references question for providers

[black5uperman]

I'm just curious but what kind info are you looking for when you ask a other lady for references?

Just curious cause I have been messaged saying that she asked about me and from what she heard they thought a session with me would be fun. I never contacted this lady and when I asked who said what she wouldn't tell.

How does a lady know if a guy wanted her to get info on him?

Just curious what kind of info is normally exchanged other than he is safe and pays?

[MsPrittiKitti]

typically, ill ask...

is he a gentleman?
safe?
did you have any issues?
would you see him again?
anything you feel i need to know about? ...

[Doc_rob]

Sounds like good reasonable questions to me...Might ask if he is P411 too.

[black5uperman]

Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

typically, ill ask...

is he a gentleman?
safe?
did you have any issues?
would you see him again?
anything you feel i need to know about? ...

Yea that sounds like need to know info for reference.

[levi tab]

Sounds like you received an unsolicited PM, is that correct? Was the lady that PMed you someone with lots of reviews, been around for while or a New Provider?

She may have looked at the type of ladies you reviewed and started to ask around about you and got you "Pre-Screened" lol

[black5uperman]

I don't care about the pm not trying to out the person just was curious what info is exchanged

[Secret Encounters]

BS i tend to send out a pm saying this ..
"hi its lexxxi i have a gentlemen using u as a refrence just wondering if hes good to go and would u see him again?
Thank you in advance
Lexxxi"
.. meaning if ur legit and ok. usually u dont have to ask other questions bc if someone is rude, smelly, shorted on donation that provider will dish it out to u without asking info.

However there are a few providers that have asked me questions about a hobbyist .. i initally thought she was asking for a refrence but she was like .. what do u know about _____ and i tell her hes cool and ect but likes to chat and a real sweetie.. then she asked is he big does he like daty and what does he look like .. im like damn .. so i tell her what i know and come to find out lol she pm'd him saying oh i heard about u .. and u like this and this and heard ur big ..lol.. i had no idea until he was like gurl what did u say about me .. im like i told her ur good.. so frm here on out i just give basic info on a guy and need to know info. Everything else is unneccessary. IMO!!

lexxxi

[Guest072013]

basically just ask for if he is safe and if they have met them. and of course if there is any other info that may help.

licks and kisses

[Likinikki]

I always ask if a provider had any issues...if they had good hygiene...safe to meet...and, would she see him again. I appreciate any additional information that she may include, to help me determine whether the hobbyist and I would be compatible.

I realize some hobbyists don't really care...they just want the *fun,* but for me, I want to make sure the date goes well...and, is enjoyable for the both of us.