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Chevalier · 03-23-2012, 10:11 AM

Interview about doing sex scenes, here, conducted anonymously to get a more honest response. Comments by "Veronica":

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I have had to do sex scenes with people who on some chemical level I was repulsed by, and that was hard work. I had to do many sex scenes with a guy who was very nice but I was repulsed by him. It was really hard. The majority of the time you're not attracted to the people you have to have a sex scene with and it is tough. . . . I don't think there was an occasion when I was fully turned-on, but there have been instances where it was pleasant as opposed to me chocking back my vomit.

Is Veronica's attitude typical? Is P4P harder or easier for the ladies than a sex scene is for an actress? Could Veronica be successful in P4P? Does the self-selection process keep people like Veronica out of P4P, even if financially desperate? Discuss. (But of course since ladies cannot respond here anonymously . . .

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LucadeJure · 03-23-2012, 10:38 AM

And this post begs the question of any Provider ... How often do they "choke back their vomit" because of the appearance or lack of chemical attraction to the Hobbyist who walked through their door.

Recently, lounging on my sofa with a lovely Provider, we were watching porn and I commented that most of the guys in porn movies were not attractive. She lifts her head, turns to look at the screen, and calmly says, "OMG, you should see some of the guys I have to fuck", and she went back to what she was doing. That seems to put some perspective on the question posed here.

TomKat · 03-23-2012, 10:43 AM

I`ve often wondered myself how these girls can see just anyone. I don`t think it would be a good subject to bring up, nor do I really care to know what or who they have slept with. It has to be a very tough job at times.

durango95 · 03-23-2012, 10:54 AM

I have always said, most guys are lucky to spend time with some of the lovely ladies we have here in the Dallas area no matter how much money they give them. Some ladies say its not how the hobbyist looks, its how he treats the provider. I am just an average guy, ok a fat bald guy, but with a big heart and I try to treat all the ladies with dignity and respect and that seems to take me to another level when I am with a provider.

Peace All!!!

Missy Mariposa · 03-23-2012, 01:36 PM

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Some ladies say its not how the hobbyist looks, its how he treats the provider. I am just an average guy, ok a fat bald guy, but with a big heart and I try to treat all the ladies with dignity and respect and that seems to take me to another level when I am with a provider.

This is how I feel. One of the best lovers I've had in my personal life was obese. He had a big heart, he was gentle, caring, and knew what to do - I really try not to judge based on something as stupid as appearance.

Now if you smell/taste bad that's a different story. But I'm one of those people who won't "suck it up" and give you bad service. I'll kindly suggest a piece of gum or a shower. If I'm not enjoying it, you probably won't either. And my #1 goal is for you to enjoy our time.

phildo · 03-23-2012, 02:19 PM

Mark Harmon said it was easier to do drowning, getting shot, being sick, eating weird shit, getting seasick or beat up than it was to have kiss a woman you couldn't stand 15 or 20 twenty times and act like he was enjoying it.

This is a two way street thing. The unfortunate and unjust part is that clients can split and dis a provider and get away with it, but a provider who calls "foul" and bails for any reason gets NCNS'd and slammed. Women's rights have reached a lot of places, but this isn't one of them.

bigdog0311 · 03-23-2012, 02:55 PM

It is a tough job, but these providers get paid very good money per session, some more than others, but there is no where else they would make that kind of money for the "time" they put in. With that said, sure there are alot of guys out there in the hobby world who are not physically attractive, again some worse off than others, but for the amount of money the providers are receiving, they should be able to "put up with" and show a hobbyist a good time without giving him any indication she is "repulsed" by his looks. As long as he is respectful, has great hygiene and has that required donation, then it should be all that is required to have a fantastic session, after the it is over and he has left, then she can go throw up in the sink or toilet, but then she is smiling to the bank!

Prolongus · 03-23-2012, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by phildo

Mark Harmon said it was easier to do drowning, getting shot, being sick, eating weird shit, getting seasick or beat up than it was to have kiss a woman you couldn't stand 15 or 20 twenty times and act like he was enjoying it.

This is a two way street thing. The unfortunate and unjust part is that clients can split and dis a provider and get away with it, but a provider who calls "foul" and bails for any reason gets NCNS'd and slammed. Women's rights have reached a lot of places, but this isn't one of them.

So true...they won't say it publicly but when a Provider calls another and asks about the client, they'll be truthful about him...good or bad. And I don't blame them.

Juan Pablo de Marco · 03-23-2012, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

but for the amount of money the providers are receiving, they should be able to "put up with" and show a hobbyist a good time without giving him any indication she is "repulsed" by his looks.

so easy for a guy to say that. why don't you pick up a fat old bald ugly chick and tell us how easy it was for you to give some serious IOP if she was willing to pay you 200 bucks.

bigdog0311 · 03-23-2012, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Juan Pablo de Marco

so easy for a guy to say that. why don't you pick up a fat old bald ugly chick and tell us how easy it was for you to give some serious IOP if she was willing to pay you 200 bucks.

have her pay me and as long as she is clean and is respectful, I think I can pull it off for a whole hour.

This is why what phildo said is not 100% true about the two way street thing, WKs like this guy will go after other guys with his keyboard and call them out so that he can look good to the providers, so the dissing of a provider in a review cuz the reviewer felt he was wronged or was not satisfied with the session and/or money he spent does not get away with it per say.