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catnipdipper · 11-11-2011, 01:01 PM

You say a little too much one time on this forum and; some person knows you,and the next thing you know you have leather straps around your wrists, you are bent over the bed and there is a vibrator up your ass.

Need I say more about discretion?

BobInKC · 11-11-2011, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by vkmaster

Hey BobInKC...so have you been to the Green Door in Vegas??? It's Ok, but knd of a tourist trap

Pandora's in Vegas...fun atmosphere, but far more upscale and discreet. Fun place to play and see folks, especially out of LA who are into a variety of Lifestyle fetishes.

True. The GD is the tredy place to go. I've been there on vanilla nights and I've been there on some red hot nights. The Red Rooster is always a good time but it's a different crowd. There's another one in the Commercial Center by the GD - Fantasies maybe? - and it's hit and miss. The Power Exchange on Industiral(or whatever it's called now) is fun and even has a Tranny night. Always interesting. The best ones are the private functions. I used to bartend a few of them and the atmosphere is much more relaxed and casual.

Not familiar with Pandoras. Nothing showed up in Google either.

Guest102513-1 · 11-11-2011, 02:12 PM

It's a private club, Pandora's Box...west of the strip, just past the Summerlin area, fairly new

The only way we heard of it, and got in, was thru a phone call made by our hotel guy @ Ceaser's. Guess it has sister operations in couple of other cities...maybe Atlanta or Chicago, but not sure of that

Is Power Exchange couple friendly???

Guest102513-1 · 11-11-2011, 02:16 PM

Hey catnipper...that type of situation would only occur, if the person opt'd for it.

Of course discretion is always the play in the world of hobbyland. But if it gets to the
point that discretion is based SOLELY on not being judged by other handles on this board....well.

But again, to each their own, guess ultimately there's no right or wrong when determining an individual's level of discretion

Muffrider · 11-11-2011, 02:19 PM

A very interesting question that raises issues about social values in a strictly virtual world. I suspect that many people fear rejection even if it's limited to cyberspace. Though it's strictly anonymous and virtual, there is a "community" of sorts. I have an image in my mind for a lot of the people who regularly post on this board, and even though I haven't met them, I feel like I know their online personae.

BobInKC · 11-11-2011, 02:33 PM

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Is Power Exchange couple friendly???

Always was when I was there. You know how those places are. Single women and couples get first look. It wasn't bad. As with a lot of those places it depends on the night.

Pandoras was in Summerlin? Was it a private residence. I do know I went to some great parties in some really nice houses/neighborhoods.

catnipdipper · 11-11-2011, 02:34 PM

I don't care if it rains or freezes;

Just don't break my plastic jesus,

Riding on the dashboard of my car.

I used to believe I was one of the "chosen." Those annointed ones that were allowed to push or go beyond the "boundaries." It is a way to rationalize behaviors that in hindsight..................... ....................... lead to thoughts like "what was I thinking anyway?"

Wisdom, maturity, and an ever increasing appreciation for discretion now limits my forays into the forbidden areas.

Some day in my Hoverround, wearing my now colorful Depends, I will pause, wipe the drool, and smile at what once was.

Guest090920 · 11-11-2011, 02:39 PM

Wave 'hello' to COG who is sitting in the wheelchair next to you!

catnipdipper · 11-11-2011, 02:42 PM

I have meaning to ask him about Battery Life and if he got his Dentures in Mexico?

Just to show how inventive I used to be in my youth.................I invented Double Reverse Cowgirl and Bungee Fucking.

Ah youth

Guest090920 · 11-11-2011, 02:56 PM

He's already forgotten all he knows about battery life or where he got his dentures. You'll need to ask someone else, maybe his favorite 'nurse' can help you.

Have we hijacked this thread? Ooops....back to being afraid to admit our freak flags!

FireSerpent · 11-11-2011, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by SillyGirl

A few times I have come across comments made by both men and women that men are unwilling to admit (on this board) that they are interested in someone outside of the norm.

The trannies thread in ISO brought this to mind (no would admit it? really?) but I've also seen a heavier provider post that she has seen a guy with a million spinner reviews but he wouldn't write a review on her because she doesn't fit the image of the women he usually sees.

So I guess my question is why would you feel the need to hide that on a fairly anonymous board. Do you feel pressure to conform to what is expected? Do you guys tear into each other in private for seeing someone unusual?

I feel like this should be a place that you can really let your freak flag fly and I wonder why it isn't.

I wonder if women on this board do the same thing? Do ladies give each other shit for seeing certain clients? Or clients who see certain providers?

I wonder what social norms providers feel they want or need to conform to in order to feel like they will fit in with their peers...

Lovin50 · 11-11-2011, 05:48 PM

Admit what and to who?
Just admit what you want with who you want to do it with. You see people registering as a second imaginary member just so they can ask a question and not get called out on it. Believe it or not there are providers that do it as well and register as a male just to play dirty tricks on those who the do not like. I've had a date lined up and received a PM from an anonymous male registered member who coincidentally had zero history of posts trying to bad mouth the provider who had a spotless great history with people I know. The heck with that, there are forums to bring up topics about anything you can think of.

Fetish play can only be enjoyed if you learn about it and try a sampling. Then you can decide it you want more or don't want it again........

ampad · 11-11-2011, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SillyGirl

So I guess my question is why would you feel the need to hide that on a fairly anonymous board. Do you feel pressure to conform to what is expected? Do you guys tear into each other in private for seeing someone unusual?

I feel like this should be a place that you can really let your freak flag fly and I wonder why it isn't.

I've only seen a few reviews of tgirls here. I don't see guys tearing into the reviewers really, just the usual comments of "good for you, but not for me" though I really don't understand the need to say they aren't for you. Seems like an under the breath "EWWWW".

I say we don't see more reviews of trannies because of client fears that certain providers would not see them anymore if they've been with a tranny provider. I've read that a "blacklist" happens in the porn industry quite frequently even if condoms are used. Logically the same condition would be applied here.

Guest102513-1 · 11-11-2011, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by FireSerpent

I wonder if women on this board do the same thing? Do ladies give each other shit for seeing certain clients? Or clients who see certain providers?

I wonder what social norms providers feel they want or need to conform to in order to feel like they will fit in with their peers...

Interesting question, but something tells me, we will be hearing crickets on that one...besides the usual "if they pass my screening" procedures.

Ladies, am I wrong????

guest010313 · 11-11-2011, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by FireSerpent

I wonder if women on this board do the same thing? Do ladies give each other shit for seeing certain clients? Or clients who see certain providers?

I wonder what social norms providers feel they want or need to conform to in order to feel like they will fit in with their peers...

Oh the women are certainly held to certain standards of board behavior (but that is mostly health/safety related). But there are huge factions among the frequent posters at least which also probably extend to the rest.

I don't talk about it, and I won't name names, but there are certainly people that if you give me a particular name or two as a reference I won't see you. Admittedly my reasons for that based on things told to me by clients (and y'all know there is a LOT of lying going about all sorts of stuff by all sorts of people) but I weighed them against my own experiences and have chosen to put them on a private list. I do not imagine that it will really prevent me from seeing people that also see them but I do what I can. Eh but that is quite tangential.

I would say that women are ffected by but not subject to most of the pack mentality on hooker boards.

I do know for a fact, again won't name anyone, that at least one person that I have been seeing for a year won't ever admit it or write a review because he is afraid of losing status among the anti-Lili clique.

I feel like there have been a lot of really thoughtful responses, but I also think that people are taking this very literally. This is not a thread about trannies or BDSM. I wanted to see how you felt about the concept of self censorship and social values (thanks Muff) in a virtual world. .