon a thread in another geographical area in which the definitions of "GFE" and "PSE" were questioned and discussed.

To me, it has to do with attitude, not specific services. I proudly claim to provide GFE because I sincerely look forward to my appointments and consider my clients to be friends. I enjoy my time with them and strive for them to enjoy their time with me. I feel this includes good conversation, hugging/cuddling/snuggling, sweet words, good kissing, and enthusiasm about the client and the experience overall. If I don't sincerely enjoy being with a client, I don't think I could continue to see him. Of course, there may be times that the chemistry simply isn't there, everyone has had an experience where that is the case, whether in hobby or not.
If there ever came a time where I did not enjoy doing this and was not able to treat my clients as if they truly were my friend/boyfriend/lover, I would quit immediately.
What is your definition of a GFE?

The other part of the same thread was a discussion of PSE and what it includes. I'm not sure what my thoughts are on that, but I'm pretty sure it isn't me. I think I picture an ultra skinny girl with big fake ta-tas having fake orgasm after fake orgasm while being pounded by some unnaturally well-endowed guy. No doubt that my vision of PSE is not accurate.
I know some of the ladies on this board provide PSE and gentlemen who claim to have had PSE, so what is it that makes a PSE?


My definition provided, what are your thoughts? On some forums, it seems to be defined as bbfs rather than the overall experience. I'll happily do bbbj, but bbfs is too risky. (Yes there are risks involved with it, but not like bbfs) I won't do bbfs with any client out of respect and safety of the whole community.

[EZRider]

This question came up on ASPD back in Nov-09. I thought Carlie did a very good job of nailing the definition of a GFE; so I'll just quote the beautiful young lady:

"A True GFE, Girl Friend Experience, is everything you would expect from a girlfriend. An unrushed session, DFK, LFK, BBBJ, Multiple "Cups of Coffee" Cuddle time- This session should give you a warm fuzzy feeling of pure pleasure from the minute you enter the door, until you have to say good-bye. A token of appreciation, scented candles, A shower together after "Coffee"...All these things combined is a true GFE. Many search but never find,
real companionship thats like mine-

Kisses and Licks-
Carlie

To me, the key to a true GFE is attraction and chemistry (at least perceived upon the guy's part). I believe this is Carlie's "warm-fuzzy feeling". This separates the beautiful, talented and personable provider offering the full alphabet and the GFE. I haven't met a woman yet that every man is attracted to. So when I see GFE, I automatically think YMMV.

Regards,
EZ

[DallasRain]

HHHHmmmmmmm Tess sweety girl,...it's too late at nite and i have been partying on Bourbon all nite so I cannot think of a "politically correct" answer...so here goes what my "scrambled brain" can come up with on the spot...

PSE/GFE/HONEYMOON EXPERIENCE?????

I think it is all in your own perspective of what it takes to make you satisfied during a session....kind of a ymmv kinda thing....some people get hung up on labels when they should just focus on the fun.....to me it's all good!!!


WHAT DO YOU CALL A CONVERSATION,CUDDLING,FBSM,LFK ,push me against the wall & rip my clothes off, DFK,BBBJ,BBBJDT,BBBJCIM,BBBJCI MNQNS,69
CIF,COB,COF, DATY,TEABAGGING,BALLPLAY,CC,RC C,DOGGIE,LAZYDOG,MOS
OG,
ASSWORSHIP,COCKWORSHIP,GREEK,S TRAPON,TOYPLAYING,...HANGING FROM THE CEILING FAN,ASS SLAPPING ,HAIR PULLING,DIRTY TALKING, "OH LORD NOW I CAN'T WALK SESSION"................

Oh wait,Thats a "DE" {Dallas experience}....lol!!!!

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

WHAT DO YOU CALL A CONVERSATION,CUDDLING,FBSM,LFK ,push me against the wall & rip my clothes off, DFK,BBBJ,BBBJDT,BBBJCIM,BBBJCI MNQNS,69
CIF,COB,COF, DATY,TEABAGGING,BALLPLAY,CC,RC C,DOGGIE,LAZYDOG,MOS
OG,
ASSWORSHIP,COCKWORSHIP,GREEK,S TRAPON,TOYPLAYING,...HANGING FROM THE CEILING FAN,ASS SLAPPING ,HAIR PULLING,DIRTY TALKING, "OH LORD NOW I CAN'T WALK SESSION"................

Oh wait,Thats a "DE" {Dallas experience}....lol!!!!

I think I'm going to hole up at my secure bunker in my undisclosed location until my heart rate returns to something approximating normal...



Cheers,

bcg (who is afraid that if he ever meets Dallas, she'll fall asleep out of boredom, as he is that plain vanilla...)

[sonitus]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

WHAT DO YOU CALL A CONVERSATION,CUDDLING,FBSM,LFK ,push me against the wall & rip my clothes off, DFK,BBBJ,BBBJDT,BBBJCIM,BBBJCI MNQNS,69
CIF,COB,COF, DATY,TEABAGGING,BALLPLAY,CC,RC C,DOGGIE,LAZYDOG,MOS
OG,
ASSWORSHIP,COCKWORSHIP,GREEK,S TRAPON,TOYPLAYING,...HANGING FROM THE CEILING FAN,ASS SLAPPING ,HAIR PULLING,DIRTY TALKING, "OH LORD NOW I CAN'T WALK SESSION"................

Oh wait,Thats a "DE" {Dallas experience}....lol!!!!

Dear God, I may need to spend a weekend in Nola soon... or a week. Dallas, will you slap my face and pour hot wax on me?

[DallasRain]

lol--hell yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

{maybe Tess can join us???/lol}

[JxnBiLady]

Oh yes! I'd absolutely love to party in NOLA with Dallas. Doubt I've ever had that much fun in my life. :-)

[DallasRain]

lol--Tess babe...bring your walking shoes and we will hit Bourbon!!
{I went last nite and had a blast!! so did the dj at Fat Catz..lol}

[DallasRain]

to me its all just about a client walking away from a session saying "wow that was a helluva good time and i wanna do it again real soon"

[ashwednesday666]

The answers JxnBiLady and EZRider provided. Plus throw in a little amymayhem123, heidilynn & LilRed = GFE to me.