Should I bring my own toys?

[Bancroft1957]

OK, maybe it's a guy thing, but I love toys. The toys I mean are, nipple clamps, strap-on, cockrings, dildos, butt plugs, rope, scarfes etc.

Now some ladies might have this assortment in their bag of tricks. would it be better for me to pack my own, and bring it to a session?

Furthermore, do I discuss this with the lady prior to scheduling our fun time?

[jimny]

If you want the lady to use toys on you then bring your own toys. It would depend on the lady your seeing and how you would approach such a discussion and in what detail. Have you seen her before, what kind of relationship do you have with her if you did. If you've not seen her before then maybe ask if she mind if I brought toys.

If you plan on bring toys to use on your lady friend then bring new toys not used and condoms to go with them. Oh don't forget batteries.

Have fun, play safe...

[Bancroft1957]

You're right, I'd hate to be all set to play, and then find out the batteries are dead! LOL

[TommyD]

Bring your own toys - that way, if she is late, you can start without her.

[Lexxxy]

*Giggle* You sir sound like a lot of fun!!!
I think a lot of us ladies have a lot of toys, we just don't always have them with us. Always make sure a lady is comfortable with your fun kinks before you just show up with a bag of tricks I think prebooking before a lady makes a trip is a good idea so that she knows to pack her own to accommodate you, then maybe bring what she may not have or one of your favorite toys
I have a Gent that I see regularly who always goes and buys a new toy for me with lube and a pack of batteries for us to play with. When he books with me he asks me to bring his fav toys that he bought me and then always shows up with a fun new one to add to the collection. For him it works out well because he doesn't have to store them or lug them around.
Batteries are ALWAYS a must

[Bancroft1957]

Isn't fun what life is all about?

[CRISTY-CUPPS]

Hi Hun
I would say Yes be up front with the lady and tell her the kind of playtime you desire
and see what she says, and Yes if you have toys you like, bring your goody bag if she gives you the green light

[naughtyfun]

Now I have am lost. Christy and Lexxy both say to find out if the provider is up for the kind of fun your looking for. Which to me means asking open questions. Why are these types of questions ok to ask, but questions about your services or your menu are not appropriate.

[Guest091813]

With me..you can just bring the bag..Im gonna look in it when you get here anyway..and toys are a cool surprise..Id rather that than miss out of a cool session cuz the guy felt the need to talk about it while setting up the appointment...I've had many gent bring the bag without asking and thats fine with me..nita..

[elghund]

Originally Posted by anita germane

With me..you can just bring the bag..Im gonna look in it when you get here anyway..and toys are a cool surprise..Id rather that than miss out of a cool session cuz the guy felt the need to talk about it while setting up the appointment...I've had many gent bring the bag without asking and thats fine with me..nita..

....not everyone is as cool as you, honey.......

[Bancroft1957]

Originally Posted by anita germane

With me..you can just bring the bag..Im gonna look in it when you get here anyway..and toys are a cool surprise..Id rather that than miss out of a cool session cuz the guy felt the need to talk about it while setting up the appointment...I've had many gent bring the bag without asking and thats fine with me..nita..

you've up-ed your cool quotient with me!

[CRISTY-CUPPS]

Hello Naughtyfun
I dont want to change or hijack Bancrofts thread, but you asked a good question.

Asking open questions to a provider can sometimes be done in a way to where she will not incriminate herself.
You might tell her that you enjoy a certain type of fetish and if this is something that she has any interest in discussing. If you have good references to back you up
being open is sometimes ok.

Now, if some unknown person emails me and asks " Cristy Do you offer greek?" I wont answer a direct question like that and most providers who are professionals will not either.