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Originally Posted by robinson
Having read a lot of the other threads, I'm still stuck. I don't know how a rookie gets the necessary references to meet with a provider without making themselves vulnerable. As a person for whom discretion and the complete and total avoidance of LE is a number 1 priority, I totally understand why the screening process is not only necessary, but healthy and beneficial for everyone involved. In fact, I'm all for it. The trouble is that it's a chicken or egg issue. I don't plan to be a frequent hobbiest, but I would love to establish a relationship with one person (maybe 2) whom I could visit with on a semi-recurrent basis.
Is there a way to be screened without becoming a member of a screening website? I don't want any of my information out there if I can avoid it, but I'm beginning to think there's no way around it.
Just looking for advice here. Feel free to PM me if that's a better way to go.
Cheers
Robinson
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You big chicken! Just kidding!
You could search for newbie friendly providers- some of them with screen you theur way- each lady's screening criteria is different- so find some you are interested in, ask them what do they need, go with the one that you are more comfortable with screening -wise. Then you have a reference. I will add this: Do YOUR OWN homework as well. You must make sure the lady you are seeing is credible, reliable and can be trusted. Search her reputation and history as a companion, etc. Also, when seeing AMPs, parlors, etc- remember that many reputable indy companions will not accept those places as references. This also goes for agencies.
And have no fear- once you start having fun- the chicken complex will ease up. But dont ever let down your guard.
Good Luck to you!
KKA
XOXO