Bristol's words of wisdom :)

[Guest102513-1]

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[Guest102513-1]

Never had the pleasure of meeting Bristol. But those that I know, and trust, say she's 100% class

The way she has handled this thread only solidifies my opinion of her

So count me in, as other supporter of Bristol

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Bristol

Like I said before I hate talking about personal matters in a public XOXO

Well it's not like you really had a choice.
There are people like git her whatever the f
his handle is around and there always will be.

You did the smart thing by being cautious and
not meeting said wingnut..

He is either very stupid, le or just plain nuts..130
e mails, that's a bit twisted imo and I know you
did not want to drag this little conflict into the open.
It's easy to see it's not your style, but he left you
no choice.

Too bad he does not qualify for a HOTT game of
cards with someone who has a flawless rep..

Before anyone calls me "COG", I am only calling
it like I see it and I am not sucking up..okay maybe
just a little..

[mike2]

Even though I have yet to contact you I hope to meet you soon! Don't spank me too hard for being too good.

[mike2]

Uhmm those do not look little to me sweet.

[catnipdipper]

Malwoody that sucking sound I hear is not American Jobs going to Mexico from Nafta. lol If you are going to suck she is a good place to try it.

[Bristal]

I love you guys. Thank you and you always make me smile!

I hope I have not scared any of you guys off that have yet to meet me. I am still open to meeting all you great guys.

[Nickdanger]

Bristol, You sound like a smart girl with good instincts and I've seen your showcase......Are you perfect, or am I missing something?

[Muffrider]

Originally Posted by Bristol

I love you guys. Thank you and you always make me smile!

I hope I have not scared any of you guys off that have yet to meet me. I am still open to meeting all you great guys.

It's always nice to be wanted (unless it comes with a bond premium or requires a restraining order).

Be safe doll.

[bartipero]

"...The one reference that does respond to me has no reviews and sends me a email with the same exact bad grammar you email me with. ..."

I thought 'mirroring' was the greatest form of flattery. He and his reference were two peas in a pod. They sat across the aisle from one another growing up. It was mere coincidence that they had the same last name and basic features.

Malwoody, it is never the 130 emails, per se, that gets one in trouble, but the fact there were over 130. It's that 131st one that goes down wrong every time. That is why I limit myself to 129, especially when corresponding with the IRS.

[FireSerpent]

I have seen a lot of rebuttal posts in my time, but I have to say this is the best one I've seen yet.

Ladies, take note... there often will be a time when someone writes a review and, from what you can see, you do not agree with it... you are more than welcome to voice your opinion by posting in the Co-Ed section and showing us things from your perspective.

While this post is not directed at any particular person or review exactly, I will say that reviews only show one side of the story and if a lady disagrees with what she knows of that view doing a post is a good way to fill in the gaps. No one likes a bugaboo... being a cyber/phone creeper is a bit of a turn off to most ladies and not communicating with them in the level which they prefer most is a sure-fire way to not close the deal on your session no matter how far in advance you set things up.

Also, if you have a phone where people log your messages on, my suggestion is to get a tosser phone. You know something inexpensive you can say to everyone you're using for emergencies only... could be a prepaid phone or simply one on a separate plan. No matter what you do... if you have a problem, find solutions--not excuses.

[BigWayne]

I couldn't agree more Fireserpent, great post Bristol!

[jhawq88]

Sometimes we(as hobbiest) need to be put in our place. (it is a woman's world, where we agree about it or not) and we should all show each other respect, no matter it in the food industry or this. It is just common courtesy and sometimes gets misplaced. It is nice to see a woman stand up and make her feelings felt, it is appreciated. I know it was not me, however some it is directed towards may change their ways because of this. Thanks again.

[Guest080613]

Originally Posted by jhawq88

Sometimes we(as hobbiest) need to be put in our place. (it is a woman's world, where we agree about it or not)

Oh, give me a fucking break.

It's not a "woman's world" until she starts writing the check unless you want to surrender it to her. A woman can control HER OWN WORLD but she can't control mine unless I let her.

I understand and support Bristol's first post, the guy was a jerk. Guess what, sometimes the providers are bigger jerks. I don't have a problem with Bristol giving her side of it and rebutting the review (which I couldn't find, BTW, but I didn't look very hard), that's what she's supposed to do and she did it with class and in the right forum.

But...

Put in our place??

Fuck that. Put that INDIVIDUAL in his place, sure. Rebut what Bristol thinks are invalid claims, sure. But put "we as hobbiest" in our place? What a load of shit.

I just finished reading a post by BustyBianca that said "Don't go anywhere in KS". Why? Because you didn't screen properly? Guess what, I live in KS. If you don't want to come here, don't. The line of providers IN KS is deep and gorgeous and they have no problems taking my money.

I'm sympathetic with the things providers have to put up with and the jobs they have but to be honest, they're not (as a group) a very reliable bunch of employees either. Sure, the favorites that are here and most of them post are not in that category, that's why they're here, that's why we love them, but as a group a lot will never make employee of the month at McDonalds.

Put us as hobbiests in our place?

I treat the ladies I choose to see with respect and more. I gladly pay their published rates without haggling if I choose to call them. I'm on time, clean, and provide a safe environment for our times together.

Maybe YOU needed to be put in your place. I don't so don't speak for me.

Jack

[bluesfan]

You have always been a class act....bad apples always leave a bad taste. When something doesn't feel right...it's not!