references for newbies determined to stay UTR

[robinson]

Having read a lot of the other threads, I'm still stuck. I don't know how a rookie gets the necessary references to meet with a provider without making themselves vulnerable. As a person for whom discretion and the complete and total avoidance of LE is a number 1 priority, I totally understand why the screening process is not only necessary, but healthy and beneficial for everyone involved. In fact, I'm all for it. The trouble is that it's a chicken or egg issue. I don't plan to be a frequent hobbiest, but I would love to establish a relationship with one person (maybe 2) whom I could visit with on a semi-recurrent basis.

Is there a way to be screened without becoming a member of a screening website? I don't want any of my information out there if I can avoid it, but I'm beginning to think there's no way around it.

Just looking for advice here. Feel free to PM me if that's a better way to go.

Cheers
Robinson

[Vyt]

Originally Posted by robinson

Is there a way to be screened without becoming a member of a screening website?

I would strongly recommend signing up for P411. Yes, it is a screening website but it is about as safe as you can get in this hobby (based in Canada where escorting is legal, and Gina, the owner, has been consistently the soul of discretion) and the vast majority of ladies will take your P411 information as all the screening they need.

If that does not work for you for whatever reason, well, as you said, it is a chicken-or-egg dilemma. Your best bet in that case is to find a provider who advertises as "newbie friendly" and determine if whatever screening she requires meets your safety needs.

[Whispers]

Agencies, Spas and traveling girls can be a lot easier to book with without the need for references....

PM the ladies you are interested in and ask them that same basic question.... Maybe they will have a suggestion.....

[robinson]

i think i'm largely at an impasse of wanting badly to get out there, and wanting just a little bit more not to get busted. just plain paranoid, i guess.

but I really appreciate the advice fellas. i'll investigate both suggestions.

if anyone else has other ideas or points of view, i'm all ears. ladies too.

R

[Britttany_love]

We ladies screen for our safety, just as you want to stay out of trouble we do to... Thats why we screen. There are many providers here that see newbies but unfortunately your going to have to give up some information kinda how this little world works. If you stick with well known reputable providers with great reviews and rep you should be fine.

[guest031812]

I have an alternative to normal screening, Pm me if you need help babe

[Rosiedaie]

Yes, it is a "chicken or egg come first" situation. I first registered on P411, but do know not all the men do. I am thus Newbie Friendly and try to work with all Newbies to try to make sure it is a safe and comfortable sitiuation for us both as possible.

xoxoxo,

Rosiedaie

512-557-4045
www.rosiedaie.escort-site.com

www.preferred411.com/austin/rosiedaie

http://goo.gl/hrNLb

[KlassyKelliAnn]

Originally Posted by robinson

Having read a lot of the other threads, I'm still stuck. I don't know how a rookie gets the necessary references to meet with a provider without making themselves vulnerable. As a person for whom discretion and the complete and total avoidance of LE is a number 1 priority, I totally understand why the screening process is not only necessary, but healthy and beneficial for everyone involved. In fact, I'm all for it. The trouble is that it's a chicken or egg issue. I don't plan to be a frequent hobbiest, but I would love to establish a relationship with one person (maybe 2) whom I could visit with on a semi-recurrent basis.

Is there a way to be screened without becoming a member of a screening website? I don't want any of my information out there if I can avoid it, but I'm beginning to think there's no way around it.

Just looking for advice here. Feel free to PM me if that's a better way to go.

Cheers
Robinson

You big chicken! Just kidding!


You could search for newbie friendly providers- some of them with screen you theur way- each lady's screening criteria is different- so find some you are interested in, ask them what do they need, go with the one that you are more comfortable with screening -wise. Then you have a reference. I will add this: Do YOUR OWN homework as well. You must make sure the lady you are seeing is credible, reliable and can be trusted. Search her reputation and history as a companion, etc. Also, when seeing AMPs, parlors, etc- remember that many reputable indy companions will not accept those places as references. This also goes for agencies.

And have no fear- once you start having fun- the chicken complex will ease up. But dont ever let down your guard.

Good Luck to you!

KKA
XOXO