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Allie_Kat · 04-28-2011, 12:56 PM

How far is TOO far to drive to meet a provider at her incall? Just curious. If it's a really good session and the lady isn't a clock watcher, does it matter?
I know gas prices are insane right now so that might be a big factor.

Greek73 · 04-28-2011, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

How far is TOO far to drive to meet a provider at her incall? Just curious. If it's a really good session and the lady isn't a clock watcher, does it matter?
I know gas prices are insane right now so that might be a big factor.

I guess it depends on how much extra it would cost to have her do an outcall. But, I think if it was a VERY special provider, I might drive an hour. BUT, I wouldn't drive that far for the first time I saw her. I would have to have some prior experience with her before driving that far.

Of course, this also depends on where I am at. If I am traveling for work and have the time, I would drive further!

jan-w · 04-28-2011, 01:13 PM

That's a tough question with a lot of variables. The main thing is "Do I trust the lady to keep the appt.?" There's nothing worse than driving a distance, then getting no-showed. It's happened to me after driving 30 miles and I know it's happened to other guys.

If I absolutely trusted the lady and was really eager to see her, it wouldn't bother me to drive up to 40 miles or so. I would try to schedule a few other things in the area though so as not to make it a 1 stop destination.

Allie_Kat · 04-28-2011, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by janwalshs

That's a tough question with a lot of variables. The main thing is "Do I trust the lady to keep the appt.?" There's nothing worse than driving a distance, then getting no-showed. It's happened to me after driving 30 miles and I know it's happened to other guys.

Oh, I absolutely agree. It seems to happen often with flakey providers. I wouldn't want to waste my time or gas either.

Your time is just as valuable as ours and ladies should realize that. Most of us who have been around awhile do take that into consideration, I wonder if it's mostly the newer providers that do NC/NS or is just something that a lot of providers do???
I only get the incall once a gentleman calls/texts to tell me he's on his way. That way I don't get stuck with the room and no client. No revolving door provider here.

noleftturn · 04-28-2011, 01:37 PM

I have driven 90 miles to see a lady. BTW-that was one-way. She is well-respected and the trip was worth it. I have also driven 1.5 miles for a great time. I feel if I am the one who initiated the meeting I must REALLY want to see that person, so I will go to her. If for some reason she gives me a general location and I sense I might not have a great time, I will not schedule. My funding does not provide as much play time as I would like so I choose mt encounters more carefully no matter the distance.

noleftturn · 04-28-2011, 01:40 PM

Allie I would drive to you with no problem.

Jazzer · 04-28-2011, 01:49 PM

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Allie I would drive to you with no problem.

+1

I'd drive up to about 45 minutes. Allie, if you're in Lawrence, that's within my range (hint hint)...

Allie_Kat · 04-28-2011, 02:39 PM

I am in Lawrence. It seems easier for me to find nice rooms for a great price out here. Also less to worry about.

noleftturn · 04-28-2011, 02:46 PM

Even though I have only talked to you I think you are worth the turnpike toll also.nlt

jan-w · 04-28-2011, 04:35 PM

[quote=Allie_Kat;1248878]Oh, I absolutely agree. It seems to happen often with flakey providers. I wouldn't want to waste my time or gas either.

Your time is just as valuable as ours and ladies should realize that. Most of us who have been around awhile do take that into consideration, I wonder if it's mostly the newer providers that do NC/NS or is just something that a lot of providers do???

In my experiences, it's been both older and newer ladies that will NC/NS. I would estimate about half of the appt's I've made end up either being cancelled or NC/NS. If she calls me well ahead of time to cancel, I can live with that. I hate ending up in dreary parking lots trying to call someone that doesn't answer.

Allie, I'm curious. You must have friends in the business. What reasons do they give for NC/NS? Do you think they're valid excuses?

Allie_Kat · 04-28-2011, 04:55 PM

I was associated with someone who canceled or NC/NS ALOT because she was too hungover to work. That is probably NOT the reason the majority of the providers NC/NS. LOL. So I'm just as clueless as everyone else why some girls seem to practice this form of bad business often.
I know the only reasons I have canceled with people were due to a legitmate illness or car trouble. And I let the gentlemen know well beforehand so he had time to search for another available provider.

yugdlo · 04-28-2011, 04:57 PM

Hmmm. I've drove 2 hrs. for an incall. But I had researched these ladies and they had some awesome reviews. Also when you live way out in the sticks that doesn't help either. Wish more ladies would visit central MO.

Guest090920 · 04-28-2011, 05:09 PM

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I would estimate about half of the appt's I've made end up either being cancelled or NC/NS.

In the last four plus years since I re-entered these activites after a two year break, I can only remember two cancellations and both were due to 'Aunt Flo' coming into town. In that same period of time, I have never experienced a NC/NS. I'm not tryng to gloat or point fingers, but is it possible that you should choose your companions more carefully?

I'm sorry for taking this subject off track.....back to driving.

mojoworkin · 04-28-2011, 05:31 PM

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I am in Lawrence. It seems easier for me to find nice rooms for a great price out here. Also less to worry about.

Free State Brewery is another good reason to go to Lawrence. Love that place.
Allie and great beer.....mmmmmmm. Well worth the drive.

jan-w · 04-28-2011, 06:07 PM

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In the last four plus years since I re-entered these activites after a two year break, I can only remember two cancellations and both were due to 'Aunt Flo' coming into town. In that same period of time, I have never experienced a NC/NS. I'm not tryng to gloat or point fingers, but is it possible that you should choose your companions more carefully?

I'm sorry for taking this subject off track.....back to driving.

Well, I haven't been doing this a long time so I haven't made as many appt's as most. So, if I've made 10 appts, in the last year, about 5 of them didn't make it. I do try and check reviews and look for ladies with good reps but it still happens. My last no-show was with Ella of the Elves and she had a great rep. Sometimes it just happens no matter who you pick.