Prostitution and Feminism

[Annef]

Yeah, lots of preconceptions concerning both men and women. My experience of most men doing this has been very positive. My issues, if you can call them that, have been more about me finding my ground with it all. I love it lil red! You are awesome! Thanks for the book, nicolet, I will check it out.

[stavinChain]

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

...the perception in the public is that men who pay for these services are fat, ugly, desperate, low life scumbags. The perception of the type of men in this Hobby is way off IMHO.

Agreed. I hobby because I can. It's a measure of my success. It's been said that women reward themselves with shoes, jewelry, etc; and men reward themselves with sex.

I have no doubt of my ability to woo civilian women, but I have a SO that I want to grow old with. I pay these women to go away.

[missroxie]

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

I can only imagine seeing 20 different men in a given week has got to be tiresome, mondane, and not eventful like it is for us hobbyiests. I believe it really is a job for you ladies, I think you act a lot. I think rarely do you have a mind boggling orgasm , if you do has to be from a regular you have seen several times. I also have to wonder who the hell is calling you ladies at 11pm on a week night? Really does the man work? If so is he in the medical field with weird hours? Just seems strange.

And then I wonder about how you ladies deal with the whole morality issue? Do you play on men's emotions that think they fall for you? Do you lose touch with reality by always acting? So many first dates that it becomes your personality and never going spiritually deep with people, few friends, being unable to discuss work at the Holiday dinner table with parents, siblings, etc. etc. Shame or guilt if any exists and then religious beliefs?

Just me - inquiring minds want to know, lol.

Hi! *waves*

Re:11pm
The guys call 24/7. I even had late night calls on Thanksgiving. Some guys are lonely and want company, and the mood doesn't strike at any particular time. One guy I called was in the medical profession, so I think that has something to do with it. Also, some guys work at the shipyard and have funny hours as well.

I think it is very exciting. Sometimes I get extremely excited and worked up, as I imagine hobbyists do. Sometimes it can be stressful (mostly dealing with bp stuff *rolleyes*), but I find I just need to a take a few personal days and I'm 110% again!

Sometimes it is hard for me to reach the big O, but I have had very good orgasms with clients.

For me it's not acting. Hey I never said I was very high on the moral ladder lol jk As for emotions, i think it's best that the client and I remain friends, but not get to serious. I do get quite a few men wanting to take me on 'real' dates.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by stavinChain

Agreed. I hobby because I can. It's a measure of my success. It's been said that women reward themselves with shoes, jewelry, etc; and men reward themselves with sex.

I have no doubt of my ability to woo civilian women, but I have a SO that I want to grow old with. I pay these women to go away.

I love that!

{alot of times I just want a good hard pounding and nothing else...just depends on my mood}

[stavinChain]

TO DO LIST:

1) Give Dallas a good hard pounding …
2) take nap

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by stavinChain

TO DO LIST:

1) Give Dallas a good hard pounding …
2) take nap

yessssssssssssssssssssssssssss sssssss!!

this is a very cool & interesting post!

[Guest080212]

Wow, powerfull stuff.

[Annef]

Are you guys kidding me? I think that is just so f!@@#$#ing offensive. You pay them to have sex with you, I assure you. And more than that, you pay for an experience of a PERSON

[ILIKE2BERIMMED]

Hi annef =)

[stavinChain]

Annef, I believe you're confusing prostitution with feminism. Welcome to the former.

[DallasRain]

my guys get "an experience like none other"..they are paying to be entertained!

[ILIKE2BERIMMED]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

my guys get "an experience like none other"..they are paying to be entertained!

Paying for a good night of sleep after a session with you Dallas

[Annef]

Sorry, haven't checked this thread in a while. But, stavin chain, i see no difference between the two of them, which was the point of the damn thread before it was hijacked by a bunch of insecure males as per the usual.

[GOOD TIME CHARLIE]

To be a true feminist and a prostitute is about as hypocritical as someone can be. Isn't feminism after all a testament by a woman to the world that she can make it in the world just like a man, and does not need a man for support. Its just like many of the providers out here who are lesbians and have female partners, but sell themselves to a man for financial support, "so you do need a man, afterall " is basically what you are saying, because without a mans sexual promiscuity you would starve to death. The early femist movement was actually started by many hardcore lesbians, and the whole backdrop of their movement was that they did not need a man.

The whole provider/hobbiest relationship or prostitution as it is called is basically propetuated by the inner weakness of both the male and female participants. For the men most are sexual deviants, that have wives, girlfriends, or commited relationships with a female, but because of boredom, or their inner perversions seek out other women to fullfill their twisted indulgences. Some hobbiest are males who have never been married, are scared of the financial loss of a failed marriage, or guys to scared of rejection to ask a woman out for a date.What is hilarious is when one of the so called dawgs gets busted by the wife when she finds his hobby phone, or someother evidence of his whoring, and all of a sudden he is on his knees begging her not to take the kids and everything he owns.

On the other hand the providers or the ladies, are playing a game they can never win, because beauty and attractivness have a expiration date, and the very core of the hobby is drive by a mans sexual urge to be with a young attractive beautiful woman.Yes, you do have some women that maintain a attractive appearance and sexual appeal into their late 40's even early 50's but usually most women that sold their self for top rates in their mid 20's to early 30's find it hard to attract a man for a quarter of that rate as she gets older. There is always the allure that a young high dollar hottie can make enough money and be set for life before she turns 30, and that is true, but the problem is for a woman it $$costs$$ to look your best, and when your making big easy money you spend big easy money, and instead of saving like you intended you spend the money on luxury cars, expensive clothes, and other trappings of a high dollar lifestyle, yes many of these providers are given many gifts of luxury and treated to a lavish lifestyle while in the company of their customers, but that is where the double edge sword of their profession cuts both ways, because they spend they money they are making living the lifestyle without their customers as well. Then there is always the hobby pitfalls like not really knowing whos walking through the door next, LE issues, health risk issues,etc. In the end most young girls that saw their bodies and selling sexual favors as their ticket to success find themselves as pitiful and broke as before they started.