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Valerie · 01-16-2011, 09:53 PM

I think you can't automatically pre-judge someone until you've actually spent time with the person...I'm 25 and have been told by 90% of my clients that my maturity level is that of someone in their 30's-40's.....Just as there are young girls who are immature, there are also plenty of "Mature" providers that act like drama queens.

I feel like a lot of one's maturity is based on their life experiences, so my advice is to stay open-minded. If there's a younger provider that you fancy, get a feel for her (no pun intended) and trust your instinct, but I wouldn't rule anything out...

Val

ammonite · 01-16-2011, 09:54 PM

I agree for the most part with CarolinaGent. When I investigate a provider I think I want to see, I will read many of her posts on various threads to learn about her attitudes, maturity level, etc., then read her reviews. I think in many cases her posts will give you more information than her reviews.

Ed Highlight · 01-16-2011, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Valerie

I think you can't automatically pre-judge someone until you've actually spent time with the person....

I feel like a lot of one's maturity is based on their life experiences...

Val

Val, very well put!! Kind of proves your point about a young provider being mature and experienced....But c'mon 18 and 19 is a lot different than 25.

Even if you don't agree, I just want to see your avatar again.....WOW!!

bustyms.sasha · 01-16-2011, 10:14 PM

im 20 and very mature. I have my own place, pay my bills do what i need to do and have a lot of life lessons so far. been on my own for a while though. its true though its a person to person thing with us young ones

Valerie · 01-16-2011, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Val, very well put!! Kind of proves your point about a young provider being mature and experienced....But c'mon 18 and 19 is a lot different than 25.

Even if you don't agree, I just want to see your avatar again.....WOW!!

Yes 18-19 is a lot different than 25, but I know how I was when I was 19, I had prob been through more than most 30 yr olds at that point in my life, so all I'm saying is not everyone that is young is automatically an immature sex robot....

DallasBella · 01-17-2011, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Allamericanjessi

im 20 and very mature. I have my own place, pay my bills do what i need to do and have a lot of life lessons so far. been on my own for a while though. its true though its a person to person thing with us young ones

Same here. Not to mention prior military experience and a short-lived marriage.

Michelle Snow · 01-17-2011, 02:43 PM

I am 20.... couple weeks away from 21.. I notice that guys are very skeptical when it comes to seeing a young provider like myself.. But when they do see me they actually quite like the session and want to see me over and over again. I get told a lot that I am very mature for my age but that I also make them feel young again. Its all a personal preferance when it comes to hobbying... Choose a girl that you like and think that you will get a long with... If you cant see yourself getting along with the provider or that you dont think that the session will go well through conversations that you have with the provider you might want to continue searching. And even though I am young does not mean that the hobbyist is a perv. Sometimes they need something different than the older providers.

Fastcars1966 · 01-17-2011, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

As for those ladies in their early 20s: finding one that acts mature is, I think, virtually non-existent. I've been with some, and have found them wanting. Now, I don't see anyone under the age of 30, and preferably high 30s to low 40s.

Funny most of your reviews are all under age 30. Age is just a number. Do your research and go with a provider that you think you will click with. My problem is I love all shapes, sizes, and yes age. I have had good and bad in all age groups. But I will admit my ATF is in her late 30's

charlestudor2005 · 01-17-2011, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Fastcars1966

Funny most of your reviews are all under age 30. Age is just a number. Do your research and go with a provider that you think you will click with. My problem is I love all shapes, sizes, and yes age. I have had good and bad in all age groups. But I will admit my ATF is in her late 30's

Actually, half are under 30. In the early days of my hobbying, I did lean more toward the tight young body. But I discovered they were mostly unreliable. Research didn't help much. And I don't do it at all now. I found research to be unreliable also.

I love all shapes and sizes also. I have seen legal ladies of all ages (20s - 50s) from spinners to BBW.

I don't read or write reviews any more for a number of reasons.

Milehigh65 · 02-26-2012, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I think under 21 (but at least 18) starts getting into the creepy factor ...just my opinion.

In my earlier hobby years(mid to late 20's) I would see the 20-21 yr olds, had some good experiences but many bad ones. As I got older established my family and my carreer as well as I had exp several older providers I have just simply moved away from the young ones for reliabilty and safety reasons. I figured I had to much to loose to risk getting caught up with a young provider that has miss stated her age i.e a provider can tell you she is 21 but may actually be quite younger these days I don't no that I could confidently tell the difference from 21 -17, I don't need those kind of problems. Hard bodies are nice but honestly I gravitate toward the more curvacious and mature lady, I don't believe I have ever had a bad experience with the 30+ group thats where I shop, occasionally I will patronize the right 25 yr old.

SL one of these days we will meet hopefully.

JHurt1968 · 02-26-2012, 10:12 PM

Oddly enough I've had better luck with the 21-30 providers than the ladies closer to my own age (I'm 43). I just get along better with the younger ladies. Providers closer to my own age...well, I really just don't know what to talk about with them. I'm aware that this is probably a reflection on my own maturity level.

For the record on of my current ATF's is 32. Maybe I'm growing up a little.

jyoshi917 · 02-27-2012, 06:08 PM

I started the hobby with the older providers, but i definitely enjoy being with the younger provider these days. That said, i think what was said earlier is definitely true. Most men have fears that younger providers want to get us out the door and just lay back there. We all want a full on gfe, and when we dont get that sometimes, we stereotype the younger providers thinking they are not up to par. That obviously is not and should not be the case, but it happens more often than not. I would love to see providers like Michelle snow and dallas bella if i had the chance!