Moved to proper venue.
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jimmy its unfortunate this happened to you, however consider this an expensive lesson learned though. When your relationship with this woman suddenly became about money it should've been a clue to you that indeed this was no love story.
Although it was civil, both parties (well a rep for one
) stated their sides and therefore unless anyone us were there, there was no more to discuss regarding THEIR situation. With both parties stating their sides its up to the reader to draw up his or her conclusion of what transpired, if you feel the need for more info pm whichever side you want to question but ECCIE will not be the venue to host escorting court.
However if you wish to open a thread on loaning money in the hobby then by all means proceed.