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mellissajade · 02-16-2012, 04:45 PM

I have a question that might seem silly....

Has anyone with a membership to NBL looked at it to see if this is even true? Or what those providers side of the story is?

I mean granted, the guy admits he was a cheap jerk who screwed them. And clearly they werent that bright for not getting their donation from him BEFORE starting service. Which would have avoided this whole damn mess.

But its possible that this comedy of amateur night errors on all 3 sides of the supposed situation are actually even worse then the OP makes it sound.

I mean really, he says he had an excuse not to pay. What do they say? That might be a relevant question.

Naomi4u · 02-16-2012, 05:15 PM

I know a lady that posted her landlord's info on there. Mind you the landlord didn't do anything but ask her to pay rent. People are fucked up. I mean -- I don't know how anyone takes that site seriously?

Boltfan · 02-16-2012, 05:42 PM

So I got tired head around post 50 and scrolled down so this may be asked and answered:

You lost deals, family believes it is you, etc., etc., etc.

Did you admit this website is correct to those people? Considering how much bullshit is out there, how hard is it to just deny it all? Chalk it up to someone with an agenda? Did they have pictures or something of you naked with a hard cock or something, ready to go?

Unfortunately my personal information is on the web and associated with this hobby. The important people in my life already knew I was a degenerate sexual deviant, but anyone else who might see it would simply chalk it up to bullshit agenda posting. Never made an enemy in business on which you could blame this issue?

Seems like you also didn't do much damage control, based on the only available information we have in front of us.

Serpius · 02-16-2012, 07:13 PM

Hey Mellissa,

I agree with your assessment of this situation.

With ONE exception... I pay the provider AFTER the session is done.

I mean, do you pay your auto mechanic BEFORE he starts working on your car? No, you pay him afterwards.

Serpius

Quote:

Originally Posted by mellissajade

I have a question that might seem silly....

Has anyone with a membership to NBL looked at it to see if this is even true? Or what those providers side of the story is?

I mean granted, the guy admits he was a cheap jerk who screwed them. And clearly they werent that bright for not getting their donation from him BEFORE starting service. Which would have avoided this whole damn mess.

But its possible that this comedy of amateur night errors on all 3 sides of the supposed situation are actually even worse then the OP makes it sound.

I mean really, he says he had an excuse not to pay. What do they say? That might be a relevant question.

alluringava · 02-16-2012, 07:19 PM

I was just thinking that sometimes a provider could blacklist a guy without a real reason just to. Maybe he wrote a review that wasn't favorable ( and very well true) and to get back at the client a girl starts posting lies under different names. I know someone this actually happened to

Naomi4u · 02-16-2012, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serpius

Hey Mellissa,

I agree with your assessment of this situation.

With ONE exception... I pay the provider AFTER the session is done.

I mean, do you pay your auto mechanic BEFORE he starts working on your car? No, you pay him afterwards.

Serpius

Most ladies require the fee upfront.

mellissajade · 02-16-2012, 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serpius

Hey Mellissa,

I agree with your assessment of this situation.

With ONE exception... I pay the provider AFTER the session is done.

I mean, do you pay your auto mechanic BEFORE he starts working on your car? No, you pay him afterwards.

Serpius

I can see why some clients would like to do that. But for myself if the donation isnt sitting on the bathroom counter or desk we arent having any fun yet.

Theres just too many clients who want to pull something with a donation to trust that its going to come in full after a session.

MsElena · 02-16-2012, 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serpius

Hey Mellissa,

I agree with your assessment of this situation.

With ONE exception... I pay the provider AFTER the session is done.

I mean, do you pay your auto mechanic BEFORE he starts working on your car? No, you pay him afterwards.

Serpius

Although this is a business, its a different kind of business were trust is the utmost important to both parties. If a mechanic rips you off, you can take him to court. If a client rips off a provider, we can't take you to court. All we can do is add your name and number to a DNS list. BIG BIG difference.

If a lady is OK with taking her fee afterwards, all the more power to her. But, I bet she changes her tune after she's been ripped off.

I don't see my fee within the first 10 minutes, no one is having fun.

Wakeup · 02-16-2012, 09:07 PM

I've been told I'm on there three times...I'm slacking...

Guest041413-2 · 02-16-2012, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Wakeuр

I've been told I'm on there three times...I'm slacking...

You are...LOL (so is ECCIE...)...can't read the details, just the front page press. Yep, you've got some press time.

Guest041413-2 · 02-16-2012, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Most ladies require the fee upfront.

It is such a turn-off when the ladies I select (based on my recon) ask up front. And, actually the ones I see don't!...all about the moment.

I would not be able to get into it from there. I would just walk out and leave. But then again, for me, my screening comes from another venue so I expect that to not be an issue.

Zarah, if you ever asked me to pay up front, I would walk out and slam the door behind me...
I would then stop myself, knock on the door and although pouting, walk back in. Fantasy from here is that you slap the shit out of me and have your fucking way with me (the only lady I would let do that, BTW)...Choke me up by the tie, (you)in heels, walk me to the slay-room then pounce...the rest is too graphic...

If it is someone who is specific to it being in an envelope up front, I (don't carry envelopes) will create one out of a paper bag, or note pad and voilà. No problem. I do consider it tacky to count it. I like spontaneity and passion. So, I "hunt" based on those premises!

Naomi4u · 02-16-2012, 09:55 PM

Actually Mijo, I don't ask for anything upfront. The guys that come and see me actually read my website and follow the instructions that asks them to place the donation in plain sight. I don't talk about money nor do I touch the envelope unless he's out of sight/or until the guy leaves. Its just something they know they're supposed to do. It's also not something I've ever had a problem with. I've never met a guy that held on to the donation and refused to pay

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Guest041413-2 · 02-16-2012, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Actually Mijo, I don't ask for anything upfront. The guys that come and see me actually read my website and follow the instructions that asks them to place the donation in plain sight. I don't talk about money nor do I touch the envelope unless he's out of sight/or until the guy leaves. Its just something they know they're supposed to do. It's also not something I've ever had a problem with. I've never met a guy that held on to the donation and refused to pay

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You will (dom) ask up front and proceed as described above, with me(sub), damnit! Got it?!? (edit, oh I forgot: LOL, although I'm serious as hell!)

2nd edit: You know what Zarah, we just need to take this BCD. This public display is pulling from my spontaneity rush. Ya' know?

Guest030824 · 02-16-2012, 11:07 PM

Can an other provider put in a good word for me on the blacklist? A provider has me on the list and I wonder if another provider could post in my behalf that I am not what is posted about me. One vindictive provider can ruin my good side.

SinsOfTheFlesh · 02-16-2012, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serpius

Hey Mellissa,

I agree with your assessment of this situation.

With ONE exception... I pay the provider AFTER the session is done.

I mean, do you pay your auto mechanic BEFORE he starts working on your car? No, you pay him afterwards.

Serpius

SO what do you do when she asks you to take care of business before we proceed? Do you leave? We don't start the happy fun time until the business end has been taken care of. I've been ripped off. You can trust and believe that won't be happening again.