My buddy list is populated with gals I have seen, gals I want to see and gals who I think have something worthwhile to say.
With gals I have seen, in most cases I saw them cuz I liked something about them more than their pics. Therefore, I might like to go see what they posted recently.
Gals I might want to see - I want to be able to screen them. I need to read what they post, read their latest reviews.
Some gals just have a lot of interesting things to say, so I have TNTAngie on my list, for instance. Haven't done it yet, but I have considered adding Jules Jaguar.
I have considered adding guys who have something interesting to say, but (1) that just seems lame or gay to me and (2) most of you guys are full of BS and don't have anything worthwhile to say on any consistency.