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Guest072013 · 05-12-2011, 06:01 AM

so iam not sure if this is an alert much, other than a ncns from a hobbyist.

I did screen him and set a specific time to meet. after the time came up I texted him two times, plus I pm'd him. (stating i was available later if he need me to be) He said he worked nites so I was trying to be understanding.
I have not gotten a pm or text or call back. If you would like this hobbyists info, please pm me. I will not give this info here. (iam not sure I can) But i would like to resolve this and get his side, bt i have pm'd him..right?
i dont know.. bt any ways for now, pm me for info.

licks and kisses

Guest081519 · 05-12-2011, 09:01 AM

Perhaps he hasn't received you message yet. Perhaps he got stuck working 'till the wee hours of the morning. I also work nights. I go in at 5 in the afternoon. There have been times when I haven't been able to leave until after 9am (not by choice). By then, I'm so exhausted that I just remove myself from existence until 330pm. I hope that you guys can work this out. I can also understand how frustrating it is to be NCNS.

Chuck12 · 05-12-2011, 09:38 AM

Sorry that happened. I don't think NC/NS go in the alerts forum.

greenhorn1960 · 05-12-2011, 10:48 AM

Sorry that happened, but sometimes people are inconsiderate. You deserved, at the minimum, the courtsey of a phone call.

I had a situation where I had to cancel at the last minute due to real world circumstances, and called. Provider was understanding, and we just resheduled.

I had a similar situation where I was ncns recently, and I did not apprecieate it, but I guess that is sometimes the nature of the hobby.

However, I understand that we do have different perspectives, provider/hobbiest, but proper edicate shoud prevail, the bottom line is you should have received a phone call.

Guest072013 · 05-12-2011, 11:24 AM

exactly...i tried to be understanding because of his schedule and such.. even offered a later time( after my normal run time) to accommodate. I dont know what else to do or should have done.
and jj.. still have not heard from him and it has been 24hrs.

incognito isis · 05-12-2011, 11:37 AM

right but if a provider does a nc/nc it's all over the boards. Seems you guys should be held acountable for the same inconsiderate behavior

Guest072013 · 05-12-2011, 11:38 AM

u bet ya.. one can only dream

incognito isis · 05-12-2011, 11:41 AM

Mslove, you seem like such a down to earth sweetheart. I don't know you, but I just like you for some reason. I'd hate to think of anyone being rude to you.

Guest072013 · 05-12-2011, 11:44 AM

thank you.. and i have been told that many times. I am real... no faker here...lol.

greenhorn1960 · 05-12-2011, 11:45 AM

Too put it simply, manners. Have them. The Golden Rule also comes to mind.

incognito isis · 05-12-2011, 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by greenhorn1960

Too put it simply, manners. Have them. The Golden Rule also comes to mind.

And from what I can see, MsLove has manners plus kindness. So it's a shame any fella would be so rude to her.

Mokoa · 05-12-2011, 12:28 PM

Not an alert.

Moved to the proper forum.

Guest072013 · 05-12-2011, 12:43 PM

thanks mokoa... i wasnt sure where to put it.. maybe now he can defend himself here. I am willing to be there for him if that was to happen.

licks to all

Guest072013 · 05-13-2011, 10:45 AM

okay so an update... it has been two days and still no word from the hobbyist to defend himself. I really want to pass along the info to fellow providers, to avoid this happening to them. This is not cool, and has wasted a lot of my time and has also caused me stress that i dont like nor deserve. hope everyone has an awesome day... ladies, please pm me and i will give u the info there. licks and kisses to all