Need some how to information

[chris_davis]

Is there a thread that explains more about etiquite? I would like to contact a provider, but I not sure what terms etc. I should and shouldn't say. I've search for a how/ procedure type thread but haven't found one.
Thanks Chris

[tcreative2]

Less is more when you're starting out ........ avoid any form of "will you ........ for money" ......... once you get a few references under your belt then you can ask about "menu" items and how she is most comfortable discussing them after you've been screened ......... use the reviews of the lady for a good idea of her menu ....... it's the safest way and pretty accurate ........ the session will at least be as good as the listed activities and may be better ...... you might think about purchasing Private Access to get started with ....... the rest of the story section of the review is pretty valuable when choosing ....... if you think about how much money you risk having a bad session the cost of PA is pretty cheap. P411.com is another valuable resource for contact and screening.

In the providers ad you'll find contact information ........ read and follow it. Most if not all of the women are used to awkward and inexperienced men ...... they'll lead you through the process.

[chris_davis]

good info, thanks

[meldrick]

All good advice from One Who Knows!

I suggest that if you have someone in mind to meet, look over her ad for her stated preference re: contact. Many will specify this. It may be email, eccie PM, P411, phone, or text message. Follow her preference.

Easiest when starting out is written contact--email or PM. When you write, be general--say you would love the opportunity to meet her some time. Don't say "I hear you suck a mean dick and fuck like a champ!"

Be nice; say nice; make nice.

Suggest when you would like to meet; if you need incall say you'd like to get together at her place. Ask her how she'd like to proceed in setting things up to meet.

If you have references or P411, it's always better to send that info in your first written contact. Also, feel free to ask if this (email; PM) is the best way to stay in touch with her.

Don't talk about sex or specific activities or anything beyond general "let's meet up!" stuff. She'll take it from there.

Good luck and have fun!

[Guest062716]

Originally Posted by meldrick

.... look over her ad for her stated preference re: contact. .... Follow her preference. CHECK

Easiest when starting out is written contact--email or PM. CHECK

When you write, be general--say you've read wonderful things about her on eccie, and would love the opportunity to meet her some time. CHECK

Don't say "I hear you suck a mean dick and fuck like a champ!" Pay a compliment or two: "I love your photos" or "I really enjoy reading your posts" or something nice. CHECK and CHECK

Suggest when you would like to meet; if you need incall say you'd like to get together at her place. Ask her how she'd like to proceed in setting things up to meet. CHECK

If you have references or P411, it's always better to send that info in your first written contact. Also, feel free to ask if this (email; PM) is the best way to stay in touch with her. CHECK

Don't talk about sex or specific activities or anything beyond general "let's meet up!" stuff. She'll take it from there. CHECK

Good luck and have fun!

TCreative2 and Meldrick are SPOT ON.

I will only add a few more hints.

When you contact her in writing and suggest when you would like to meet... on my initial time, I usually give them a few days and general hours that work for me, as well as the requested appointment length... as an example... "I am fairly free Wed-Friday this week from Noon to 4 PM, and would love to meet you for an hour. Do you an appointment available for me?" You also want to make sure that you are giving them ample time to screen you. Asking for a same-day appointment may raise a flag, if you are unknown to the lady.

I also give a brief general description of myself. Height, weight, hair and eye color, age. Some members here may not, but, the lady has posted the same info regarding herself and I think it helps with breaking the initial ice.

Good luck and happy hobbying!

Respectfully,

OldSarge

[gfejunkie]

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