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bob1962 · 10-30-2011, 02:11 AM

What I'm asking is how do we see if we How do you say it? click, have a little bit of chemistory. Anyone know what I mean?. When I first met someone I need to sit down and get to know them a little. So how long is that 15, 20, 35 min? But time is money I understand no I'm not looking for love just satisfying sex. So what is the right way to bring this up?

Thank You
Bob.

Sonya Playmate · 10-30-2011, 06:02 AM

I know what you mean siting down and getting to know each other.The first time I get to meet someone new I get a little nervous. Once we sit down chat for like 20 mins and have some wine then I feel much more open. I know a few companions that love to spoil & make you feel at ease. I hope this helps

SP

Numbah79 · 10-30-2011, 08:27 AM

I'm of the opinon that you can get a general idea of the personality of a companion simply by how they conduct themselves after that first message is sent. Did they laugh? Did the charm come out? Gentle teasing or excitement at any ideas that might have come up? I believe that personality can bleed through something as simple as a text message if you choose to do so. While not perfect, it can be a rough guideline as to the type of person you my find on the other side of the door. Its something I think about as well, so I know where you're coming from in terms of chemistry.

And Sonya, I have this suspicion that you light up any room you're in with your smile and personality...that goes a long way in settling ones nerves and creating a connection on the spot!

SpursFan · 10-30-2011, 08:37 AM

I disagree with you Numbah79,

Those 1st communications let you know if a young lady has "TCB" skills. (aka Taking Care of Business) It is very important that ladies maintain these skills, especially timely communications.

It is hard to tell much from texts or emails but I would concede that a little personality comes through but it's very limited.

So much more is gathered in a one on one personal meet and greet. The challenge is to get into meet and greet.

That is why reviews are so important here. Though they are all YMMV, if you see a consistent trend or pattern of similar reviews/experiences, one can make a better decision.

You may find you and another member may have the same taste in women and share notes. Use the PM system to share the 411 and pay the favor forward if someone asks you for advice.

If you are lucky to get "vouched" to one of those non ECCIE sanctioned socials you could meet multiple ladies to see if you have a "connection" and go from there. I sure did.

Good luck,

SF

Laz · 10-30-2011, 10:26 AM

I agree the socials are great ways to meet the providers. I wish more providers would attend. The Hollow Weenie social was the best I have been to.

PaganGuy · 10-30-2011, 10:51 AM

Definitely dont believe in jumping right into bed.. like a nice friendly convo and some flirting.. the best have been those who will start the flirting and fun in text building up anticipation to the meeting. And the best best will continue to be personable after and not care where the clock is once business has been taken care of. Its not about just pay and cum and go.. gotta be an exciting, interesting personality to complete the fantasy that Im actually being with someone usually far hotter than I could manage with charm alone.

Desperado · 10-30-2011, 12:00 PM

I can agree with most guys here. I like to get to know the lady at least a little before we start the fun. That way I can get a good feel of what her personality is like, which to me is a determining factor if I will return or not. If the lady drinks I usually bring a bottle of her favorite wine to sip and chat with her over.

Sonya Playmate · 10-30-2011, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Laz

I agree the socials are great ways to meet the providers. I wish more providers would attend. The Hollow Weenie social was the best I have been to.

Yes, sure was the BEST Hollow Weenie social

Geeze there's that "mouse" again LOL ha

SP

MsPrittiKitti · 10-30-2011, 12:37 PM

gotta agree, socials are the best way to get to meet a lot of the ladies

maybe reading the lady's post will help you get a feel for her ::blush::
a bottle of wine is also a great way to start the date

theres lots of friendly ladies here!!!
we only bite if you want us to

foxyred73 · 10-30-2011, 04:47 PM

i have to agree with sonya on the hollow weenie social ..it was the best and i got to meet some of the ladys here on eccie that i never meet before.

It was fun seeing everyone letting there hair down and dressing up.

haley rose

foxyred73 · 10-30-2011, 04:55 PM

The ladys also get to know the men outside the bedroom when comes to the social.

haley rose

Desperado · 10-31-2011, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Sonya

Geeze there's that "mouse" again LOL ha

SP

Ha!! I just now got it... Sorry, I'm shlowww..

sanantonioman37 · 10-31-2011, 12:59 AM

The socials are the best way to get to know a provider in a semi public way with out any worries.

Also why not ask a provider out to dinner or drinks before an appointment.

The reviews can be a good source of info especially if another hobbyist has similar taste in woman as you do.

You can also try the chat room feature on eccie.

Sonya Playmate · 10-31-2011, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Desperado

Ha!! I just now got it... Sorry, I'm shlowww..

For real?

Hola mouse

Likinikki · 11-02-2011, 01:56 AM

bob1962, the best providers just *know* how to put a hobbyist at ease. I enjoy a little conversation too...but, sometimes, the best way to put someone at ease...is to just plant a huge wet one right on the kisser! (lol) I LOVE to kiss...and, in my experience, kissing always gets the chemistry going!

All kidding aside, the best thing to do is to learn to RELAX and have fun!