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sixxbach · 03-13-2012, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

We know better.

Some do......

sixx

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 03:24 AM

Wise man Sixx, I spoke as to the perceptiveness of all guys,and some are not perceptive at all. All the blood is missing from their brains !

homer13 · 03-13-2012, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

I'm sorry rockerrick but are you implying that I am in denial because I prefer GFE experience, if so, do explain... And shame on you, if not do explain.... Eitherway.

I like the way you talk about your encounters. There's no reason all three of you can't be right. During the session it can be passionate, intimate and a true GFE experience. When it is done, then it's back to our normal routines. No boundaries crossed. For me the encounter is one of fantasy and bliss. An hour or two of escape from my normal routine into pure pleasure. When it's over I go back to my life. I really enjoy my sessions though and do occasionally pm or txt with some of the ladies that I truly enjoy being with. I don't see any issues with that. I understand it's a p4p set up and so do they so the pm's or txt might just be to build up the next encounter etc..

homer13 · 03-13-2012, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

You have no idea how many times I've heard , let's get together for , a concert, a movie, or lets go camping, and never once has been anything other than a means of securing another appointment. So that is why I laugh every time I hear a provider say that ! We know better.

SHAME ON ME ? REALLY ?

I've experience similar things with strippers and maybe a provider or two. To me it's not necessary. If I really, truly enjoyed being with someone then I'm going to see them again regardless and if anything this type of stuff will change my mind about coming back because it becomes a boundary issue. With strippers though I usually find that they mean it as I have ended up spending a couple weekends in SA with some or going to movies etc....

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by homer13

To me it's not necessary. If I really, truly enjoyed being with someone then I'm going to see them again regardless and if anything this type of stuff will change my mind about coming back because it becomes a boundary issue.

I don't find it to be a boundary issue, just disingenuous ! I still see them.

RALPHEY BOY · 03-13-2012, 10:44 AM

so CJ and SL saw three new girls so is that going to hurt there biz??

perhaps

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 11:15 AM

Probably not Ralphey, you know droves of mindless automatons will follow their paths. Leaving the whole 1st pg. of Independent Reviews filled with the same name !

homer13 · 03-13-2012, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

I don't find it to be a boundary issue, just disingenuous ! I still see them.

It can be disingenuous and not necessary for normal guys like you and I but I guess for other guys it will make them come a running back and back. I'm a pretty upfront and honest guy and I will tell them I don't need them to make offers like that or say stuff. If I enjoy them I will continue to enjoy them and keep it for what it is.

homer13 · 03-13-2012, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

so CJ and SL saw three new girls so is that going to hurt there biz??

perhaps

I would think for a new girl that they just struck gold. Getting the CJ and SL seal of approval can only help new ladies out. I thought the t-shirts for SL and the ass paint was hilarious. I just want to know why I wasn't invited to the after party.

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by homer13

It can be disingenuous and not necessary for normal guys like you and I but I guess for other guys it will make them come a running back and back. I'm a pretty upfront and honest guy and I will tell them I don't need them to make offers like that or say stuff. If I enjoy them I will continue to enjoy them and keep it for what it is.

Ditto ! I may enjoy a fantasy, but I don't live in fantasyland.

ztonk · 03-13-2012, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

the clock runs out and we are shone the door and not thought of again until we make another appointment. No matter how much chemistry(real or not) and we are very aware of this fact!

If you haven't made it abundantly clear that it is ok for the lady to contact you, she's doing the absolutely right thing by not contacting you after the session... regardless of any chemistry.

z

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 02:00 PM

So would here's my # call or text anytime be abundantly clear ?

VictoriaLyn · 03-13-2012, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

So would here's my # call or text anytime be abundantly clear ?

Yes

....Not all of forget about you as soon as you leave.Some of us truly do give the gents we meet a second thought..I was taught from day one to never text or call client unless told it was 100% ok to do so.

RALPHEY BOY · 03-13-2012, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by homer13

I would think for a new girl that they just struck gold. Getting the CJ and SL seal of approval can only help new ladies out. I thought the t-shirts for SL and the ass paint was hilarious. I just want to know why I wasn't invited to the after party.

it also could be the same cause and effect that a Provider does not want to see high volume guy, if you use your logic then those new girls just saw "hundreds of guys" in two sessions, or the logic that if you sleep with someone you slept with everyone they slept with, did I get that right?

and just because SL and CJ saw them does not make me and I am others guys 'come a runnin', we are all different in what we like and who we like

rockerrick · 03-13-2012, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

Yes

....Not all of forget about you as soon as you leave.Some of us truly do give the gents we meet a second thought..I was taught from day one to never text or call client unless told it was 100% ok to do so.

Victoria, sorry for painting all with the same brush stroke. I'm sure that would be an exaggeration. But a few have got under my skin , and in an attempt to get my point across to them, I have over simplified ! I just find their attitudes unrealistic for the hobby. I think they're fooling themselves, for whatever reason, and this is ECCIE not Eharmony.I actually found your opinion on the subject to be very grounded.