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Originally Posted by pyramider
I was a lifeguard in pools and the gulf for years. Teaching them to swim will also teach the brats to respect the water. Too many parents thinck that bringing the kids to the pool and leaving them is parenting, its babysitting.
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I agree...yes it does teach respect.
When my oldest son was still a lil toddler (but the size of a 3 yr old...go figure, I make big babies)...I was at my pool with my girlfriend who was laying out getting her tan on.
I figured, well - I'm 6ft 2in..I'm in the deep end at 6ft, and he's right there wanting to join me...I could touch the bottom from the side of the pool, but it didn't occur to me what might happen if he did a big jump - like he was use to doing in the shallow end.
OMG.
I seriously thought we were both going to drown.
I've been taught rescue swimming type things - but in this case - he was so heavy (at least 70 lbs at two years old) and I wasn't prepared to go underwater with a deep breath...and every time I tried to get to the top, I was pushing him under more!
So I planted my feet on the bottom and just pushed him up as best as I could - dying for air...and trying not to panic too badly.
My girlfriend saw him and heard HIM crying and flailing about - and I pushed him over towards the side as well.
If it weren't for her staying aware and listening, God only knows what would have happened to either one of us.
The GOOD thing I did right after that - is I didn't rush him and kiss and hug him like he almost died.
I put a big smile on my face and said, "Hey bubb...I don't think it's a very smart idea to jump to me in the deep side....come back over where we were so you can do it right this time and I can catch you like we were doing before!"
He was a bit reluctant...but I think it is the ONLY thing that kept him from being terrified of the water.
I did teach my kids water safety pretty young - but I didn't do swim lessons till they were older. But I say better late than never.
I think kids should be given basic swim lessons from someone that is not their parent - as I think it's a little more of an impact when they see the pool lifeguards giving them instruction.