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Originally Posted by JDNorthface
I'd love to see the companion thread started by a lady--"Gentlemen, what do you do to make yourself memorable to a lady?"
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Nothing.
It's nice to be remembered, but what I did while with a lady was because I wanted to do it, not to help her remember me. I preferred to be remembered, if at all, for
me rather than for some artificial thing I did. And I usually avoided flowers or gifts or other things that might suggest "real-life date" because it seemed somewhat inconsistent with the boundaries and risked one or both slowly drifting past those boundaries. Being remembered is not a good thing if it's due to stalking. (Although the risk must be relatively low, or fewer ladies would suggest gifts or flowers in their showcases or websites.)
Among ladies I saw only once or twice, I suspect 10% or less would remember me two years later; mostly because something different to me caught her attention more than it did for her "sisters under the sheets." WALDT applies to the ladies as well; most clients will be memorable to
some ladies they see, but still only a small percentage of
all ladies they see. But that didn't bother me; it's nice to be remembered, but I don't need to have
everyone remember me.
Among ladies I saw at least twenty times, I suspect 80% or more would remember me five years later. It's still WALDT for the ladies, but prolonged exposure puts a heavy thumb on the scales.