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ElisabethWhispers · 11-04-2011, 11:09 AM

I used to be a 30 minute appointment snob. I refused to do them for years.

And then a couple of years ago, I changed. I started to offer 30 minute appointments and wow, I loved it. You can do a LOT in thirty minutes! A LOT! Grin.

But the reason why I'm writing this is to let guys know that in certain advertising mediums, an escort cannot mention 30 minute time frames. So if you're interested in seeing a woman for a shorter length of time, just ask her.

I very much respect the ladies that stick to their guns with hour, two hour or more minimums. I sincerely do. But when I changed the way that I did things about two years ago, it was a pleasant surprise to learn that these shorter type of appointments were actually a good and viable offering.

And I have found that the 30 minute appointments offer a different type of fun. And there is no law that states that you can't go a little over time!

If there are ladies that offer shorter appointments, don't be shy! Let us know! I'm sure that the guys here would appreciate it.

For the members reading this, there are some men who do not like 30 minutes. I understand that completely, but let me know your thoughts about this topic overall. Thanks!

Elisabeth

pmdelites · 11-04-2011, 11:13 AM

excellent thoughts, elisabeth.

if we all liked the same thing, same length of interaction, think how boring/routine it would be.

they dont call it diverse-ity for nothing!!
variety is everywhere - accept it, live it!!

ElisabethWhispers · 11-04-2011, 11:19 AM

Thanks for the positive thoughts, mr. deliteful!

Like all topics, I'm always a bit concerned on how it will be perceived. And this is the direction that I sincerely appreciate!

Hugs ...

guest032413 · 11-04-2011, 12:43 PM

I once heard that the best sex happens within 7 and 13 mins.
Unless your lokking for a connection, friendship or bodyrub a 30 min
Session would be perfect.

txcwby6 · 11-04-2011, 01:35 PM

if/when i'm ready to pop, doing so in a 30 minute window can sometimes make it more intense and satisfying. kinda like a quick morning fuck before heading to the office.

Kaci Snow · 11-04-2011, 01:59 PM

Elisabeth, I 100% agree with you ! You can do alot in 30min.s. I do not publicly (in an ad or my site) advertise 30min.s appointments but as you said its amazing what could happen if a guy just asked for it .

I know what you mean about the guys not liking that some providers offer 30min. appointments. I can understand why they feel this way. I think that in some ways it makes them automaticly think that you are high volume and that could be a huge turn off to them. I know that each girl is different and allowed to charge and determin her own appointment times, but at the same time i think that we at times get "burned" in a way for our advertising of certian appointment lengths and rates.

AWSOME topic Elisabeth !

HoneyRose · 11-04-2011, 02:02 PM

I've joined an Australian board to begin research for a possible visit in 2012, and found almost half the ladies offer 45 minutes sessions.

So, I've been pondering offering those when I visit. It seems odd because the difference between 45 minutes and 60 is so small. Maybe it really means a quickie up to 45 minutes?

I just don't know how I would say at the 45 minute mark "Our time is up." It seems it would be about an hour anyway.

I don't believe I've ever even seen a US escort offer 45 minutes.

(I don't have any thoughts right now on 30 minutes dates, but thought this 45 minute info might add to the discussion).

guest032413 · 11-04-2011, 02:19 PM

Hmm... I never thought that a guy may think my I have a large volume of sessions, I advetise that I do offer half hr sessions to help my slow volume, thinking it may be better affordable for many clients.
Am I doing this all wrong?

cheatercheater · 11-04-2011, 02:34 PM

I am one who loves 30 minute sessions. Lots of foreplay to wind up quickly, reach that plateau, and a minute to say the goodbyes.
But then again I am quick on the trigger and a one hit wonder so that may have much to do with it.
It also works better with my schedule. My phone rings constantly throughout the day. If I am not answering within that 1/2 hour time frame, too many people start wondering what's wrong, start asking questions, and we all know busybodies are the enemy.

Kaci Snow · 11-04-2011, 02:39 PM

Kandy i dont think your doing anything wrong at all. People will always think what they want to. I for one dont mind offering them when i already have an incall set up for the day. I dont work daily so advertising 30min.s for me isent really an option.

Just as there are gents who wont see ladies who charge less than $300 there are also gents who wont see girls that offer 30min. appointments.

I guess a guy in some ways feels that a lady who charges $300 or more is not as likely to see as many cients a day as one who may charge only $200.
It goes the same with appointment lengths i think. A gent will feel that if a lady is offering 2H or more wont see as many clients as a lady who advertises 30min. appointments.

I hope this helps you understand what i ment Kandy.
By the way you are a beautiful young woman .

pmdelites · 11-04-2011, 02:44 PM

i cant remember the last time i had a 30 mins session w/ an independent.
a 15-20 BnG years ago, but 30 mins? only at AMPs.

but, waldt.

for those wanting a bit extra time, i remember a group of deliteful women [incl. sam milone] who offered 75 mins sessions for 225. talk about a great deal & value!

Bonferroni · 11-04-2011, 03:00 PM

Think the last time I had a 30 min session, I really wanted to see the darling gal but also had tix to a Mavs playoff game. As Elizabeth suggests, a lot can happen in 30 minutes, but a lot more happens in 60 minutes.

Guest091314 · 11-04-2011, 03:01 PM

I do not mind offering 30 min appt to those I have previously met or that have p411. To screen by provider references just for a half hour appt can be a hassle depending on when the desired appt is.

txcwby6 · 11-04-2011, 03:09 PM

a 30 minute session reminds me of a quick makeout with a girl outside of a bar or someone you just met but want to fuck. makes for an orgasm from a different perspective.

Tetas · 11-04-2011, 03:09 PM

I've never booked less than an hour, but I don't think poorly of those that do or the women that offer them.
The only time I really worry about a lady being more "high volume" is when they TELL me that they are.
I really don't understand why some women seem to want to tell you how busy they've been, I even had one girl tell me that she had 15 appointments the day before.
Too much Info!!

(Going along with that, when I ask how you've been, I don't really wanna hear about your arthritis, aching back or gall stones...I'm just being polite!)