There are many providers here that are so sweet and will not at all have a hard time putting you at ease. I am sure many, including yours truly, would enjoy the pleasure of your company in more ways than one. I know some providers, even myself, who love to chat and just spend quality social time together with gentlemen. Even the specifics you mention would warrant, at least on my end and way of thinking, a lower donation because it wouldn't neccesarily be considered a full GFE experience with all that meaning entails. I would think that only to be fair from both ends. Search around and introduce yourself personally to those who might appeal to your taste, I am sure it will not be hard. There are so many beautiful, talented and intelligent ladies here.
Have fun, do your research, and always be safe!!! Happy Hobbying!
Kelli Ann Preston
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