Is this an addiction?

[knotty man]

hell yes its an addiction!
but ive checked myself into a 12 step program
it begins with BBBJ and graduation is a double anal session with an atm finish
holy shit! i cant wait till my senior year.

[txAustin202]

I think so as well and I'm seriously trying to kick it. I made the mistake of trying to stop cold turkey. That didn't work out so I'm trying to just maybe limit myself some and then maybe I can kick it. Was hoping others have had this same "addiction" and had some advice. Some things I've thought about are limiting to 1 session a week, 30 minute sessions, and not looking at the ads or just staying away from the site.

Originally Posted by Barry85

Yes. It is an addiction.

[txAustin202]

I get paid big bucks but I also get a lot of stress. It's not in my DNA to back down so why would I want to come on this board and go back and forth with you fools? Also I'm not obligated to write reviews. Me not doing so should not warrant being harassed with wise ass remarks.

Originally Posted by sixxbach

For a guy who is in good shape and big bucks you sure a wuss. Goodness, I actually said I wish I had your problem.

With a wussy attitude like that, I bet your SO is getting some side action too lol

But on a serious note, you did say you have been disappointing experiences. Is that why you don't review? Not wanting to hurt a provider's business perhaps? It helps to review because some members may have the same tastes that you do and with a more limited budget. There are about 4 guys who if they say no on a girl, I stay away. This is all about sharing information to make informed decisions.

sixx

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by txAustin202

I get paid big bucks but I also get a lot of stress. It's not in my DNA to back down so why would I want to come on this board and go back and forth with you fools? Also I'm not obligated to write reviews. Me not doing so should not warrant being harassed with wise ass remarks.

Look man, I was just busting your chops. I like your spunk. You would fit in great, I tell ya.

Anyway, since you apparently want to quit the hobby and believe it or not, I can relate. Long story, anyway...... volunteer the hours or so that you hobby in a week with something like Meals on Wheels or something..... Be a big brother to someone who is not as blessed as you are apparently...

I don't know just a thought....

sixx

[xxnubyxx]

An addiction is a dependency that last indefinitely... how long have you been hobbying? If for years at your current rate, than yes... if only for a year or less, than no, it's just a novelty experience right now... btw, you mentioned you've been disappointed with (correct me if I'm wrong) half of your encounters... If you like to provide some names on the ones that did satisfied you, we might have some recommendations that appease your taste... Whispers have lots of strippers "friends" that might help you out as well

[knotty man]

if you seriously feel this is an addiction for you. i recommend reading "don't call it love" by patrick carnes Ph.D. dont think it will cure you (you have to truly want to stop) but it may give you some insight into your addiction and why you/we do what we do.
good luck if leavin is what you really want

[NewWave]

hey OP, if you want to quit, just jerk off more. Don't become dependent on it like some people (present company excluded of course) but I doubt you are truly unable to control your urges.

Originally Posted by knotty man

if you seriously feel this is an addiction for you. i recommend reading "don't call it love" by patrick carnes Ph.D. dont think it will cure you (you have to truly want to stop) but it may give you some insight into your addiction and why you/we do what we do.
good luck if leavin is what you really want

once again knotty, thanks for good recommendation. i might need to check it out, sounds like an interesting book.

I also recommend one of my favorites, "Too Big to Fail: Fucking Providers with an Enlarged Penis" by Antoine Reinsdorf.

[Budman]

Originally Posted by txAustin202

I think so as well and I'm seriously trying to kick it. I made the mistake of trying to stop cold turkey. That didn't work out so I'm trying to just maybe limit myself some and then maybe I can kick it. Was hoping others have had this same "addiction" and had some advice. Some things I've thought about are limiting to 1 session a week, 30 minute sessions, and not looking at the ads or just staying away from the site.

Yea, that will work. I see you're logged in bright and early today. How's that "staying away from the site" working for you?

Originally Posted by txAustin202

I get paid big bucks but I also get a lot of stress. It's not in my DNA to back down so why would I want to come on this board and go back and forth with you fools? Also I'm not obligated to write reviews. Me not doing so should not warrant being harassed with wise ass remarks.

You're not being harassed. You posted this thread asking a question. Just because you don't like the answers doesn't mean you are being harassed. Good luck quitting. I honestly do not believe you can cure an addiction by cutting back. You need to quit completely and eliminate all temptation. Eccie, porn, BP, Eros, ect.

[txAustin202]

I did say that I have an appointment this week. I've been talking to her via PM. As far as the harassment statement goes you should really go back and read your response and accusations. It had nothing to do with not liking the answer because your answer was idiotic. Have mod disable account? I'm pretty sure I can browse this site without an account.

Originally Posted by Budman

Yea, that will work. I see you're logged in bright and early today. How's that "staying away from the site" working for you?



You're not being harassed. You posted this thread asking a question. Just because you don't like the answers doesn't mean you are being harassed. Good luck quitting. I honestly do not believe you can cure an addiction by cutting back. You need to quit completely and eliminate all temptation. Eccie, porn, BP, Eros, ect.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Look man.... I like your spunk.

There is something very wrong with that coming from our resident BBBJ Connoisseur

[armydude]

It's an addiction if you think it's out of hand. If addiction has crossed your mind and your asking, then it probably is an addiction. Your senses are telling you so. Kind of like a gambler, who begins to realize it was all fun at first, but now they are beginning to think it's getting to be too much. Good luck

[rockerrick]

It's an addiction, I have recently come to that conclusion myself. Went on a 2 mo bender. Definitely had withdrawls,hard habit to stop. Did cold turkey, only lasted 2wks. Don't plan on quitting,but will be limiting to 2 or 3 times a mo. Good luck to you!

[txAustin202]

Thanks. Good to know that someone else has gone through the same thing. I think there is an outside force not letting me stop. lol I had planned on limiting myself this week but then a West coast provider and a Dallas provider that I've been wanting to see comes to town. So 1 session down. Another for end of week. I'm screwed. Literally and figuratively. haha

Originally Posted by rockerrick

It's an addiction, I have recently come to that conclusion myself. Went on a 2 mo bender. Definitely had withdrawls,hard habit to stop. Did cold turkey, only lasted 2wks. Don't plan on quitting,but will be limiting to 2 or 3 times a mo. Good luck to you!

[Rosiedaie]

Well, if you are going to have any kind of addiction and it only be one addiction, SEX it is, and yes, I am addicted to SEX and that why I got into this. Honest, love it and can not get enough right now at this point in my life and hope I never stop. - lol

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[Yerassman]

Take a tip from Michael Jackson and Beat it........