Ladies: Do you care about a thank you?

[rick1971]

I've been wondering about this for a while so I'll just put it out there and hopefully get some provider feedback. As a provider, if you see a client for the first time and you think it went well, would you like it if he sent you a e-mail later thanking you for the session...or would it not matter at all...or would you think to yourself "I hope this guy isn't going to become a time waster and want to e-mail me all the damn time"? I've felt like e-mailing ladies afterwards thanking them, but just don't know if it's appropriate. I've had a provider e-mail me after a session and I liked that. I just don't know if it's ok the other way around.

[Sweet N Little]

I think its OK, very appreciated & a nice touch , I usually send them as well.

[GabrielaSweetheart]

I've never gotten one, and really have never thought about it until you said it. That would be nice, I don't think it would be weird (:

[Chica Chaser]

I'm guessing that most would appreciate a quick note afterwards. I think they would appreciate more the awesome review you just wrote about your experience. That is something that you can do to help her with her business.

SnL, you always come up with just the right picture for any occasion!

[Biomech]

When I am happy with how the session went then I will usually send a short email telling her how much I enjoyed her company, how attractive I found her to be, that I'd like to see her again, etc...

I don't feel obligated to send an email, and I certainly wouldn't say anything in the email I didn't mean, but I think that most providers would see it as a nice gesture.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

I'm guessing that most would appreciate a quick note afterwards. I think they would appreciate more the awesome review you just wrote about your experience. That is something that you can do to help her with her business.

SnL, you always come up with just the right picture for any occasion!

I try

[Old-T]

I usually try to send a quick thank you e-mail. It seems reasonable when a lady has just spent a few hours making my evening better and leaving me smiling. I've never been told by any of them that it was a sign of stalking.

[Kitten]

I enjoy the emails and view my gentlemen as friends before clients. It does mean a lot to me when a date shows up with flower, perfume , a music play list he created or just a cherry coke. To me it means that he views our time the way I do.I do try to keep in contact with all my past and potential future clients . I value the time it took for them to make such a sweet gesture .

Thank you to all the men who have made me smile and for taking the time for the little things.

[evietaylor]

I have received a few thanks you's from patrons after our date and it was definitely appreciated.

To flip this around though, I always email the gentleman that I've visited with after our time together. He's the one spending his hard earned money.

Plus, if the date went well, it gives me the opportunity to tell him that I'd be willing to give him a good reference if he were to ever contact other ladies.

I have done my business this way since day 1 and honestly, always thought it was just a part of good business. I guess I'm just really polite.

[shorty]

I usually send a email or text to the lady within a few days, after our session. Know one has complained about it. I have left a card on the bed before thanking her for the session. She didn't know I left it until several hours later, when she got back to her room.

[AdventureAdams]

Gents I meet always show their appreciation for my company and i always welcome then.
Most of the time they show gratitude when the date is concluding face to face, some give me a quick text or email. It is always puts a smile on my face, makes me feel like i did an awesome job.

[Still Looking]

Notes, Cards, Gifts, Messages, PM'S, Emails and Phone Calls are all wonderful. But nothing is as wonderful as treating that person with dignity, respect, with a touch of humor or sincerity during your session. I also believe that looking straight into some ones eyes and telling them how you feel is irreplaceable comparatively speaking. My style is humor. Any provider, who knows me, can testify to the fact you can’t be with me for a half hour or more with laughing. (This always seems to happen when I get undressed!) I have contacted providers from the past or they left and returned to the hobby. They don’t remember me, but then I say remember the joke about the Duck? Without saying a word they then call me by my first name. You can always find bad in people. Some times we need to look a little harder to find the good. Make some ones day, find some thing nice to say to them. Look straight into their eyes and smile. Works for me!

[Lovin50]

Have always sent a followup email thanking for allowing me to spend time with them and the highlights I enjoyed ect. I consider it a privilege to have had the opportunity and would never not do it. I also always put the donation in a card and try and put thought into it best I can. May be a funny card or a just a thank you card with a note from me.

[Courtney Blake]

I really like getting an email thanking me afterwards. I think it's a nice touch

[awl4knot]

I guess I learned old school manners because I always send a "bread and butter note" in the form of an email thanking a lady for giving me such a wonderful time. I never thought it as being intrusive or the harbinger of stalking, just good manners.