Clitoral Stimulation

[fawn]

Clitoral Stimulation Techniques
Yes, No, or Maybe So?!?!?!

Stimulating the clitoris is a bit like giving someone a massage; it may feel fantastic at first, but if you don’t vary your technique the result can lead to numbness or pain, neither of which are conducive to driving your woman wild with ecstasy. When it comes to oral sex, many men believe a simple flick of the tongue will suffice -- and it might, in the teasing phase. But, if you really want to rock her world, you should go above and beyond the standard clitoral stimulation techniques. The following clitoral stimulation techniques are tried and true; they’ll have your woman begging for mercy and so much more.

Oral stimulation
The clitoral hood is there to protect the clitoris and prevent over-stimulation, a sensation that can be extremely uncomfortable and sometimes painful. But that doesn’t mean a little direct teasing isn’t appreciated once in awhile. Using your best foreplay techniques, get her as turned on as you possibly can. When she starts moaning, slide between her thighs and tease her unexposed clitoris with your tongue until it’s fully erect. Gently retract the hood until the clitoris is partially exposed, and dart your tongue across it. You’ll want to repeat this move gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue. When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm -- which should be right around the corner.

Clit tip: Don’t blow directly on the clitoris -- that will only dry the glans out, and nothing is more painful than having attention lavished on a non-lubricated clitoris.

Clit tip: The first strokes should be individual. In other words, you’ll want to momentarily break physical contact between each one. As she nears orgasm, you’ll want to alter your technique and begin sliding your tongue back to the starting point without breaking contact. This will ensure maximum clitoral stimulation.

Multiple manual stimulation
This is a fantastic method of stimulating the clitoris, but the execution can be somewhat tricky. The best position for this is with her lying on her back, and you lying beside her. Start with the gentle massaging method we just discussed, and continue until she’s very, very wet. At that point, you’ll want to slide a finger or two inside of her. Take your time. You don’t want to inflict pain, as that would kill the mood. When she’s ready for more, place your thumb on her clitoris and start to massage it. The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation will double her pleasure, not to mention lead to a very unique orgasm.

Clit tip: If your fingers aren’t long enough to simulate intercourse while keeping your thumb on her clitoris, don’t worry about it. The main stimulation here should be clitoral, and it’s perfectly fine if your other fingers don’t move very much; some women actually prefer this.

[Guest060812]

Damn good post Fawn. Do you give lessons?

[Combustion]

I'm afraid I just cant learn by reading it....

[fawn]

Originally Posted by Combustion

I'm afraid I just cant learn by reading it....

Then come here baby, I will give you personal one on one lessons......

[DFW5Traveler]

I dated one girl who liked direct clitoral stimulation and cramps in the fingers during digital stimulation or moving your mouth away for any reason ( usually it was her gyrations ) that caused a change in momentum, you would have to start over. For her it was extremely difficult to reach orgasm, it just took persistance.

I've also dated a girl who would O every time using the alphabet technique and she couldn't last through the letter Q.

WALDT and the best thing to do when with someone new is ask. If you take on a new provider and you already know it's a sure thing, there shouldn't be any embarasement by asking her preference. Asking her preference and not knowing what to do will probably get you a nice "When Harry Met Sally" sound effect, only.

There is a huge difference between asking her preference and telling her you just aren't that experienced. The latter will probably get you bonus points if you receive her instructions well enough for her to O.

[vnurse]

Damn Fawn! I got hot just reading your post!

I am one who (VERY fortunately) is fairly easy to "get there"...hey, it's ALL good! I am SOOOO looking forward to getting released by my doc this week so I can get busy again! It has been WAAAAAYYY too long! Guys, you'd better look out!

[Tara Evans]

Smoken Babe, my words excatly.

[fawn]

Originally Posted by omaha2dallas

Damn good post Fawn. Do you give lessons?

yes sir, and would be glad to grab your hand and show you just
where to put it and how to rub it.....

[gman44]

I have been known to make women cum in daty but I'll still take a lesson from sexxxxy Fawn

[fawn]

Originally Posted by geniusman

I have been known to make women cum in daty but I'll still take a lesson from sexxxxy Fawn

And I would be glad to give you lessons honey, anytime you get ready...
who knows you may teach me a thing or two.....fawn

[steverino50]

Originally Posted by fawn

And I would be glad to give you lessons honey, anytime you get ready...
who knows you may teach me a thing or two.....fawn

Well, you taught me everything I needed to know. And I think I was a good pupil. Thanks! Of course I could always use some extra credit...

[Lana Warren]

Well steverino50, if my memory serves me right, I don't think you need any lessons1

[fawn]

Originally Posted by steverino50

Well, you taught me everything I needed to know. And I think I was a good pupil. Thanks! Of course I could always use some extra credit...

Steverino, we learned two valuable lessons in sex class didnt we !!!!!!!
and those two things are Multi-Tasking and Easy.....now that we have
those two things down we are perfect..... Fawn

[Guest020610]

women have a clit? now you tell me!!!