mostly i've used blindfolds.
and havent done it when we both were blindfolded - will have to do that soon!
from a stroll down my memory lane...
one of my intros to D/s was a woman ["LA"] introduced to me from another sub ["KD"]. KD vouched for me so that LA was comfortable w/ the encounter. i talked w/ a her a couple of times and then made arrangements to meet once she came to dallas. i told her that i wanted her to leave the door unlocked, be naked with a blindfold, and kneeling on the floor facing away from the door. KD said i could ask her to do almost anything [no greek] but not call her my slave, as we were just client/provider. KD also said that LA was an expert in fellatio and satisfying her dates.
so, i arrived, entered and complimented her on following my instructions. for the next 50 mins, she did exactly as i asked, working me to 2 spurting orgasms and several body orgasms. after the activities were over, i showered and then asked her to join me on the couch so i could hold her and thank her for being a very good submissive slut [her choice of words]. she asked me if i would remove the blindfold and i said NO. she kinda whimpered a bit but i remained firm. but, her sweetness and submissiveness to my desires won me over and i removed it just before i left.
we played similar encounters for several years. we also used one of those black hoods w/ only a hold for the mouth - mostly she wore it, but i did a time or two when i let her take the reins.
i sure do miss her!!!
a few that are acceptable on eccie.
and links to others that are not acceptable on eccie.
http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2007-...sked%20sub.JPG
http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2007-...%20sucking.JPG
http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2007-...lded%20cum.JPG