Dress up for the Hobby??

[Roland D'Hay]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder isn't that what they say? We are very fortunate in Omaha in that many of our ladies to me have natural beauty and great personalities to go with. No this is not meant to be a suck up but I'm sure many blokes would agree with me. At the end of the day though we all have different tastes and no amount of make up nice clothing heels or whatever would sway me in deciding who I should or should not see.

[hobbyistinomaha]

I think he was totally out of line to expect you to dress up for coffee. Besides, I bet you look fabulous no matter what your are wearing Olivia.

[peachfuss80]

I think at least some of the guys will agree with me on this topic. As men we have rather short term memories. It doesn't take us very long to forget what these lovely ladies were wearing as soon as we see what's underneath said clothing! Especially when they look like Olivia!

[Guest060712]

And thanks Peach Fuzz

[Bigh1955]

Originally Posted by Loki76

If it is a public meeting, no way do I want to attract that kind of attention... That is how problems start. Dress to blend-in in public and to stand out in private!

I get that everyone has different tastes, but I am guessing that unless a lady doesn't mind that kind of attention in public it is probably a bit much to expect her to fufill public exhibitionist type fantasies... Too much risk for me personally.

What Loki said.

In public its a matter of letting the inner you shine thru, and I'm not talking about TNA...especially if its a situation where you'll be expected to interact with other peolpe I know. For such events I would want to coord w/ you on your attire...and arrange a shopping trip, if need be. That way there's no unpleasant surprises...and you'd get some really nice stuff out of it.

[Bigh1955]

Pet peeve(s) on attire/appearance: wet hair, looking like a SW in public with me (you don't necessarily have to blend in i.e. you can be DDG, but do it in an understated way), hooker shoes (6in heels, 3in platform and clear plastic peek-a-boo toe...you know what I mean).

[Omahan]

Miss O, I wouldn't be so quick to kick the guy to the curb. I agree with everyone that your attire was fine and he was being strange. But it doesn't seem dangerous strange - just goofy. If I quit doing business with every customer that's a bit goofy I wouldn't have survived and once you get past the goofiness you sometimes find a really nice person. Maybe your first meeting can be a hotel rather than Starbucks and you can dress in a way you both are happy with.

[snowbeard]

Originally Posted by Miss O

So anyone who knows me would know that I always dress fabulous and never have been anything less than fresh. So today I had a coffee appointment with a new guy and we agreed to meet at a Starbucks....we planned the M&G becuase he did not have any references...just coffee, no big deal right? This morning he asks me what I am wearing, and I tell him a VS hoodie and Jeans. This silly guy emails me: Lets just reschedule this whole thing. You are busy, I am busy and you are in hoodie and jeans. I want to meet you looking smoking hot so my fantasy of being your sugar daddy gets off to a better start?- Would you meet with him still?I always look very nice when i hobby!! Thanks but no thanks.

Other providers: How would you respond? Hahaha. And....would you meet with him? How often do you dress specific for requests?

Other Hobbyist: What is your pet peeves that providers do with their attire...ie:make-up, hair pulled back? What is distracting or annoying?

I think the guy is really off base. The fact that you'd do a M & G at the coffee shop speaks volumes to me. What a great touch. I suggested that to a lady once, and was told it would be her hourly rate form the time she left her domicile (I guess she thought she was a plumber.) so we didn't meet. I'd like to think she was the loser in the long run. Anyway, I think it is awesome to agree to this type of arrangement as a way to see if either has second thoughts. As they say in Australia, "Good on you!"

[Guest060712]

You guys are all awesome, I agree with you all. I did give the guy a second chance-after giving him the blow off for two weeks-OUCH. We met for coffee and he showed up WITH a VS Giftcard. Now we are talking I did and still do make fun of him for being such a D-Bag....and he is now blessed...with O...and Lllllll V ahhhhhhhhh. Hahahaha. Xoxoxo

[Guest110512]

Hospital scrubs....no way, those damn things could never hide a full erection! You are trying to trick someone aren't you!!!!!!!!

[Guest060712]

Now why would we ever want to hide an erection?

[Felyxx]

Originally Posted by Miss O

Now why would we ever want to hide an erection?

Ya know I just can't think of a good reason.

[Guest110512]

I am not sure the coffee shop would appreciate it as much as Miss O would! I am sure Miss O could help me hide it but that's best left to imagination and not explained in vivid detail on this forum.

[Osolomio]

Doesn't it depend on where you want to hide the said salami...errr...erection.