"Her genie certainly doesn't demand attention"
it's cos women have stronger will and emotions that men do.
can you keep it flacid or even semi-erect when someone is caressing it?
q.e.d.
[yeah, i know, i'm over generalizing, which i often chide others for doing. but this is all tongue in cheek. or should i say in cleft?]
seriously, the anatomy and physiology are different. at least in my experience, unless the clitoral and genital parts are caressed in the way appropriate for her [and different women respond differently], she isnt going to respond sexually or erogenously. or even animalistically. :^)
also, if you having an experience that is "a little bit deflating to be presented with evidence that your touch produces no effect on her.", then dont worry so much about the results and just enjoy the touch. if she wants more, i'm pretty sure she'll ask for that, either verbally or non-verbally. if she doesnt want more, i'm pretty sure she'll let you know, either verbally or w/ a slap of her hand on yours. :^)
you could just ask her what she'll allow and what she likes.
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