Gman, you might be supprised how much you have learned about you from your time here and that may be the reason for the change. I suggest leave the account open but move on to that new space and if you need to return, strange things happen old freind it will be less difficult to return.
The Eagles have a song that moved me to leave and when the truth came out, it was worse that with the ex. Many "real people" in the "real world" are more twisted than anything in the hobby! Either way, say safe, use the lessons learned here and practice safe everything in the other world too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE-U5e78WHc
"Desperado"
Desperado, why don't you come to your senses?
You been out ridin' fences for so long now
Oh, you're a hard one
I know that you got your reasons
These things that are pleasin' you
Can hurt you somehow
Don't you draw the queen of diamonds, boy
She'll beat you if she's able
You know the queen of hearts is always your best bet
Now it seems to me, some fine things
Have been laid upon your table
But you only want the ones that you can't get
Desperado, oh, you ain't gettin' no younger
Your pain and your hunger, they're drivin' you home
And freedom, oh freedom well, that's just some people talkin'
Your prison is walking through this world all alone
Don't your feet get cold in the winter time?
The sky won't snow and the sun won't shine
It's hard to tell the night time from the day
You're losin' all your highs and lows
Ain't it funny how the feeling goes away?
Desperado, why don't you come to your senses?
Come down from your fences, open the gate
It may be rainin', but there's a rainbow above you
You better let somebody love you, before it's too late
Closure
