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pickupkid · 03-25-2011, 11:06 AM

I often read ...too much talking..do you prefer A) no talking B)some talking C) don;t care

pickupkid · 03-25-2011, 11:40 AM

Girls can chime in too

CRISTY-CUPPS · 03-25-2011, 12:47 PM

Talking is very important to get to know someone before screwing, but I dont want to have chat about my/your family or whatever when Im trying to do the wild thing!

AlyssaWest · 03-25-2011, 01:14 PM

I agree you need a little talking to break the ice but everyone is different! But yall guys know in general, girls talk way too much anyway LOL!

guest010313 · 03-25-2011, 01:23 PM

But the dirty talking is fun!

Mariah Moore · 03-25-2011, 02:26 PM

Talk to me I actually wanna know you

TexTushHog · 03-25-2011, 09:42 PM

Some, but not very much. I talk for a living. When I want down time, idle chit chat isn't what I'm looking for.

rrabbit6926 · 03-25-2011, 09:49 PM

What else are you suppose to do while your batteries recharge. Isn't pillow talk part of the fun??

Ansley · 03-25-2011, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Some, but not very much. I talk for a living. When I want down time, idle chit chat isn't what I'm looking for.

I've had to learn to adapt to different types of people. I often get nervous when meeting new men. For me with nervousness comes useless babble. Believe me I have learned to zip the lip with TTH types. Everybody is different and it is part of our job to recognize the different nuances.

charlestudor2005 · 03-25-2011, 10:40 PM

Well, the OP didn't seem to limit this to the male/female relationship.

I'm a loner, for the most part. Talking bugs me. I prefer to have white noise in the background like tv/radio. Hate complete silence.

I B Hankering · 03-25-2011, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I prefer to have white noise in the background like tv/radio. .

Rush or Fox News?

TexTushHog · 03-26-2011, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

What else are you suppose to do while your batteries recharge. Isn't pillow talk part of the fun??

I don't mind a bit of talk between rounds, but frankly a back rub goes much further with me than idle chatter. A back rub with actual intelligent conversation about a timely topic (not my job, sports, my kids or your kids, etc.), lightly done, is even better.

Reya Sunshine · 03-26-2011, 05:51 AM

Isn't GFE about establishing some sort of *temporary* emotional connection? How can two people do that if they don't talk? If a guy only wants 5 minutes or less of conversation and then wants to get right into his acronym checklist that seems like PSE to me(which should cost more than GFE). Sometimes it feels like the guys who scream the loudest for "GFE" sessions just want PSE sessions at a GFE price.

When y'all say GFE is it really just shorthand for BBBJ, DATY, and kissing with tongue but don't bother you with the pesky conversation?

IMO, ideally a GFE session would always be multihour and include some sort of "date" scenario first like drinks or dinner to BUILD intimacy before you jump into bed. Guys don't seem to like the idea of it much but I think if they would try the date scenario they would end up with much less "mechanical" sessions. How can you expect a girl to do much other than be mechanical when she doesn't know a thing about you?

Naomi4u · 03-26-2011, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

Guys don't seem to like the idea of it much but I think if they would try the date scenario they would end up with much less "mechanical" sessions. How can you expect a girl to do much other than be mechanical when she doesn't know a thing about you?

I agree!

burkalini · 03-26-2011, 03:56 PM

It's hard for a provider to talk if she's giving head. Mumbling however is accepted.