Dom or Sub which are you?

[The Big Kahuna]

Sub...have to be the dom in my company all day long 7 days a week...blindfold me tie me up tickle me, tease me, finger me and fuck me.....leave me helpless!

[CarmelaLeal]

More than 32 flavors exists here. I consider myself a very sensual switchable Sub/Dom. Exploring another realm indeed.

[Mojojo]

Good answers people, lets keep it going. Be sure to add why you feel which role fits you best.

CarmelaLeal the only switch you'll be doing with me is position's

[whitechocolate]

Sonya, yes let me know when you will be in Houston as I am working on a very kinky session for you to thoroughly enjoy

[exoticbabygirl]

sub but can be dom....but really love sub

[trailor]

Ugh.... I don't have a sub bone in my body. Even reading the interactions between the dom girls and sub guys here causes very base, primitive negative responses in me. I love confident girls that know what they want and show a ton of enthusiasm... but the dom "goddess" types just irritate me to no end.

[MsKriss4Play]

Originally Posted by mojojo213

Good answers people, lets keep it going. Be sure to add why you feel which role fits you best.

In My experience, D/s is role reversal. In an essence, the Dom/Domme is really being the submissive to the submissives desires. The Top may include ridicule or a sample of a fetish that may not be on the submissives menu in order to 'push the envelope'. But, the Top is always at a concern for the submissive. As a Domme, I like to explore the submissive's willingness. As a Domme, the 'foreplay' can last for hours before final release. Being that I am a female, hours of 4play is rare as most Doms can not last that long. This is great, if they can continue the play.

As a submissive, just switch the reasoning around. I'm doted upon for a lengthy amount of time. My comforts are a concern even if the event is lengthy and uncomforable. The after care as a submissive is Tops! And, I tend to have more puddles of wetness as a submissive than a Domme.

I like both equally... And yet I choose to Dominate.

[robin hood]

Dom mostly, but I often think how erotic it would be to have the woman take a more Dom role for once, someone that would rip your shirt off and lavish your body, grab my head and bury it between their legs pulling my hair until they orgasm. Flipping me over with her on top teasing me with her nipples while holding my arms above my head. Ok, need a shower now. Not anything S&M watching that stuff just freaks me out.

[Explorer]

I am definitely a Dom but usually suppress it when with a new lady. I'll let her start and then gradually lead the way I want things to go. I've just created a Yahoo group (and have more work to do on it) to describe my ideal situation.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HaremGirlExperience/

[RegularFemale205]

I refuse to call myself a switch, lol.

I've been kinky all my life but only found out about the online (and real life) kinky community recently. I think because of my appearance submissive men flock to me, so I'm forced into the Domme role. My sub side is very hardcore. No man would even attempt it.


But I'm excited to play all roles though.

[Guest020814]

Originally Posted by CarmelaLeal

More than 32 flavors exists here. I consider myself a very sensual switchable Sub/Dom. Exploring another realm indeed.

Mmm... A LaineLarsonCarmelaLeal sundae!! I don't even need the other 30 flavors.
So, Carmela, a little switchy, are we? :-)

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

Sonya, yes let me know when you will be in Houston as I am working on a very kinky session for you to thoroughly enjoy

Oh, yeah? I'm ready lol

[whitechocolate]

Sonya, I am totally ready for you

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

Sonya, I am totally ready for you

WC, I'm game.. I look forward meeting you as well. I can't wait..

[ItalianaPrincess]

I enjoy being dom, and I really get "Deep" into it...(pun intended) but it all depends on the situation.

But I also enjoy being a SUB to someone who wants to take control and knows what he wants.