TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER

[Anita Lay]

Ladies and Gentlemen,
I want your thoughts and ideas on what you consider to be upscale and high class in a provider.

[chrissy]

Well to be honest every one has their different views of what high class really is.. Being educated and expensive are 2 that come to my mind but I too am curious as to what everyone else thinks.

[Anita Lay]

well chrissy, seems like the men don't give a hoot and just want pussy...just saying.

[~Ze~]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

well chrissy, seems like the men don't give a hoot and just want pussy...just saying.

Not exactly the public behavior one would look for in an HDH.

Why don't you start by reading how members of this forum interact with each other. Read topics they discuss... observe and examine.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Not exactly the public behavior one would look for in an HDH.

Why don't you start by reading how members of this forum interact with each other. Read topics they discuss... observe and examine.

I would have to agree with this.

[John Bull]

Not as if this subject hasn't been discussed on every review board in the land; over and over again. In all my years as a mod and a hobbyist, I've never seen unanimous agreement.
Nevertheless, have at it ladies. It's always good for about five pages of posts.

[Chloe Kensington]

Originally Posted by John Bull

Not as if this subject hasn't been discussed on every review board in the land; over and over again. In all my years as a mod and a hobbyist, I've never seen unanimous agreement.
Nevertheless, have at it ladies. It's always good for about five pages of posts.

Yes but what I think is changing is men's attitudes to women and vice versa. I think what is truly an exceptional companion - call it HDH or whatever - never really changes, but changing economic and social conditions breed all kinds of watered-down versions.

Great companionship or sex is never just about pussy as a lot of people here know.

[Anita Lay]

JOHN BULL DEAR,
some of the newbies have not seen this over and over and over...
I was being funny and sarcastic and it was not understood that way.
would love for someone to refer me to that list of what men and women consider high-class, up-scale to be...
people can get on the board and write what they feel all day and I only am getting a vibe of their personality.
I have my ideas of high class and the one that comes to mind has potty mouth like you can't imagine. love her honesty.....
I have heard the term 'bottom feeders' and other such words but I don't want to confuse popularity with high class-upscale.
You have a type of calliber in every aspect of life and in every type of job.
Look at Hustler in comparison to Playboy is obvious but I don't have a clue on what is highclass in comparison to Average. I don't think there are any bottom feeders around here in my opinion.
example-someone told me that highclass have their own sites and only book two hour appointments, stay in the best luxary hotel, and charge the highest.
what confuses me, some men don't know just by looking at a profile that she stays in a up scale hotel and the profile doesn't have the amount, so how does one KNOW. going by what one SEES

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

JOHN BULL DEAR,
some of the newbies have not seen this over and over and over...
I was being funny and sarcastic and it was not understood that way.
would love for someone to refer me to that list of what men and women consider high-class, up-scale to be...
people can get on the board and write what they feel all day and I only am getting a vibe of their personality.
I have my ideas of high class and the one that comes to mind has potty mouth like you can't imagine. love her honesty.....
I have heard the term 'bottom feeders' and other such words but I don't want to confuse popularity with high class-upscale.
You have a type of calliber in every aspect of life and in every type of job.
Look at Hustler in comparison to Playboy is obvious but I don't have a clue on what is highclass in comparison to Average. I don't think there are any bottom feeders around here in my opinion.
example-someone told me that highclass have their own sites and only book two hour appointments, stay in the best luxary hotel, and charge the highest.
what confuses me, some men don't know just by looking at a profile that she stays in a up scale hotel and the profile doesn't have the amount, so how does one KNOW. going by what one SEES

I understand what you mean, Anita.

Anyone can book an expensive hotel room, and charge more, but it's up to the client to decide whether she is worth the money more because she is pretty and she's a good lay, or because she is well-rounded and he can see himself with her in more than just the bed. Any closer to combing the two gets you to gold.

There are guys who are looking for good lays, and can afford it no matter what it costs. Then there are true Gentlemen who are looking for TRUE companions, and they may not be able to afford most HDH ladies' price tags. I don't want this to turn into a perceived value conversation, which these threads tend to do, so I'll just say that a well-rounded woman does well in this industry.

Luxury, HDH, Upscale, Classy is in the eye of the beholder.

[Anita Lay]

good point Tiff...
Since I have posted this thread I had some private messages sent to my webpage on what they thought was high class , upscale... one posted a great fancy website with professional pictures, having pictures that wasn't tooo explicit (no spread eagle and touching) leaving something to the imagination. Showing pictures in a dress and heels so he knows you are worthy of taking into public.
Another man wrote- having on your profile or website having information about education and intelligent conversation(for white collar men). Always having your nails done. He said to look like a million dollars and get treated that way.
hmmmmmmmm

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by John Bull

Not as if this subject hasn't been discussed on every review board in the land; over and over again. In all my years as a mod and a hobbyist, I've never seen unanimous agreement......

I'm sorry, I have to strongly disagree with John Bull here!!!.......See?? He's right!!

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

good point Tiff...
Since I have posted this thread I had some private messages sent to my webpage on what they thought was high class , upscale... one posted a great fancy website with professional pictures, having pictures that wasn't tooo explicit (no spread eagle and touching) leaving something to the imagination. Showing pictures in a dress and heels so he knows you are worthy of taking into public.
Another man wrote- having on your profile or website having information about education and intelligent conversation(for white collar men). Always having your nails done. He said to look like a million dollars and get treated that way.
hmmmmmmmm

That's true, but I know very High dollar women that does the complete opposite. But in a definitely classy way. I mean, professional porn shots in your ads: how classy does it get after that? LOL. It's not my approach, but she can command 1k/hr. And stay busy. From what I hear, she's as intelligent and as wild as they come.

And honestly, some of the best and diverse conversation I've ever had was with a farmer. Believe it or not, I've been told I'm smart: FOR A BLACK PERSON. TO MY FACE. I've also been told that I carry myself well. ALMOST LIKE I WASN'T BLACK. TO MY FACE! And not by the same person. Then the jerk asked me if I was mixed with White. Stereotyping intelligence and class to me is wrong. That's why I don't dwell on public opinion when it comes to people. I let people surprise me, and derive at my own opinion.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

good point Tiff...
Since I have posted this thread I had some private messages sent to my webpage on what they thought was high class , upscale... one posted a great fancy website with professional pictures, having pictures that wasn't tooo explicit (no spread eagle and touching) leaving something to the imagination. Showing pictures in a dress and heels so he knows you are worthy of taking into public.
Another man wrote- having on your profile or website having information about education and intelligent conversation(for white collar men). Always having your nails done. He said to look like a million dollars and get treated that way.
hmmmmmmmm

Here's my take on this:

I don't care to be branded as a high end companion/escort. Everyone that sees my website/meets me in person refers to me as being high end. I shoot it down every time. Nowhere on my website or ads would one ever see the term "high class". I for one, think a lot of high end ladies are very pretentious. Not all but some. Education? That is funny. What do they do? Bring their degrees to their dates? I know a girl that claims she has a phd and has never had an education past high school - it's hilarious. Talk to her and you'll be hooked - she's very intelligent and know exactly what she's talking about.

Tiffany said it best - It's in the eye of the beholder. I can't tell you what makes one a high end companion - you can search the threads for that. However, here are some tips:

1.) Don't brand yourself as a high end companion if your going to show pussy pictures (Those men REALLY do not want to see that). No one wants to see the inside of your vagina plastered all over the internet. If you're not selling sex and just companionship why put your pussy on display? See how that could clash with one's marketing? yup! Most of the pictures on my website are full clothed with the exception of a few lingerie shots. I always get compliments on them. I do not post nudes. A companion by the name of Lauren Summerhill has gorgeous nudes on her site. Tasteful nudes are always fun to look at.

2) If you're going to charge over $300 a hour, at least get your pictures done by a professional photographer. You'll make that money back. Scott Church is a wonderful photographer and his rates are really low - Check him out. You can also check out Meeshee. One of these photographers are infamous for photoshopping the girl to death. You want your pictures to look like YOU. Doesn't matter who you go with, just let the photographer know that.

3.) Tiffany mentioned expensive hotels. Expensive hotels does not make one a high end companion. If you're staying at the Waldorf Astoria or the Mariott Marquis and your room looks like Hurricane Irene just went through it, there are leftovers from Joeblow that left your room an hour ago in the bathroom trashcan, you fall asleep on your date because you couldn't stop drinking appletinis and you were out partying all night - there goes your reputation. Being a high end companion is not something you can fake. I have heard of guys meeting ladies with gorgeous websites, great pics and then they get there and she's drunk, she's muttering her words, she's not that great in the sack..etc. They're only fooling themselves and no one else. Those ladies do not last in this business. One guy told his friend and that friend told busty bertha and now everyone knows. Yup new spreads like wildfire around these parts.

4.) Now this will sound a bit odd from me

Attitude: Be sweet, Be kind, Be considerate, Be helpful. A lady that bitches to her clients/potential clients is setting herself up for doom. While I may bs here on eccie and make sarcastic remarks to some, you'll never find a review that says I have a bad attitude. Always make the client feel like a million bucks. If a client emails you saying he has to cancel, don't yell at him and tell him you're putting him on a blacklist. Why do I mention this? Just yesterday a guy friend of mine was telling me about a "hdh" that blacklisted him simply because he said he didn't think he would have the time to see her. Mind you he didn't actually set up an date with her. Ladies like that show their true character. Who wants to spend $475 an hour on someone with that attitude. Yes websites and marketing is what gets the date but attitude and bcd skills is what creates a regular. I don't care how hot you think you are - being a asshole will get you NOWHERE.

5.) Drugs and Alcohol: Alcohol is not my friend. I can get drunk off of two bottles of corona (yes beer). I have noticed that a lot of hdh that have either drug or alcohol issues. There are exceptions to the rule of course. On occasion I will have a drink with a client, it doesn't affect the quality of our date. Just one appletini doesn't hurt . However, I have heard of a lot of "HDH"/high end escorts getting drunk or doing drugs on their date. Now let's not go back to middle school or high school here, we ALL know how alcohol and drugs can't affects ones ability to make good judgement. Don't get drunk or do drugs on your dates, there is nothing cute, funny, attractive about that and guess what? The news will spread like wildfire that that is the type of girl you are and you will leave this business in BAD shape. Yup I am the "just say no" escort. Nothing wrong with that.

[WTF]

I don't no chit about High Class but I do know classy people do not talk about class, they don't have to.

See, I'm not to classy so I can talk about dat caca.

I think though, that we are talking about two different things.

1) Is really how to market or conduct oneself. That I suppose can be learnt.

2) The other is just class. Some folks are just born with class.Lucky bastards! Either you were born with it or not.

[Kimberlee]

Naomi and Tiffani~I agree with both of you!

Enjoy, be sweet, well rounded, and fun!