Dom or Sub which are you?

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by Liliana

A bit of both really... More of a dom in real life and more of a sub other wise.

ditto...


guess we should see what It. princess would do with the two of us....

muah ha ha ha ha!


(she has toys for days)

[spice-is-nice]

I love playing anywhere on the scale from GFE/BFE to sensual domination to sensual domination with mild to moderately hard core elements (strap-on, nipple clamps, spanking, flogger crop). No interest at all in humiliation/degradation scenarios. I do find it interesting to play on the pleasure/pain boundary to enhance pleasure, and to see what level of corporal type activities I can teach/be taught to experience as pleasure.

Above all, I love pleasing my partner and having her assertively take her pleasure and teach me how to please her best is what I love. Now that can involve pretty vanilla making out and long kissing sessions (which I adore). How far we go up the kink scale (with a few hard limits) has more to do with what she likes than what I like.

I have big nipples for a guy which are always erect, and I love attention to them more than any single thing. Soft touch, kissing, sucking, twisting, pinching, nipple clamps, and ideally back and forth up and down the scale of intensity. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Tease and denial is an exquisitely sweet form of torture, especially while comfortably but securely bound.

Love the feeling of being the receptive one via strap-on. Done right, this doesn't hurt at all. Haven't been able to come exclusively from that, but have gotten close a few times.

Adore "forced" DATY/DATO

[lilly_amore]

sub

[robin hood]

Originally Posted by lilly_amore

sub

Yes, my dear you certainly are and so glad to see you back on the boards.

Miss you bunches

[islander7695]

Sub... no Dom... No.... Sub I think... I don't know.. Does that make me a sub then? I just like it all. Switch then... is there really such a thing. Aren't we truly deep down, once you peel away the layers one or the other. I'll go with I like what most would call kinky. It is hard for me to dom as I am worried about hurting or doing something to a girl that she does not like. With the right person and mutual level of trust I can enjoy being the Dom. But because of this I would have to say I enjoy the majority of time being the submissive.

[LilRed]

I am a collared sub and proud to be owned.

I have been a sub in my RL for almost a decade now. As a provider I am often asked to role play Domme to fulfill a clients fantasies. And of course, I always try to be my best at it. But my true heart is as a sub.

[LadyRed]

I was strictly a sub for many years, then my MasterDaddy taught me to Dom and let me have subs. I have found that many men enjoy being Dominated. So I am usually the Domme these days but still enjoy being MasterDaddy's little girl from time to time!
I think my experience as a sub has made me a better Dom...
Are you man enough to serve me????

[Addison Blake]

I am very naturally a sub. I'm not much into pain though some light stuff is ok but I really enjoy just being dominated by a man. I have done some very light dom stuf a couple of times when requested and I'm starting to open up more to it. I do enjoy a little dom every now and then but I enjoy being a sub much more

[houston_switch]

Switch but mostly enjoy sub... into spankings and making sure she is satisfied.
h_s

[nephilim6mg]

I've been known to switch with the right lady. Mostly, though, I'm dominant. Not real big on doling out serious pain, though. Just enough to keep things interesting.

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by LilRed

I am a collared sub and proud to be owned.

I have been a sub in my RL for almost a decade now. As a provider I am often asked to role play Domme to fulfill a clients fantasies. And of course, I always try to be my best at it. But my true heart is as a sub.

I'm told I could be a good learner...

Maybe if I had the right teacher...

You look good enough to unwrap!

[burkalini]

Always Dom, Always Dom