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CummingsLane · 12-18-2011, 03:33 PM

Different moods call for different things. I have had clients that wanted an all out non stop fuckathon today and the next day they want something more romantic & sensual. It all depends on what the provider is bringing to the table in regards to her client. Its not about falling in love its about giving a fuck about who you are seeing (pardon my french). But there is no way my client is walking out the door not feeling special about his time spent with me. He will always be pleased which is why GFE will always mean Great Fucking Experience to me.

Still Looking · 12-18-2011, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JasmineCummings

Different moods call for different things. I have had clients that wanted an all out non stop fuckathon today and the next day they want something more romantic & sensual. It all depends on what the provider is bringing to the table in regards to her client. Its not about falling in love its about giving a fuck about who you are seeing (pardon my french). But there is no way my client is walking out the door not feeling special about his time spent with me. He will always be pleased which is why GFE will always mean Great Fucking Experience to me.

And all this at $200 per hour! Where in the hell is the line! You should give provider lessons! God knows there are a few young ladies that could learn something from you!

Cpalmson · 12-19-2011, 12:32 PM

It is a fantasy. I'd say 99% of all hobbyists know this. The 1% who don't are the weirdos or the ones with relationship issues. To call GFE a lie is a bit harsh. GFE is a marketing tool just like PSE or whatever "experience" you want to call it. For those that just offer vanilla sex or just want vanilla sex, that is fine in my book.

For me when I'm looking for a provider, I don't care what she markets herself as. What I care about are 2 things-- looks and value of services. Looks is subjective and the criteria can literally be "flavor of the moment". It is one of those "if I see what I like, I want to set up a date" type situations.

As for services, the one overarching requirement for me is MSOG. If she doesn't offer it, I won't see her. I will only see providers that I know are MSOG. After that, everything else is pretty much gravy. I prefer a provider who is willing to kiss. I prefer BBBJ over CBJ. Other than MSOG, there really are no deal-breakers as long as I perceive that I will get value out of my session.

Whether or not a provider claims to be GFE isn't a determining factor for me. All I'm interested in is spending an hour to 2 hours having fun with a lady who hopefully has as much fun as I.

CummingsLane · 12-19-2011, 02:11 PM

Its about knowing what you want and going after it. Most seasoned hobbyist know it takes more than beauty & a smile to have a great time.

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Originally Posted by Cpalmson

It is a fantasy. I'd say 99% of all hobbyists know this. The 1% who don't are the weirdos or the ones with relationship issues. To call GFE a lie is a bit harsh. GFE is a marketing tool just like PSE or whatever "experience" you want to call it. For those that just offer vanilla sex or just want vanilla sex, that is fine in my book.

For me when I'm looking for a provider, I don't care what she markets herself as. What I care about are 2 things-- looks and value of services. Looks is subjective and the criteria can literally be "flavor of the moment". It is one of those "if I see what I like, I want to set up a date" type situations.

As for services, the one overarching requirement for me is MSOG. If she doesn't offer it, I won't see her. I will only see providers that I know are MSOG. After that, everything else is pretty much gravy. I prefer a provider who is willing to kiss. I prefer BBBJ over CBJ. Other than MSOG, there really are no deal-breakers as long as I perceive that I will get value out of my session.

Whether or not a provider claims to be GFE isn't a determining factor for me. All I'm interested in is spending an hour to 2 hours having fun with a lady who hopefully has as much fun as I.

Guest110516 · 12-19-2011, 02:24 PM

Remove GFE from the equation, and some hobbyists will still fall in love with providers. You can be a total bitch, and eventually you'll get, "You're the total bitch I've been waiting for all of my life...."

CummingsLane · 12-19-2011, 02:36 PM

Quality beats quantity every time

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

And all this at $200 per hour! Where in the hell is the line! You should give provider lessons! God knows there are a few young ladies that could learn something from you!

Still Looking · 12-19-2011, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by JasmineCummings

Quality beats quantity every time

So true sweetie!

DallasRain · 12-19-2011, 10:43 PM

I call mine an "OMFG" experience...lol

Still Looking · 12-19-2011, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I call mine an "OMFG" experience...lol

And have the reviews to prove it!

Hookerism · 12-20-2011, 01:14 AM

GFE is a sad thing. Its for those men so pathetic, they pay a hooker to pretend to be a girlfriend.

Honest truth is, she really does NOT want to kiss you. Would she kiss you for free? Umm NO!

Would a GF kiss you for free, umm Yes.

Its fantasy, but some men who are lonely or cant function in a normal social dating setting will end up falling for the act. One he paid for. then when it goes bad, he is posting BS on alert boards to ruin her.

Just get over the GFE BS, start having hard core, no BS sex. Its what you pay for. If you want a gf who is desperate, hit up pof.com

Plenty of desperate free pussy there who will kiss you losers for free

hobby hound · 12-20-2011, 01:23 AM

Same thing goes for the guys that don't need GFE and can go to Adult friend finder. I have seen some hot babes on adult friend finder and OMFG

burkalini · 12-20-2011, 01:35 AM

If there's money involved just do the sex.

alluringava · 12-20-2011, 01:42 AM

My impression was that GFE was simply a fantasy...that's why it is called the Girlfriend EXPERIENCE, not the actual 'girlfriend' you'd have in every day life. The experience itself is that there's no strings attached, there's no hassle or fuss or a girl calling you with her problems, etc etc etc, and she's there for your pleasure for that one or two hours or overnighter without any of the hassles of committment. That being said I can appreciate and understand what is being said, but I also feel it's a bit jaded to state that it's all a myth. Unless of course you include fantasy as myth.

That being said you can't help how some clients and escorts are going to react according to their emotions. I suppose given a choice between a GFE escort/call girl and a streetwalker experience that lasts ten minutes, a guy could still fall for the streetwalker. But most men want more than just the obvious sex...of course that's the bottom line. With GFE it's conversation and all that more. When it becomes an issue is when someone ( either escort or client) wants to cross the line and wants to be a real boyfriend/girlfriend or one falls for the other and the feeling isn't mutual. But this is just all IMHO and based on my experiences. I know for a fact I'd rather be known as a GFE escort than a blow and go street ho.

Still Looking · 12-20-2011, 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by alluringava

My impression was that GFE was simply a fantasy...that's why it is called the Girlfriend EXPERIENCE, not the actual 'girlfriend' you'd have in every day life. The experience itself is that there's no strings attached, there's no hassle or fuss or a girl calling you with her problems, etc etc etc, and she's there for your pleasure for that one or two hours or overnighter without any of the hassles of committment. That being said I can appreciate and understand what is being said, but I also feel it's a bit jaded to state that it's all a myth. Unless of course you include fantasy as myth.

That being said you can't help how some clients and escorts are going to react according to their emotions. I suppose given a choice between a GFE escort/call girl and a streetwalker experience that lasts ten minutes, a guy could still fall for the streetwalker. But most men want more than just the obvious sex...of course that's the bottom line. With GFE it's conversation and all that more. When it becomes an issue is when someone ( either escort or client) wants to cross the line and wants to be a real boyfriend/girlfriend or one falls for the other and the feeling isn't mutual. But this is just all IMHO and based on my experiences. I know for a fact I'd rather be known as a GFE escort than a blow and go street ho.

Well Put!

coolbreeze0003 · 12-20-2011, 08:42 AM

GFE works great for me; in fact I don't want anything else.

Of course it's fantasy. So what? It only means I'm in love with hundreds of women for an hour at a time instead of one for weeks/months/years.

I'm always in love with the one (or 2, or 3

) I'm with. Then I can't wait to be in love with another!

Come on, guys;... just the sex? I can have sex all by myself.